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Posted by ketchupqueen (Member # 6877) on :
 
I told Emma that if she could go the whole afternoon without hurting the kitties, I'd give her a cookie with her juice for her snack, instead of bread.

I forgot, when I said this, that we are out of baby cookies, and even graham crackers.

She's now got her face and hands covered with chocolate from the Milano I gave her.
 
Posted by Ramdac99 (Member # 7264) on :
 
you're a good mother, that is unless she hurt the kittins.
 
Posted by rivka (Member # 4859) on :
 
*laugh* Definitely not a horrible mother. She's over a year, so the occasional bit of chocolate isn't a big deal.

And it's very good that you followed through on what you promised. [Smile]

I trust you got pictures of your chocolate-covered daughter.
 
Posted by Annie (Member # 295) on :
 
Pepperidge Farm is a hallmark of the best parentage, imho.
 
Posted by Annie (Member # 295) on :
 
I suppose I meant "parenting" rather than "parentage." But it makes you think more that way, so I won't correct it.
 
Posted by dawnmaria (Member # 4142) on :
 
I wish I got a Milano if I were good! I think she's lucky to have a mother with such good taste! [The Wave]
 
Posted by ketchupqueen (Member # 6877) on :
 
No pictures today; the batteries need recharging.

quote:
And it's very good that you followed through on what you promised.
That's what I thought. I debated; will she forget what I told her, even though I had to remind her twice to keep her from pulling a tail? Or will she realize that I didn't do what I said, and will that fuel her "behaviors"?

The other day, she got really mad at me for removing her from the cat's water dish for the fifth time in an hour, and stormed away (as much as you can storm when you're still crawling), looking over her shoulder at me, then went in our room and closed the door in my face. I opened it to talk to her, and she shoved hard to slam it all the way shut. [Eek!]

I opened it a crack so she could get out when she wanted to and left her alone. She played for a few minutes and then came out, having calmed down. I guess she needed some "time out".

1 going on 13, I swear.
 
Posted by TMedina (Member # 6649) on :
 
Be glad you have the opportunity to develop patience 13 years early. [Big Grin]

-Trevor
 
Posted by Ramdac99 (Member # 7264) on :
 
totally, the "harm" done by the chocolat [Smile] is nothing when compared to the "harm" if you didn't reward her as you had promised when she did what she was told. [Kiss]
 
Posted by Tater (Member # 7035) on :
 
I wish I got a cookie when I didn't hurt the kitties. [Grumble]
 
Posted by jexx (Member # 3450) on :
 
I never (rarely) hurt kitties!

Where's *my* cookie!

*pouts*

*stompcrawls to kq's bedroom*

*slams door...twice!*

That's adorable that she did that, btw. Hehe.

You are a good mom for following through, and Milano cookies are full of Cookie Vitamins, don'tcha know! You didn't feed her the whole bag, I trust, and she didn't choke on them or anything, so there ya go!

Good job, kq!
 
Posted by ketchupqueen (Member # 6877) on :
 
Cookie vitamins, eh? *eyes rest of bag*
 
Posted by CaySedai (Member # 6459) on :
 
I totally agree with following through on a promise.

And, next time you run out of cookies before making a cookie promise, if you have a cake mix, you can make cake mix cookies - very easy.
 
Posted by ketchupqueen (Member # 6877) on :
 
We don't use cake mix much; I usually bake from scratch. We do have the stuff for molasses cookies. And I can even make them with blackstrap molasses, a good source of iron and calcium. Hmmm...
 
Posted by whiskysunrise (Member # 6819) on :
 
You do need to follow through with what you say otherwise they learn that you don't mean what you say.
 
Posted by romanylass (Member # 6306) on :
 
Sounds like good mothering to me.

I feed my kids healthy meals, but when I give them dessert it's decadent. It all balances out.

[ April 30, 2005, 03:40 PM: Message edited by: romanylass ]
 


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