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yes, but don't try too hard. it is a very fine line you and she are walking. don't make her fall the wrong way.
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kk, another friend of mine said to be confident when I ask her and another one said get a haircut first, I think I'll get a haircut then ask her.
Question: Should I give her a box of chocolaits or is that a later kind of thing?
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It depends on what you are asking. For a proposal of marriage, chocolates might be indicated. For a movie date, chocolates might be just a wee bit overkill.
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IMO, thats a later kind of thing. if she thinks you like her too much it will scare her off. you gotta be cool. ask her to hang out with you and some friends at a coffee shop or bar or something. no pressure, no expectations, just hangin' out.
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Leave out the first part. Just ask for the lunch.
Also, the way it's presented, it could go either way. Much depends on the non-verbal parts. But since since the negative case ("He can try, but it's not going to get him anywhere.") isn't going to do you any good, it's best to just assume the positive one ("I wouldn't mind if he tried to ask me out.").
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I think that, rather than chocolates, you should start by showing her this thread. That'll take the pressure off.
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Showing her that he posted about her on an online forum and is asking advice about her from people he's never met? Sounds...strangely sexy.
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I'm not sure if that is a good idea, sounds kinda stalkerish.
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