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Posted by fiazko (Member # 5812) on :
 
Link

I don't know if the link will work (I think you have to be a member to access it), and I can't stick around to find out, but it's just the June calendar from MovieWatcher.com that lists celebrities' birthdays. I was noticing that several people I "grew up with" are getting up there. Dana Carvey is 49. Johnny Depp is 41. Ally Sheedy is 42, for crying out loud, but the one that completely shocked me -- Gary Busey is gonna be 60. I don't remember any of them looking that old. I'm not that old! It just gets worse, doesn't it?

[Edit to take a whack at getting an apostrophe in the right place after being up all night.]

[ June 10, 2004, 07:11 AM: Message edited by: fiazko ]
 
Posted by Wonko The Sane (Member # 2945) on :
 
link seems to work
 
Posted by fiazko (Member # 5812) on :
 
Good. Thanks. Now say something about me not being the only one feeling old. [Smile]
 
Posted by Happy Camper (Member # 5076) on :
 
[Laugh]

No, no, wait. I mean, you're not the only one who feels old. That's what I meant to say. Really. [Wink]
 
Posted by Book (Member # 5500) on :
 
Wow, Gene Wilder is 71? Courtney Cox is gonna be 40... That's a shocker.
 
Posted by St. Yogi (Member # 5974) on :
 
Jeez, you guys are so old!

[Razz]

[ June 10, 2004, 09:07 AM: Message edited by: St. Yogi ]
 
Posted by TomDavidson (Member # 124) on :
 
Want to feel even older? Try to name "hot" stars for the kiddie set -- musicians, actors, and actresses under the age of 22 or so.
 
Posted by Don Driscoll (Member # 4488) on :
 
I'm a postdoc in a physics research group. Some undergrads were looking at pictures of the Venus transit and I said, "There's a little back spot on the sun today."

[no response]

"It's not the same old thing as yesterday."

[chuckle from my boss]
[puzzled looks from everyone else]

Man, am I old.

-Don
 
Posted by Synesthesia (Member # 4774) on :
 
I must be old too, because I get that reverence ^^
 
Posted by UofUlawguy (Member # 5492) on :
 
Great, Don. Now I'm going to have that song stuck in my head all day. Well, that and Weird Al's version of it.
 
Posted by celia60 (Member # 2039) on :
 
Man, I hope I follow the Johnny Depp trend and get hotter as I age. Not that I think 41 is particularly old, but it's close to what people tend to think I am. I can only hope I'll be a hottie when I get there.

mmmmm...Depp yumminess....
 
Posted by BannaOj (Member # 3206) on :
 
People think you are 40???! no way. man I wonder what age people think I am.

AJ
 
Posted by DocCoyote (Member # 5612) on :
 
Thanks alot. I'm gonna be 40 in exactly 20 days, and I really didn't expect to feel so badly about it.

I keep threatening my husband that I'm gonna pick up a twenty-something guy for a wild fling, but I notice those guys aren't looking at me with lust anymore. One young man who I worked with said to me a few weeks back, "You can't cry in front of me, you're like my mom, and I can't watch her cry either!" (I had just failed to get a promotion I was expecting) Arrgh! A 24-year-old man thinking I'm his mother!

Have a good day everyone.
 
Posted by sndrake (Member # 4941) on :
 
DocCoyote,

The only way I can deal with it is with humor. Just yesterday one of my coworkers - I think she's about 30 - said she was asking some of the "old" people she knows about the Reagan years.

"Old?" I asked. "What ages are we talking about here?"

She replied: "You know - people in their 40s and 50s."

[Grumble] [ROFL]

*old enough to have voted against Reagan - twice*
 
Posted by BannaOj (Member # 3206) on :
 
Pierce Brosnan and Renee Russo have aged gracefully too.

I can't think of Johnny Depp being 40 with out thinking of the Jimmy Buffet "A Pirate looks at 40" song.

AJ
 
Posted by BannaOj (Member # 3206) on :
 
I'm 25, to me "old" is like 65+ and middle aged is 30-65 anything under 30 though and they still think you are too much of a young whippersnapper. I would never think of anyone who voted for Regan as being truly old. You gotta remember WWII in order to be "old".

AJ
 
Posted by celia60 (Member # 2039) on :
 
i do feel old this year. i'm thinking about making this my last birthday. every year from now on, i will continue to turn 25.
 
Posted by Synesthesia (Member # 4774) on :
 
Johnny Depp is a beautiful 41 year old
*is on a serious JD kick*
 
Posted by sndrake (Member # 4941) on :
 
quote:
I would never think of anyone who voted for Regan as being truly old.
Well, the years have been hard on those of us who voted against him. [Wink]
 
Posted by zgator (Member # 3833) on :
 
AJ, thank you. It's nice to know I'm middle-aged. [Angst]

celia, I have a friend, who at last count, had been 25 for 13 years.
 
Posted by celia60 (Member # 2039) on :
 
i don't see why i need to get any older. this is the age i can rent cars at in other countries. after 25, i don't think there are any extra privilidges i care about. porter said i should wait to 35 so i can be president. i don't want to be president.

actually...not driving in ireland was pretty cool. maybe i should turn 24 again this year.
 
Posted by skillery (Member # 6209) on :
 
I visited Jon Boy's site yesterday and saw his pics of some Utah Hatrack get-togethers. Man, I'm ancient.

I'm thinking that in real life people my age might dismiss those people in the pictures as "not ready for primetime." It's cool how the Internet is a great equalizer and allows young people to have credibility amongst old geezers.
 
Posted by katharina (Member # 827) on :
 
People are judged on their words here. The balance of tolerance of may not be what you think.
 
Posted by skillery (Member # 6209) on :
 
Katharina: Do you mean that old people still look down on young people here?
 
Posted by Ela (Member # 1365) on :
 
40's is old? [Dont Know]

::raises eyebrows::

Not by me, it ain't. [Big Grin]
 
Posted by katharina (Member # 827) on :
 
No, I mean you sound like an idiot sometimes and you're a Hatracker anyway.

[ June 10, 2004, 11:40 AM: Message edited by: katharina ]
 
Posted by skillery (Member # 6209) on :
 
44 in two weeks.

Hope I'm not the oldest.

Pass the Geritol.
 
Posted by Ela (Member # 1365) on :
 
Step aside, youngster. [ROFL]
 
Posted by sndrake (Member # 4941) on :
 
Hmmm...

If my memory is reliable...

Ela is older than me. And I'm older than Bob, as hard as that may be to believe.
 
Posted by Ela (Member # 1365) on :
 
Probably, sndrake. How old are you again? [Wink]
 
Posted by sndrake (Member # 4941) on :
 
I am 336 - in dog years. [Razz]

[ June 10, 2004, 11:59 AM: Message edited by: sndrake ]
 
Posted by Ela (Member # 1365) on :
 
[ROFL]
 
Posted by skrika03 (Member # 5930) on :
 
kat, why are you so mean to skillery? I guess I still have a soft spot for you, skillery.

I guess I just have a thing for dudes with feminine names.

I define old as "remembers vietnam". I do this partly to be contrary, since folks who were aware during vietnam coincidentally really hate being thought of as old.
 
Posted by BannaOj (Member # 3206) on :
 
I don't view middle aged as being a bad thing in anyway. It's where you live most of the time in your life so it can't be bad!

AJ
 
Posted by skillery (Member # 6209) on :
 
Pooka, do you mean that if you remember the 60's, you weren't there?

I don't think Katharina's being particularly mean. I should be old enough to take it anyway. I'm here to play and to learn. If I can't handle a little rough play, then I came to the wrong planet.
 
Posted by Papa Moose (Member # 1992) on :
 
Wow, this thread is like the fountain of youth. I'm feeling younger by the minute just reading it.

And back around Reagan election time, though I was too young to vote, I was kinda rooting for Anderson. A third party candidate didn't have a snowball's chance in Houston, though. Of course in that year, neither did a second-party candidate.

--Pop
 
Posted by Olivetta (Member # 6456) on :
 
35 in 14 days, and I shocked the lifeguard at the neighborhood pool. He evidently thought I was my kids' nanny.

Robert was prertending to drown, and I fussed at him for it, then I told little lifeguard boy to tell me if he did it again, because I'd take him out if he did. We chatted a bit, and I said something like, "You have one child and you think you know what you're doing, then you have another and you realize you don't know much."

And he turned to me, eyes wide, and said, "Those are your kids!?"

It surprised me because I definitely have the body of a person who has had babies. No question. I guess I must just act young or something. [Dont Know]

Anyway, it made me feel good. Like getting carded at a rated R movie. [Smile]

I wasn't old enough to have voted for or against Reagan, but I , um, DID volunteer at the Republican headquarters in my home town. I was almost 16 when he was re-elected. They let me and my teen buddies open and run the office on Saturdays all by ourselves. We made the complementary coffee and watched cartoons. [Blushing] I am a bit embarrassed by my youthful Zealot-hood. I think I'm a social liberal and a fiscal ... "clueless" works for me, I guess. [Smile]

But, yeah. I'm old.

(and I got "King of Pain" stuck in my head for the same reason)
 
Posted by skrika03 (Member # 5930) on :
 
Papa Moose is not feminine sounding, I like you too.

I was in fifth grade and I remember we had an assembly about the three party race. We had mascots dressed up as a donkey, and elephant, and a lion.

Was a lion really Anderson's mascot, or was there some editorializing going on there?
 
Posted by skillery (Member # 6209) on :
 
*shares a birthday with Olivetta*

woo hoo! We'll have to hook up in the Wenches' Tavern for a brew.

That means you're a "water sign." Your "water thing" must be swimming. Mine's boating and fishing.
 
Posted by Tammy (Member # 4119) on :
 
<---- doesn't even remember her twenties.

Where does the time go?

[Grumble]
 
Posted by Olivetta (Member # 6456) on :
 
Really? Cool!

That's funny because I do love the water, despite nearly drowning twice as a child (once in a lake and once at a pool). Didn't scare me though, at least not enough to keep me out of the water. Actually, afte rthe second time (a much closer call than the first) I really thought drowning wasn't a bad way to go. You get theis sudden sense of pease and calm just before you go unconscious. I'm sure it's just oxygen deprivation, but it gave me the fearlessness I needed to really learn to swim in deep water. I know how weird that sounds. [Smile]

Meet ya in the tavern on our b-day. I'm buyin' [Big Grin]
 
Posted by DocCoyote (Member # 5612) on :
 
Regarding remembering the 60's, how about the scene in Field of Dreams where the book-burner says, "I remember the 60's." Annie's response is, "No, I think you had two 50's and skipped right along to the 70's."

My memories of Vietnam are listening to the evening news and wondering if Viet Cong and King Kong were somehow related.

One thing I like about flying into Salt Lake is that everyone cards you when you order a beer anywhere in the airport.
 
Posted by DocCoyote (Member # 5612) on :
 
Oh yeah, I learned alot more about Vietnam having married a veteran of two tours. I now know the difference.
 
Posted by Noemon (Member # 1115) on :
 
My wife is 34, but people routinely think that she's younger, typically 25 or so. Oddly enough, at the high school where she started teaching last year, a number of students have assumed that she was a senior, and one fellow teacher tried to kick her out of the teacher's lounge (and then was incredibly embarrassed when she learned that C was a teacher rather than a student).

How it is that people think she looks like a teenager is beyond me. I mean, she looks phenomenal, but she doesn't look like a kid at all. I wonder, sometimes, what people think when they see us out together. I'm two years younger than she is, but I look older than I am, I think, so I expect they think I'm a cradle robber.
 
Posted by Raia (Member # 4700) on :
 
What is wrong with you people?? 40 is not old!! And that's coming from a teenager! [No No]
 
Posted by Ela (Member # 1365) on :
 
((((hugs Raia))) [Smile]
 
Posted by Teshi (Member # 5024) on :
 
quote:
Want to feel even older? Try to name "hot" stars for the kiddie set -- musicians, actors, and actresses under the age of 22 or so.
Do I have news for you...

Two eighteen-year-olds (Not me, some friends), and their assurance that 'older' guys are still good looking*:

still sexy after 35-odd years

The "under thirty-five" list is much shorter.

*The actual phrase used was "Older guys kick ass, man."

*shrug*

EDIT: You're not old 'til you start acting old. No one here acts old... [Big Grin]

[ June 11, 2004, 04:10 PM: Message edited by: Teshi ]
 
Posted by Nick (Member # 4311) on :
 
Hm...
I don't feel old. Yeah, my knees pop a lot, but there is no pain... yet. [Smile]

I'm only 19. I want to be 21. And then I want to stay there. [Big Grin]
 
Posted by michaele8 (Member # 6608) on :
 
Skillery, you beat me by a few weeks. I guess you are as young as you feel. My oldest son graduates high school today and my youngest daughter recently celebrated her 1st. birthday. I often think our attitude on life and where our family is at makes us "young" or not. I still like to go on the swings and slide with my children, while some people I know who are my same age consider fishing a physically challenging sport.
 
Posted by Tammy (Member # 4119) on :
 
quote:
I'm only 19. I want to be 21. And then I want to stay there
Oh no you don't. Trust me!
 
Posted by michaele8 (Member # 6608) on :
 
And doesn't Madonna turn 46 this year? What's the average age of the members of U2 or even Metallica?
 
Posted by Tammy (Member # 4119) on :
 
Johnny Depp is 41! Age isn't hurting that man at all.
 
Posted by porcelain girl (Member # 1080) on :
 
quote:
What is wrong with you people?? 40 is not old!! And that's coming from a teenager!
of course you're a teenager. you're in the safety zone. you may change your mind when your 23rd birthday is around the corner. especially if you haven't got your danged degree yet.
i remember a conversation with ralphie from years ago that i definitely empathize with now.
23? that's almost 25. 25 is halfway to 30, and when you're 30 oh my gosh just pull the plug.
i am already 23, but i think i am much harder on myself about feeling old and having not accomplished anything, while at the same time i see people i admire and they are in their late thirties through late sixties, and i think they are doing great.
maybe if i actually do something i want to do before i am thirty i'll be okay.

a lot of older guys are extremely attractive. especially if they are talented and intelligent. viggo mortensen? i'd push him around in a wheelchair any day.
i still have a thing for ben kingsley and ian mckellen, i am quite certain i'd become a blushing foot shuffling idiot around them.

[ June 11, 2004, 06:57 PM: Message edited by: porcelain girl ]
 
Posted by michaele8 (Member # 6608) on :
 
I have a grandfather who, upon the death of my grandmother, remarried at age 63 and fathered three children.
 
Posted by Ela (Member # 1365) on :
 
quote:
of course you're a teenager. you're in the safety zone. you may change your mind when your 23rd birthday is around the corner. especially if you haven't got your danged degree yet.
I didn't. But maybe I'm just not normal. [Razz]
 
Posted by fiazko (Member # 5812) on :
 
When I was 22 and fresh out of college, the idea of dating a 27 year-old was freaky. Now the idea of dating a 22 year-old is freaky. I'm 25. I'm nowhere near my prime, but the idea that I remember things from 20 years ago and that there are probably college kids who don't even know who Ally Sheedy is, to me, a sign that I'm getting older...and that it's no longer appropriate to be attracted to 18 year-olds.
 


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