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Posted by Raia (Member # 4700) on :

Eighty years ago, a man was born who would contribute to giving me the breath of life, and would change my life forever.

The man who I know as my grandfather accomplished more in his life than anyone would dare to dream about.

He was a genius in the field of biology, an expert in the subject of the history of Palestine, and a widely known figure all over the world.

Forty eight years ago, he became a father for the first time. And three years later, his wife gave birth to a son.

His son later provided him with two grandchildren. His daughter raised three of her own for him to love. The eldest passed away six months ago, throwing my grandfather (not to mention the rest of us) into a state of depression.

Over the past few weeks, his condition has deteriorated rapidly.

As of last night, Jacob Wahrman has left this world forever.

[Cry]

[ June 14, 2005, 03:06 PM: Message edited by: Raia ]

Posted by Narnia (Member # 1071) on :

(((Shani))) I'm sorry dearheart.

Posted by Valentine014 (Member # 5981) on :

Oh Raia, I'm so sorry. I know you were very close to him. [Frown]

Posted by ReikoDemosthenes (Member # 6218) on :

*hugs tightly* I'm so very sorry, Shani...lots of love to you and your family...

Posted by larisse (Member # 2221) on :

Raia,

I am sorry for your and your family's loss. He sounds like a great man, a great father, and a loving grandfather. May he be at peace for always.

{{{{{Raia}}}}

Posted by rivka (Member # 4859) on :

.ברוך דין האמת

[Frown]

I'm so sorry, sweetie. (((((Raia))))) Please pass along my condolences to your parents and sister.

Posted by Raia (Member # 4700) on :

Thank you all for your kind wishes. The funeral is set for this tuesday at 6:00. My house is chock full of relatives, and I just want them all to go away. I hate having people constantly in and out, especially when I'm upset about something. But they can hardly stay at my grandfather's... [Frown]

Posted by Morbo (Member # 5309) on :

I'm so sorry for your loss. (((Shani)))

Posted by Kwea (Member # 2199) on :

I am sure he loved you as much as you obviously loved him. Our condolances.

Rob and Jenni

Posted by bunbun (Member # 6814) on :

I am really sorry, Raia. We will be praying for you and your family today.

Posted by Dagonee (Member # 5818) on :

((Raia)) [Frown]

Posted by Dragon (Member # 3670) on :

(((((Raia)))))

I'm so sorry.

Posted by Beren One Hand (Member # 3403) on :

((Raia))

Lots of love and good thoughts for your family. [Frown]

Posted by Megan (Member # 5290) on :

(((Raia)))

Posted by Tante Shvester (Member # 8202) on :

I wish you and your family comfort and strength in this difficult time.

Posted by Little_Doctor (Member # 6635) on :

((Raia)) I'm sorry for your loss.

Posted by Desdemona (Member # 7100) on :

*hugs tight and doesn't let go*

Posted by Ryuko (Member # 5125) on :

I'm sorry, Raia. [Frown]

Posted by Tammy (Member # 4119) on :

[Frown]

((((Raia))))

Posted by Derrell (Member # 6062) on :

(((Shani)))

Posted by Raia (Member # 4700) on :

Thank you everyone. *hugs back* It means a lot.

Posted by ketchupqueen (Member # 6877) on :

I'm so sorry. (((hugs)))

Posted by Shigosei (Member # 3831) on :

Thank you for telling us about your grandfather. He sounds like a fascinating man. I'm so sorry for your loss, Raia.

Posted by katharina (Member # 827) on :

*hugs Raia* Oh, honey, I'm sorry.

Posted by IanO (Member # 186) on :

I'm sorry, Raia.

Posted by Lady Eruve (Member # 6883) on :

I don't have any clever, comforting words, but...*hugs*
(((((Raia)))))

Posted by breyerchic04 (Member # 6423) on :

((((nini, maya, and whole family))))) If there's anything I can do sweetie, let me know.

Posted by Corwin (Member # 5705) on :

((((Raia)))) I'm sorry for your loss.

Posted by romanylass (Member # 6306) on :

Oh, Shani I am so sorry. I really wish I could hug you in person. Can you e-mail me your address? What a loving tribute to your grandfather.

Posted by quing-jao (Member # 4309) on :

Oh Shani, I'm so sorry... *hugs*

Posted by Anna (Member # 2582) on :

Shani, I can't seem to find my words. Just know that a lot of people love you and are here for you, sweetie. Hang on.
*very tight hug*

Posted by Raia (Member # 4700) on :

The funeral is tonight. I know I've said that already, but I can't sit still, I'm shaking, and I keep having to busy myself. So I thought maybe telling you all again would ease that a little bit.

I hardly slept last night, it was really hot, and the mosquitoes ate me alive, and I kept waking up in tears.

I just can't imagine this world without him. It's like trying to imagine a chocolate cake without the chocolate. It can't be done.

It's just not fair. [Frown]

*hugs everyone* Thanks a million for your comments.

Posted by Elizabeth (Member # 5218) on :

I am so sorry.

Posted by Raia (Member # 4700) on :

The funeral was today... oh my god, it was so awful. When Tiltan died, at least I didn't have to watch them put her in the grave... today, I did. This time it was a religious ceremony, as opposed to last time, so they had my grandfather there through the entire thing, on a stretcher, with a talit (prayer shawl) covering him. Afterwards, they brought him out to the grave, and slid him into the hole. I had to stand and watch my grandfather's body slide into a hole in the ground, never to come out again. I hope I never have to see anything like it again. *cries uncontrollably*

There were so many people there. He really touched the lives of so many people. But I just can't imagine this world without him. I'm not ready to live in a world without my grandfather. I thought I could never feel worse than I did when Tiltan died, and I guess I don't feel worse, but I just feel like this all over again. Two funerals in one year -- it's more than I can handle. I just want to curl up forever.

Posted by Derrell (Member # 6062) on :

[Frown]

(((Shani)))

Posted by Noemon (Member # 1115) on :

Ah, Raia, I'm sorry. If it would help, tell us stories about him.

Posted by Jim-Me (Member # 6426) on :

((Raia))

Posted by romanylass (Member # 6306) on :

Oh, Shani, that must have been so very hard to see. Got your e-mail, I want to send you a little something.

Posted by BotaLadyG (Member # 7053) on :

I am so sorry Raia! You have my sincerest sympathy. ((((Raia))))

Nicole

Posted by Kwea (Member # 2199) on :

I am very sorry for you loss. [Frown]

Posted by Raia (Member # 4700) on :

Noemon, I may do that once I recover a little bit. He was a very unusual man.

Romany, thank you. *smile* You're so sweet. Really.

Everyone else: Thank you too. *hugs* [Frown]

Posted by whiskysunrise (Member # 6819) on :

[Group Hug]

Posted by Boon (Member # 4646) on :

[Frown]

Posted by Rappin' Ronnie Reagan (Member # 5626) on :

((((raia))))