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Posted by PSI Teleport (Member # 5545) on :
 
I'm hoping this won't turn into just another abortion debate, although it probably will eventually. Hopefully we can get some use out of it before then.

Let me go on the record of saying that I'm pro-life. I'm having an issue and I don't know if there are any legal precedents for this.

On the drive home from work, I have to take the west-bound frontage road. On the right side of the road, there is an abortion clinic. There are protesters out there nearly every day, holding 5-foot pictures of aborted fetuses. Of course, the pictures are from late term abortions, so that they essentially just look like dead babies. They are very grotesque. The most recent on is a picture of a head held in forceps.

My problem is that this would be offensive to almost anyone. I've pulled over and told this to the protesters. They don't really care. They aren't affiliated with any organization so there's not really anyone else to complain to. My personal major issue is that I can't get home without passing them, and there's no way to avoid my children seeing this.

Their argument is basically the free speech one. But I can't help thinking that there has to be some sort of decency laws to protect, at the very least, children's eyes. I mean, you can't put porn on a billboard. I'm guessing you couldn't put pictures of a dead child either. Am I off-base on this?

Any ideas or suggestions?

[ July 27, 2007, 09:03 PM: Message edited by: PSI Teleport ]
 
Posted by rivka (Member # 4859) on :
 
Much sympathy. [Frown] I don't know what to suggest if there's no organization to complain to.

It is unfortunate that they have no interest in protecting the already-living children who must drive by and see such traumatising images.
 
Posted by littlemissattitude (Member # 4514) on :
 
You'd have to talk to a lawyer to get the story on the legal aspects. If it were me, I would find out exactly what the laws in my jurisdiction are on signage. Perhaps there is a way that the protesters could be limited to carrying signs of a size that would not allow the details of the pictures to be readily visible from the street. That way, they could keep their signs but people driving by would not be bombarded by unwelcome gruesome pictures.

If nothing else, it could possibly be argued that a five-foot sign carried on a sidewalk is a) distracting to traffic and b) could be a hazard to visibility for both pedestrians and drivers.
 
Posted by Pam Tyler (Member # 10595) on :
 
Have you called either local government or the police to inquire what is allowed to be on their signs? I ask, because here in Nevada, even certain phrases are not allowed to be on picket signs. It may be that no one has called to make a complaint, so their actions are being ignored. I'm sure that there are other, more effective things, that could be on their signs instead. Free speech doesn't necessarily mean that there are no regulation.
 
Posted by Hookt_Un_Fonix (Member # 10094) on :
 
I wonder if the sign bearers realize how bad they are actually hurting there cause. When people go for shock tactics like that, I am less likely to listen to their argument.

I am sure though, that there are laws in place to prevent them form doing such a thing. In that case I woudl report them to the police first, and see what they can do before you spend the money on a lawyer.

Perhaps you can even get zoning and ordinance involved if the police do not work out. What ever happened to debate, and intelligent conversation?
 
Posted by PSI Teleport (Member # 5545) on :
 
I didn't even think about calling the police...I have this sort of gut reaction against ever calling them about anything because my mom used to tell me that if you call 9-1-1 for something that isn't a real emergency you could be arrested. This is not good info for a 5-year-old.
 
Posted by rivka (Member # 4859) on :
 
O_O

No, it's not.
 
Posted by Pam Tyler (Member # 10595) on :
 
Don't call 9-1-1, since this is not an emergency. There should be a main number for the police department, where they will be more helpful, and that will keep you out of trouble. We want to help you solve a problem, not create a new one. [Smile]
 
Posted by rivka (Member # 4859) on :
 
Pretty sure she wasn't saying she was going to call 911. While a 5-year-old doesn't know the difference, I'd bet PSIT is a tad older than that. [Wink]

Oh, and welcome to Hatrack, Pam! [Smile]
 
Posted by Bokonon (Member # 480) on :
 
And you don't have to call 9-1-1, you can look up the local police department in a regular ol' phone book.

-Bok

EDIT: rivka, I think she was saying HER mom told her when she was five, and has had a disinclination ever since.
 
Posted by brojack17 (Member # 9189) on :
 
I am pro-life myself but have never understood the method used to protest. I'm sorry you and your kids have to see that.
 
Posted by PSI Teleport (Member # 5545) on :
 
Ack, I started something silly.

Rephrase: My mom has told me lots of crazy things that have made me nervous about authority. That's one that made me scared of the police. I obviously would not call 9-1-1 about this. [Smile]
 
Posted by Seatarsprayan (Member # 7634) on :
 
quote:
There are protesters out there nearly every day, holding 5-foot pictures of aborted fetuses. Of course, the pictures are from late term abortions, so that they essentially just look like dead babies.
They don't look *like* dead babies, they *are* dead babies. If you're pro-life, that is.

Let me ask this: when they show pictures and video on TV of starving children with distended bellies, and ask for money to buy them food, is that offensive? To me, the fact that children are starving is offensive, but not that someone tries to make me aware of it.

Likewise, for people that believe pictures of aborted fetuses are pictures of murder victims, I would think they would be offended at the killing going on inside the building, not the people trying to make others aware of it.
 
Posted by El JT de Spang (Member # 7742) on :
 
And, just under the 3 hour mark, the gauntlet is thrown down.

How dare a parent question whether or not there's a way to keep their kids from seeing giant posters of dead babies/fetuses every day. The outrage!
 
Posted by scholar (Member # 9232) on :
 
I have only ever seen pictures of starving children on after prime time. Also, I can't think of a case where protesters held up signs showing gruesome pictures of murder victims. Generally, more respest is shown for the victim.
 
Posted by ludosti (Member # 1772) on :
 
quote:
Likewise, for people that believe pictures of aborted fetuses are pictures of murder victims, I would think they would be offended at the killing going on inside the building, not the people trying to make others aware of it.
The problem is not that the protesters are trying to make people aware of the issue, it is that young children (PSI's kids are quite young, we're not talking about teenagers) are being exposed to disturbing pictures of dead babies.

PSI - Hopefully the local police department can help clarify what the rights of the protesters are. I can't imagine that large pictures of dead children are considered appropriate for public display. You've got such great kids - I'm really sorry they're being exposed to such disturbing things.
 
Posted by rivka (Member # 4859) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Bokonon:
rivka, I think she was saying HER mom told her when she was five, and has had a disinclination ever since.

Understood. But while at 5 she couldn't make a distinction between calling 911 and calling the cops, I bet she can now. That's all I was saying.

quote:
Originally posted by PSI Teleport:
Rephrase: My mom has told me lots of crazy things that have made me nervous about authority. That's one that made me scared of the police. I obviously would not call 9-1-1 about this. [Smile]

There we go. [Smile]

quote:
Originally posted by Seatarsprayan:
Let me ask this: when they show pictures and video on TV of starving children with distended bellies, and ask for money to buy them food, is that offensive? To me, the fact that children are starving is offensive, but not that someone tries to make me aware of it.

If they were showing such ads in the middle of the Saturday morning cartoons you BET it would bother me. (And my kids don't watch TV, certainly not on Saturday.) There are certain things that are appropriate fodder for all ages, and some which are not.

I want my kids to know about the Holocaust, but that doesn't mean I'll be showing my 7-year-old pictures of camp survivors immediately after liberation anytime soon.
 
Posted by vonk (Member # 9027) on :
 
quote:
Let me ask this: when they show pictures and video on TV of starving children with distended bellies, and ask for money to buy them food, is that offensive? To me, the fact that children are starving is offensive, but not that someone tries to make me aware of it.
If that guy with the white beard were walking around a dirty village talking calmly about saving them while carrying around a dead child, yeah, I'd be offended.

The protestors are showing the very worst possible outcome, not a sad step along the way as the commercials do. It would be more analagous with the starving kids commercials if they had 5 foot tall pictures of very depressed pregnant women, or maybe a scared looking fetus in an ultrasound
 
Posted by Javert Hugo (Member # 3980) on :
 
quote:
a scared looking fetus
?????

How? Digital manipulation to make it have big eyes and an open mouth? A knife or vaccuum tube coming near it? Thought bubbles??
 
Posted by vonk (Member # 9027) on :
 
All three!
 
Posted by Javert Hugo (Member # 3980) on :
 
I can't decide if your tongue is firmly in your cheek or if you have so little respect for the protesters' beliefs that you love the thought of forcing them to look ridiculous.
 
Posted by erosomniac (Member # 6834) on :
 
Given how little respect the protesters have for anyone else's beliefs, what makes you feel their beliefs deserve any respect at all?
 
Posted by Javert Hugo (Member # 3980) on :
 
Ah - the second for you. I see.

A race to the bottom is not a solution.
 
Posted by vonk (Member # 9027) on :
 
1. Tongue in cheek.
2. The protestors already make themselves look ridiculous by their methods, IMO. It is not lack of respect for their beliefs, it is lack of respect for their methods.
3. My point in that particular post was that there are degrees to shock media. Because I am not offended by the starving kid commercials does not mean I shouldn't be offended by pictures of late term abortions. If we were to make the two different scare tactics equal, the result would be ridiculous posters of scared looking fetuses or horribly offensive commercials.
 
Posted by erosomniac (Member # 6834) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Javert Hugo:
Ah - the second. I see.

A race to the bottom is not a solution.

Given that I'm not the person whose post you were responding to, why would you assume the second about him?
 
Posted by BlackBlade (Member # 8376) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by erosomniac:
Given how little respect the protesters have for anyone else's beliefs, what makes you feel their beliefs deserve any respect at all?

Because if the protestors on both sides cannot present their cause with the dignity all good causes have, then those carrying the torch need to put it down and allow others to pick it up.

Those who are willing to betray humanity and moral decency in the name of my cause are my enemies (possibly the most vile kind) just as surely as those who stand against me are.

Never give up the moral high ground.
 
Posted by vonk (Member # 9027) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by erosomniac:
quote:
Originally posted by Javert Hugo:
Ah - the second. I see.

A race to the bottom is not a solution.

Given that I'm not the person whose post you were responding to, why would you assume the second about him?
Thanks. I was trying to figure out how to say that without being mean.
 
Posted by twinky (Member # 693) on :
 
I have two observations that are vaguely related to the thread.

First:

code:
A = number of starving children in third-world countries / total number of impoverished children in third-world countries

B = number of late-term abortions in the U.S. / total number of abortions in the U.S.

I'm pretty sure that A >>> B.

Second:

Reading about that makes me want to go protest a hypothetical strip club down the street from that abortion clinic by parading around in front of it carrying large pornographic placards.
 
Posted by Hookt_Un_Fonix (Member # 10094) on :
 
pro choice, or pro life vulgar is vulgar. I am okay with them expressing their beliefs, but they need to do it in a manner that is not so extreme. I understand that when there is an abortion there is going to be a human or near human corpse that is produced. I also understand that my nine year old daughter would not need to see that on our ride home.

I know in life she will get exposed to these things, but I try to keep those things in due time. I try to make sure she is prepared for things like that before they scar her for life.

I know my daughter will eventually learn about sex, but I don't walk her into an adult bookstore. People who claim to have such a love for life, and fight so hard to preserve it, sure don't seem to have a lot of respect for those of us that are living it.

Free speech is free speech, and good manners are good manners. They have the right to express their opinions until it causes harm to another person, and a five year old being screamed at by a man holding a picture of a bloody dead baby can be very harmful to a little kid like that.
 
Posted by Javert Hugo (Member # 3980) on :
 
*shrug* I thought erso was vonk since he was answering the question, so I responded as if he were.
 
Posted by erosomniac (Member # 6834) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by BlackBlade:
Because if the protestors on both sides cannot present their cause with the dignity all good causes have, then those carrying the torch need to put it down and allow others to pick it up.

Those who are willing to betray humanity and moral decency in the name of my cause are my enemies (possibly the most vile kind) just as surely as those who stand against me are.

Never give up the moral high ground.

This is likely just a semantic disagreement, but wouldn't you say that a person who says "abortion is murder; it is my duty to work on making abortion illegal" has a different set of beliefs than a person who says "abortion is murder; it is my duty to guilt trip those who make use of abortion facilities with enormous, graphically explicit signs visible to everyone in a thousand foot radius?"
 
Posted by BlackBlade (Member # 8376) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by erosomniac:
quote:
Originally posted by BlackBlade:
Because if the protestors on both sides cannot present their cause with the dignity all good causes have, then those carrying the torch need to put it down and allow others to pick it up.

Those who are willing to betray humanity and moral decency in the name of my cause are my enemies (possibly the most vile kind) just as surely as those who stand against me are.

Never give up the moral high ground.

This is likely just a semantic disagreement, but wouldn't you say that a person who says "abortion is murder; it is my duty to work on making abortion illegal" has a different set of beliefs than a person who says "abortion is murder; it is my duty to guilt trip those who make use of abortion facilities with enormous, graphically explicit signs visible to everyone in a thousand foot radius?"
Somebody broke the tables!

Yes I would say there is a difference BTW. It just seemed you were saying in effect, "Why should one side conduct itself properly when the other side is packed with coniving jerks?"

I'm pretty sure though erosomniac that if we found outrselves in the same protest, we might be protesting differently but I doubt I'd see you do anything that would make me leave the protest. [Wink]
 
Posted by MrSquicky (Member # 1802) on :
 
Where was he talking about the conduct of the other side from the abortion protestors? What I saw was a disrespect with the way those people acted, which I kind of think they've earned.
 
Posted by erosomniac (Member # 6834) on :
 
I see. What I was saying is: I'm disinclined to respect the beliefs of anyone whose beliefs are so inherently disrespectful and undeserving of respect (say that five times fast!). In this case, I have no respect for the beliefs of the protesters mentioned in the OP; I then wanted to clarify that this doesn't mean I have no respect for the beliefs of pro-life individuals, period, y'know?

But we're on the same page, so---yeeeeeeah.
 
Posted by BlackBlade (Member # 8376) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by erosomniac:
I see. What I was saying is: I'm disinclined to respect the beliefs of anyone whose beliefs are so inherently disrespectful and undeserving of respect (say that five times fast!). In this case, I have no respect for the beliefs of the protesters mentioned in the OP; I then wanted to clarify that this doesn't mean I have no respect for the beliefs of pro-life individuals, period, y'know?

But we're on the same page, so---yeeeeeeah.

I see what you are saying, thanks for the clarification.

Yes we are on the same page of a broken thread. Preventing/Fixing broken thread tables is as good a cause as any in my book. I can't think of a good slogan though.

edit: I do think one of the hardest things to do however is to encounter evil people who say they are peddling a certain cause, and to not make the assumption that their cause is also evil.
 
Posted by PSI Teleport (Member # 5545) on :
 
quote:
quote:
There are protesters out there nearly every day, holding 5-foot pictures of aborted fetuses. Of course, the pictures are from late term abortions, so that they essentially just look like dead babies.
They don't look *like* dead babies, they *are* dead babies. If you're pro-life, that is.
For clarification, I also believe they are dead babies. That's my number one argument against showing those pictures; if you honestly believe that an aborted fetus is a murdered person, then parading five-foot pictures of it shows an extreme lack of respect for human life.

I used the phrase, "looks like dead babies" to make it clear to people that what was on the picture was NOT an extremely early-term fetus that didn't look much like a baby yet. It was obvious to my children what it was.

Now, what if I had phrased it this way?

"There are protesters out there nearly every day, holding 5-foot pictures of aborted fetuses. Of course, fetuses are babies so that's what's really on the picture."

Within two minutes this thread would have turned into another normal abortion thread where nothing gets solved. That's what I was trying to avoid, hence the title.
 
Posted by Seatarsprayan (Member # 7634) on :
 
quote:
quote:
Originally posted by Seatarsprayan:
Let me ask this: when they show pictures and video on TV of starving children with distended bellies, and ask for money to buy them food, is that offensive? To me, the fact that children are starving is offensive, but not that someone tries to make me aware of it.

If they were showing such ads in the middle of the Saturday morning cartoons you BET it would bother me. (And my kids don't watch TV, certainly not on Saturday.) There are certain things that are appropriate fodder for all ages, and some which are not.

I want my kids to know about the Holocaust, but that doesn't mean I'll be showing my 7-year-old pictures of camp survivors immediately after liberation anytime soon.

Very good point.

But then again sometimes the cry for human justice must trump aesthetics. If 100 blacks were lynched every day in Georgia, and protesters used pictures of the murdered victims to try to make people *aware* that it was even going on, would they be evil, or merely misguided, or actually doing something good?

Because I doubt that any TV station would accept an ad showing fetal corpses, no matter what time of day. Newspapers wouldn't print it. But I've seen many lynch victims in the media, in documentaries about this and that. It's not kept hushed up.
 
Posted by PSI Teleport (Member # 5545) on :
 
On a side note, I find it incredibly irritating that, as a pro-lifer, I feel like I can't use the phrase "fetus" without offending other pro-lifers. Fetus is a scientific term. If I'm talking about a human that is in the womb, I am going to call it a fetus. Just because a pro-choicer doesn't necessarily agree that a fetus is a baby DOES NOT mean that "fetus" is a derogatory term somehow.
 
Posted by PSI Teleport (Member # 5545) on :
 
quote:
But then again sometimes the cry for human justice must trump aesthetics.
I'm not sure aesthetics is the biggest concern. Some people are old enough to handle certain concepts. Others aren't. Actually, when my husband was four he saw a documentary on the holocaust, complete with bodies in a mass grave, and he became withdrawn for weeks. It caused psychological damage to him.

You don't have to let your kids watch the news when they are very young. You can scan the paper before letting them see it. But you can't turn around in a car and cover their eyes while driving down the road.
 
Posted by Amanecer (Member # 4068) on :
 
Seatarprayan,

A documentary is far from the same thing as public domain. I've never seen graphic lynching pictures on the nightly news and I suspect I never will. There are plenty of documentaries regarding abortion. This topic is about unavoidable graphic pictures, not something that's extremely voluntary whether you see or not.
 
Posted by Seatarsprayan (Member # 7634) on :
 
quote:
That's my number one argument against showing those pictures; if you honestly believe that an aborted fetus is a murdered person, then parading five-foot pictures of it shows an extreme lack of respect for human life.
When I saw the movie Outbreak, at one point the President's advisers were contemplating destroying an entire town to stop the spread of a virus. The chief of staff or some guy spread out pictures of the citizens there, and yelled at everyone to look at them.

quote:
Those are the citizens of Cedar Creek, go ahead take a look at them - these are not statistics ladies and gentlemen - they're flesh and blood! I want you to burn those images into your memories, because they should haunt you until the day you die!
He was trying to get the people making decisions to see them as real people.

I guess I see abortion protesters using dead baby pictures the same way: trying to get people to actually think about what really happens in there. I don't see it as disrespectful of human life, necessarily. Of course if the people you say were "parading" around, then it certainly could be done in a horrible and disrespectful way. I just don't see it as necessarily so.
 
Posted by MrSquicky (Member # 1802) on :
 
quote:
But then again sometimes the cry for human justice must trump aesthetics.
I'm pretty sure the issue here isn't aesthetics, but rather the disturbing/damaging effect these images can have on children.
 
Posted by rivka (Member # 4859) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Seatarsprayan:
quote:
quote:
Originally posted by Seatarsprayan:
Let me ask this: when they show pictures and video on TV of starving children with distended bellies, and ask for money to buy them food, is that offensive? To me, the fact that children are starving is offensive, but not that someone tries to make me aware of it.

If they were showing such ads in the middle of the Saturday morning cartoons you BET it would bother me. (And my kids don't watch TV, certainly not on Saturday.) There are certain things that are appropriate fodder for all ages, and some which are not.

I want my kids to know about the Holocaust, but that doesn't mean I'll be showing my 7-year-old pictures of camp survivors immediately after liberation anytime soon.

Very good point.

But then again sometimes the cry for human justice must trump aesthetics. If 100 blacks were lynched every day in Georgia, and protesters used pictures of the murdered victims to try to make people *aware* that it was even going on, would they be evil, or merely misguided, or actually doing something good?

AESTHETICS?!? This is about not traumatizing children. "Aesthetics" be damned.

I would find images of lynching victims in places that children will see them just as wrong.

[Edit: Man, you people post fast!]
 
Posted by twinky (Member # 693) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Seatarsprayan:
I guess I see abortion protesters using dead baby pictures the same way: trying to get people to actually think about what really happens in there.

...by focusing exclusively on the most gruesome subset of "what happens in there," which if I'm not mistaken is an extremely small subset.
 
Posted by pH (Member # 1350) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Seatarsprayan:
quote:
That's my number one argument against showing those pictures; if you honestly believe that an aborted fetus is a murdered person, then parading five-foot pictures of it shows an extreme lack of respect for human life.
When I saw the movie Outbreak, at one point the President's advisers were contemplating destroying an entire town to stop the spread of a virus. The chief of staff or some guy spread out pictures of the citizens there, and yelled at everyone to look at them.

quote:
Those are the citizens of Cedar Creek, go ahead take a look at them - these are not statistics ladies and gentlemen - they're flesh and blood! I want you to burn those images into your memories, because they should haunt you until the day you die!
He was trying to get the people making decisions to see them as real people.

I guess I see abortion protesters using dead baby pictures the same way: trying to get people to actually think about what really happens in there. I don't see it as disrespectful of human life, necessarily. Of course if the people you say were "parading" around, then it certainly could be done in a horrible and disrespectful way. I just don't see it as necessarily so.

In order for those two situations to be anywhere near equivalent, they'd have to be pictures of mangled corpses of the townspeople.

-pH
 
Posted by PSI Teleport (Member # 5545) on :
 
I win!

---

Seatarsprayan, these pictures are nothing like showing pictures of living people to get someone to think. I would have no problem at all with displaying 5-foot images of laughing babies in front of an abortion clinic.
 
Posted by Hookt_Un_Fonix (Member # 10094) on :
 
Exactly. PSI I could not agree more. Our jobs as parents would be to provide a safe educational environment for our children to grow up in. I do not want to shield my daughter from the world but I do want to introduce it to her in phases, that I knwo she can handle with out it leaving lasting damage on her.

I also hate nightmares, because when she has them I do not get any sleep either. It just makes life even harder for her in a world that is even hard for us adult to comprehend.

I tell you what, if I saw them on the side of the road doing that, I would have pulled over to deal with them. It woudl have started with diplomacy and either way it would have ended with those signs coming down.

I am all about freedom of speech, but I am also a big fan of my daughter. I also understand that there is a time and place for certain things. I also understand that you can protest what ever you want, but in some cases you need a permit, for just this reason.
 
Posted by kmbboots (Member # 8576) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by pH:
In order for those two situations to be anywhere near equivalent, they'd have to be pictures of mangled corpses of the townspeople.

-pH

And they would have to be showing the pictures to random passers-by including children.
 
Posted by mr_porteiro_head (Member # 4644) on :
 
quote:

I tell you what, if I saw them on the side of the road doing that, I would have pulled over to deal with them. It woudl have started with diplomacy and either way it would have ended with those signs coming down.

How far would you have gone? Would you beat somebody unconscious if they weren't willing to bring down the signs?
 
Posted by PSI Teleport (Member # 5545) on :
 
I considered getting a bigger sign and standing right in front of the other guy.
 
Posted by Seatarsprayan (Member # 7634) on :
 
quote:
A documentary is far from the same thing as public domain. I've never seen graphic lynching pictures on the nightly news and I suspect I never will.
I wasn't alive when it was going on; did they never show it then? Only in documentaries after civil rights progress was made?

If so, I wonder if more progress wouldn't have been made sooner if it *had* been shown.

quote:
There are plenty of documentaries regarding abortion. This topic is about unavoidable graphic pictures, not something that's extremely voluntary whether you see or not.
I completely agree that if at all possible children should be kept from seeing shocking things.
 
Posted by twinky (Member # 693) on :
 
To add to pH and kmbboots, I think the pictures would also have to reflect what actually happens in the abortion clinic, rather than being selected exclusively from a set of procedures that comprise either about 10% or about 1% of abortions (depending on the precise nature of the pictures).

Of course, parading around with a blastocyst or zygote emblazoned on a placard might not be quite so rhetorically compelling.
 
Posted by Seatarsprayan (Member # 7634) on :
 
C'mon people, I was alluding to the motive, not the method, in my little Outbreak remembrance.

quote:
I would have no problem at all with displaying 5-foot images of laughing babies in front of an abortion clinic.
And I think that would perhaps be much more effective, actually.
 
Posted by Mucus (Member # 9735) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by twinky:
quote:
Originally posted by Seatarsprayan:
I guess I see abortion protesters using dead baby pictures the same way: trying to get people to actually think about what really happens in there.

...by focusing exclusively on the most gruesome subset of "what happens in there," which if I'm not mistaken is an extremely small subset.
++
 
Posted by PSI Teleport (Member # 5545) on :
 
quote:
I wasn't alive when it was going on; did they never show it then? Only in documentaries after civil rights progress was made?
I don't think blacks were regarded as having the same value of life back then. That was the problem.

Also, in regards to your last statement, the motive is not what I have a problem with. It's the method.

Twinky: [Big Grin]
 
Posted by twinky (Member # 693) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Seatarsprayan:
quote:
I would have no problem at all with displaying 5-foot images of laughing babies in front of an abortion clinic.
And I think that would perhaps be much more effective, actually.
I agree.
 
Posted by PSI Teleport (Member # 5545) on :
 
I personally really like the pictures of moms and dad playing with babies. That helped me a lot when I was having a similar moral crisis.
 
Posted by Mucus (Member # 9735) on :
 
RE: Outbreak

As a almost complete aside, I find that kind (as shown in Outbreak) of Hollywood filmmaking pretty irritating. In reality, I would sure hope that the President (or somesuch) would have the conviction to make a rational decision rather than be swayed by a cute rhetorical appeal.

Granted, they made the whole thing moot by having the hero find a last minute cure (not very likely), but still ... ugh.
 
Posted by rivka (Member # 4859) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by twinky:
quote:
Originally posted by Seatarsprayan:
quote:
I would have no problem at all with displaying 5-foot images of laughing babies in front of an abortion clinic.
And I think that would perhaps be much more effective, actually.
I agree.
Definitely.
 
Posted by PSI Teleport (Member # 5545) on :
 
Oh, great. Now I know how Outbreak ends. [Big Grin]
 
Posted by Pam Tyler (Member # 10595) on :
 
PSI, I still think that either the police or the local government will have some kind of rules about what they can show, do, while they protest that will protect you and your young children. When I said originally that in Nevada they have rules about it, I was speaking from experience. In a protest over working conditions, the police could arrest anyone whose signs were too crude (bad language)or whose behavior was deemed too intimidating. When I was younger, it had seemed like a good idea to carry a picket sign while on roller skates, however, the Las Vegas police did not agree with me. I was given some choices. Take off the skates, put down the picket sign, or go to jail. I chose to take off the skates. [Smile] That's when I found out some of their rules about content. But someone has to complain to them, they do not usually get involved with protests unless they are blocking traffic or seem to be getting violent, in my experience.
 
Posted by PSI Teleport (Member # 5545) on :
 
I guess my worry is that, since abortion is legal, it won't be considered to be "bad" because it's not like it's "dead babies," ya know? Guess I'll just have to call and find out.
 
Posted by kmbboots (Member # 8576) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Seatarsprayan:
quote:
A documentary is far from the same thing as public domain. I've never seen graphic lynching pictures on the nightly news and I suspect I never will.
I wasn't alive when it was going on; did they never show it then? Only in documentaries after civil rights progress was made?

If so, I wonder if more progress wouldn't have been made sooner if it *had* been shown.


Sadly (horribly) lynchings weren't considered shocking by much of the population. Sometimes people even considered them as appropriate family entertainment even bringing picnics.

There was also a considerable trade in photos and postcards showing lynchings.

So, probably not.
 
Posted by Hookt_Un_Fonix (Member # 10094) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by mr_porteiro_head:
quote:

I tell you what, if I saw them on the side of the road doing that, I would have pulled over to deal with them. It woudl have started with diplomacy and either way it would have ended with those signs coming down.

How far would you have gone? Would you beat somebody unconscious if they weren't willing to bring down the signs?
That would be the last option, but I will admit I am not above it. Most likely I would talk with them, and then if they refused I would call the cops. If they were still out there the next day I woudl give the cops one more chance. If I had to though I woudl take the signs out of their hands and destroy them, or maybe drive by with a huge bucket of black paint. If I needed to be physical though to get the signs down though, I would.

There is very little I wouldn't do for my little girl. Of course she would not need to be around when this was going on.
 
Posted by mr_porteiro_head (Member # 4644) on :
 
The fact that you are willing to take the law in your own hands and physically assault people because they're being obnoxious is chilling to me.
 
Posted by Juxtapose (Member # 8837) on :
 
To be fair, it sounded a bit more like Hookt was saying that he's willing to take the law into his own hands and physically assault people because he believes they're harming his daughter.
 
Posted by mr_porteiro_head (Member # 4644) on :
 
I believe that a lot of things harm us in myriad ways. That doesn't give me the right to physically assault people.
 
Posted by Dagonee (Member # 5818) on :
 
quote:
Of course, parading around with a blastocyst or zygote emblazoned on a placard might not be quite so rhetorically compelling.
Since blastocysts or zygotes are killed in surgical abortions seldom, if ever, why would you suggest these?

Moreover, pictures from week 7 can and are used - obviously, the pictures shown are much, much larger, but they still look like a baby.

quote:
That would be the last option, but I will admit I am not above it. Most likely I would talk with them, and then if they refused I would call the cops. If they were still out there the next day I woudl give the cops one more chance. If I had to though I woudl take the signs out of their hands and destroy them, or maybe drive by with a huge bucket of black paint. If I needed to be physical though to get the signs down though, I would.
Congratulations - you're a bully and a brute and, if you did that, would likely go to jail.

As to the legal issues, the courts would look very disfavorably on justifications for censorship based on the offensiveness of the images. However, traffic safety arguments might work. The fact that this has been going on a while makes it less likely that a traffic justification would work in this case, unless evidence of an increase in accidents during the protests could be shown.

In short, complain to the police and see if they'll do anything, but don't get your hopes up.

quote:
To be fair, it sounded a bit more like Hookt was saying that he's willing to take the law into his own hands and physically assault people because he believes they're harming his daughter.
To be fairer, he's saying he's willing to use violence to take the law into his own hands even though he could, if he so desired, do other things to avoid those pictures being seen by his daughter.
 
Posted by Juxtapose (Member # 8837) on :
 
quote:
I believe that a lot of things harm us in myriad ways. That doesn't give me the right to physically assault people.
I agree. It doesn't mean we have to misrepresent others' words though.

quote:
To be fairer, he's saying he's willing to use violence to take the law into his own hands even though he could, if he so desired, do other things to avoid those pictures being seen by his daughter.
Again, no disagreement.
 
Posted by kmbboots (Member # 8576) on :
 
I don't agree that violence is the right course to take, but it wasn't Hookt's first option.

Out of nothing but curiousity, if people were showing one's children pornography and the police wouldn't do anything about it, what would be considered a justifiable response?
 
Posted by Dagonee (Member # 5818) on :
 
quote:
I don't agree that violence is the right course to take, but it wasn't Hookt's first option.
That doesn't make him any better. He's still comfortable using violence to censor speech he doesn't approve.

quote:
Out of nothing but curiousity, if people were showing one's children pornography and the police wouldn't do anything about it, what would be considered a justifiable response?
Assuming that it's public display (and not targeted specifically at my child, which would indicate a totally different danger) and the person wouldn't stop after talking to them, and in no particular order: avoid, sue, speak to the property owner (if applicable), counter protest, boycott (if they have economic interests I can target), editorialize.
 
Posted by kmbboots (Member # 8576) on :
 
All better options than violence, I agree. Maybe some of these suggestions would be helpful to you, PSI?
 
Posted by Seatarsprayan (Member # 7634) on :
 
quote:
Sadly (horribly) lynchings weren't considered shocking by much of the population. Sometimes people even considered them as appropriate family entertainment even bringing picnics.

There was also a considerable trade in photos and postcards showing lynchings.

So, probably not.

Were Northerners, where I imagine fewer lynchings took place, just as entertained and engaging in photo trade? I wasn't there, I guess I just preferred to imagine that some people might be living their lives just not paying attention to the atrocities being committed, and if subjected to a rude enough awakening would actually care.

But I never cease to be surprised by the callousness of man towards man.
 
Posted by Juxtapose (Member # 8837) on :
 
quote:
That doesn't make him any better. He's still comfortable using violence to censor speech he doesn't approve.
I'd argue that using violence only after other options are exhausted does indeed make a person better. Most people are okay with using violence (or at least the threat of it) to censor speech.

Again though, I agree that it's better to do so within the law the vast majority of the time.

Off to work now, everyone play nice! [Wave]
 
Posted by MightyCow (Member # 9253) on :
 
Violence isn't the right solution.

You need to find out where the people live, and walk around in front of their houses with signs depicting even more graphic and disturbing pictures.

Then you're being just as non-violent as they are.

Suing for emotional damages might well work too. I'm sure having those pictures in a court room would convince most people that you shouldn't have to look at them.
 
Posted by Dagonee (Member # 5818) on :
 
quote:
Most people are okay with using violence (or at least the threat of it) to censor speech.

"Most people"? Really?

quote:
Suing for emotional damages might well work too. I'm sure having those pictures in a court room would convince most people that you shouldn't have to look at them.
The same constitutional issues still exist, so it's not likely to work.
 
Posted by Hookt_Un_Fonix (Member # 10094) on :
 
Violence is always a last resort. I simply stated that is all other measures had been exhausted I would be capable of resorting to violence. Violence also comes in many forms.

If you are cussing around my children or myself I will ask you nicely to watch your mouth and apologize to my daughter for using foul language. If you chose to ignore me, I can and will take my family and leave.

If you continue to follow I will make sure my family keeps going and I will prevent you from following them.

If you are in my personal space I will remove you from it. If you are cussing in my home or business I will through you out. If you return the cops will be called.

If you decide to put hands on me or look to do me physical harm I will attack first and hard, to make sure it ends quickly with as little risk to myself and family as possible.

I am by no means a bully, you can ask anyone that knows me. I how ever am not a push over, and if you will not respect my family, or myself then you are capable of doing other things to harm my family.

If you come into my house in the middle of the night unwelcome, you will be dealt with with same level of aggression.

If you can not respect me and my beliefs, or my personal space, then I have no respect for you. In the case of the protesters I woudl give them the chance to be civil. I woudl give the law the chance to deal with them as well. I am sure that something could be done in that matter, but I was ask simply if I could or would resort to violence.

So the answer to that was simply yes I could, would and have, but only as the last resort or only if it was the only option that would leave my Family, my friends, or myself with as little harm as possible.
 
Posted by Dagonee (Member # 5818) on :
 
quote:
If you can not respect me and my beliefs, or my personal space
Which of these is involved in the protester example?
 
Posted by Hookt_Un_Fonix (Member # 10094) on :
 
It is a lack of respect for me if I asked them to no put those 5x5 pickets up with the dead babies on them, were my daughter would have to see them every day on our way home (the issue at the very beginning of the thread) The also interfere with my beliefs on how I am raising my child, and as offensive that is it intervenes with my personal space by having it there. Should I go on? I woudl take ti the same if somebody was putting up pictures of adults having sex on bill boards. I am aware of it, I know it happens, but you don't have to be rude and put it up in public.
 
Posted by MightyCow (Member # 9253) on :
 
You could take pictures of them, make giant billboards using their pictures, and write rude things about them under the pictures. Then drive by with your posters on the side of your car (without your kids, of course).
 
Posted by twinky (Member # 693) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Dagonee:
quote:
Of course, parading around with a blastocyst or zygote emblazoned on a placard might not be quite so rhetorically compelling.
Since blastocysts or zygotes are killed in surgical abortions seldom, if ever, why would you suggest these?
You've got it exactly, actually. The forceps image PSI described sounded to me like the result of an intact dilation and extraction, which prior to their banning comprised approximately 0.17% of all abortions in the U.S, so I responded with an example that I thought was an equally poor rhetorical choice.

As far as I know, D&X is the only late-term surgical abortion procedure that yields an intact fetus, though there are a few other non-surgical possibilities that I suppose could have resulted in the picture PSI described. Still, I summarized the point I was making even more succinctly in the post Mucus quoted near the top of this page.

quote:
Originally posted by Dagonee:
Moreover, pictures from week 7 can and are used - obviously, the pictures shown are much, much larger, but they still look like a baby.

PSI specified that the pictures were of late-term abortions. I take her at her word.

For myself, having seen real physical examples or aborted or miscarried zygotes, embryos, and fetuses at many stages in the gestational process, I don't think a picture from week 7 blown up would be easily mistaken for a late-term fetus.
 
Posted by Hookt_Un_Fonix (Member # 10094) on :
 
yeah I could, and I could stand out in a clown suit and point and laugh at them to. There are a lot of different options. Of course I would prefer to go with the simplest and least painful method.

However I just wonder what makes a person want to be precieved as so ignorant and offensive in the first place. Maybe they are so angry because their own parents wish they could have gotten a legal abortion so many years ago.
 
Posted by PSI Teleport (Member # 5545) on :
 
Re: The age of the fetus:

I'm guessing about the age based mostly on the relative size of the head to the forceps.

Something I've always wondered about is are some of these pictures shopped? Not that they look any less disturbing, but then again, who's sitting at the bedside of a woman having an abortion, camera in hand?
 
Posted by twinky (Member # 693) on :
 
Actually, to clarify slightly, I took "late-term" to mean "third trimester," which isn't necessarily a valid assumption.
 
Posted by rivka (Member # 4859) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by PSI Teleport:
Not that they look any less disturbing, but then again, who's sitting at the bedside of a woman having an abortion, camera in hand?

I don't think it is outside the realm of possibility that a picture could be taken for medical reasons.

But yeah, I expect many are photoshopped.
 
Posted by PSI Teleport (Member # 5545) on :
 
*nod* It's definitely possible that some are real, it's just that some are so...

There's one picture I've seen where the fetus is actually almost black. (I guess from decay?) I can't imagine what use there could be for keeping the body and photographing it later.
 
Posted by Dagonee (Member # 5818) on :
 
quote:
There's one picture I've seen where the fetus is actually almost black. (I guess from decay?)
It's possible these were pictures of fetuses aborted via saline (a procedure used less often now than previously).
 
Posted by Juxtapose (Member # 8837) on :
 
quote:
posted by Dagonee:
quote:
Most people are okay with using violence (or at least the threat of it) to censor speech.
"Most people"? Really?
Inasmuch as violence or the threat of it is used to enforce any law, and there are some laws limiting free speech, then yes I would think so. I probably should have qualified that statement better.
 
Posted by Samprimary (Member # 8561) on :
 
Abortion protesters should just quit using the bloody placard strategy since it hurts them more than it helps them.
 
Posted by Synesthesia (Member # 4774) on :
 
They should.
It's disgusting to do that.
I don't understand why they cannot find a more civil and polite way to fight against abortion than disgusting people and making them feel frustrated and worse.
 
Posted by Hookt_Un_Fonix (Member # 10094) on :
 
They feel that this is one of the more effective ways for them, since talk still trampled on their ideas. They think we as the public do not understand the gravity of the situation. They feel they have to shock us to make us aware of the issue. This is a similar thought belief and pattern that terrorist use.

"They can not see our point, so we are going to do something shocking and make them look"

They are hoping our revulsion will sway them to their cause, or at least get our attention long enough for them to get their point across.

If it works once, even if not the way they wanted, they continue to use it. They can justify it to themselves because it was effective at least once.

Trouble with that logic, a broken clock is right twice a day. Though it may be right at least twice, it will make you late for everything else.
 
Posted by Brian J. Hill (Member # 5346) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Synesthesia:
They should.
It's disgusting to do that.
I don't understand why they cannot find a more civil and polite way to fight against abortion than disgusting people and making them feel frustrated and worse.

I agree. I really like the idea of giant placards showing laughing babies, rather than gruesome images of dead ones. It gets the point across much more forcefully. I also think anti-abortion groups (and politicians) should spend much more effort and time on promoting adoption than they do today. If there's a group anywhere that used these tactics instead of resorting to callous barbarism, I would consider joining them.
 
Posted by Dagonee (Member # 5818) on :
 
quote:
I really like the idea of giant placards showing laughing babies
Actually, it doesn't.

I'm not in favor of the placards in general, although I think there is a place for photos of the victims of abortion in the public conversation about the issue. But the suggested alternatives such as laughing babies don't speak to the disputed issue - whether the being that dies during abortion is a person who deserves the basic protection of the law.

I think the far more effective way to get the point across is with photos showing development from conception through childhood. But laughing babies doesn't meet the rhetorical need here.
 
Posted by BlackBlade (Member # 8376) on :
 
Out of curiosity and I honestly just don't know. But when abortions were illegal did pro-choice proponents hold up pictures of dead women who had died in back alley abortions?

And,

Would there be anything wrong with pro-choice advocates assembling and holding up coat hangers painted red?
 
Posted by vonk (Member # 9027) on :
 
quote:
Would there be anything wrong with pro-choice advocates assembling and holding up coat hangers painted red?
When a pro-life group set up a similar display on UH campus, complete with gigantic mutilated fetus pictures, a group of students decided an equally offensive form of protest would be to pass out coat hangers to everyone present. I'm not sure I fully agree with the method, but it was amusing to watch.
 
Posted by Mucus (Member # 9735) on :
 
To add to BB's question. Presumably now, even if abortion was banned, some women would not go to back alleys. They would just hop the Canadian border or Mexican border, at least in Canada there are no restrictions on abortion.

As a parallel, I remember some homosexual couples did this in order to be liberated from the gay marriage bans in the US. Presumably, as a sort of "sour grapes" retaliation, their marriages were not recognized when they went back to the States.

Take the scenario of a woman travelling to do an abortion in a less oppressive country, have anti-abortion advocates proposed any similar "sour grapes" measures?
 
Posted by Hookt_Un_Fonix (Member # 10094) on :
 
The question I would have here, is what is truly going to far with a protest?

This could apply to a variety of subjects. I understand people trying to get a message out, and the passion they feel makes more things acceptable to them. So when has something gone to far?

It is clear that the majority of the people here are offended by the pictures of the aborted babies, and some by red painted coat hangers, but were is that line?

I understand that freedom of speech and expression are important for the cultural growth of America, but even there we have laws that deem some things pornography or to graphic for certain age groups. Take for example the movie industry, there are some wonderful movies out there, that were put into production that have received R or more ratings.

It did not limit the artist vision, it just restricted the age of his audience. With that in mind why can't we apply the same restrictions to public displays and protest?

Feel free to show people the pictures if they are of an understanding they will be given this information and they are old enough to process it properly.

I think in this country people should be able to do what ever they want, as long as they are not hurting people. If you consent to something and it hurts you thats your problem, as long as you were sufficiently warned.

Those persons that can not conform to these basic tenants of human decency and respect the rights of others should have their own rights limited. I am trying to protect my daughter, and my right as a parent to raise her as I see fit. Is that really to much to ask?
 
Posted by Synesthesia (Member # 4774) on :
 
I think I saw some guy walking around at a Stand for Children march with a fetus.

That was just nasty.
They also had those nauseating images too.
 
Posted by kmbboots (Member # 8576) on :
 
Though I wouldn't have an abortion myself (God willing), seeing actual embryos and fetuses has actually made me less "squeamish" regarding early abortions. There are, for me, other, more compelling reasons, not to have one, but I have less of a shocked, disgusted, "that looks like a dead baby" response.
 
Posted by Dagonee (Member # 5818) on :
 
The coat hangar protests have been used in many situations not involving responding to graphic anti-abortion displays.

quote:
With that in mind why can't we apply the same restrictions to public displays and protest?
Because ratings on movies are voluntary, not government-mandated.

quote:
Those persons that can not conform to these basic tenants of human decency and respect the rights of others should have their own rights limited. I am trying to protect my daughter, and my right as a parent to raise her as I see fit. Is that really to much to ask?
The problem is that the criteria needed to evaluate this is arbitrary. What if someone doesn't want their kids to see unmarried men and women people holding hands? Or they only oppose gay couples holding hands. "I want to protect my children and don't want them to see that" applies just as strongly to such situations.

Which means we need some other criteria. And if those criteria are based on what most people think, we're back to limiting speech to that approved by the majority - the very thing the First Amendment is supposed to prevent.

What well-defined test would you use to evaluate individual instances of expression to see if they should be subject to government regulation?
 
Posted by Hookt_Un_Fonix (Member # 10094) on :
 
I say keep it basic. If woudl get an "R" rating, it should not be placed in public. I am okay with having to explain things to my daughter, like what those dogs are doing, why are those guys holding hands, but please don't feed the nightmare monsters that live in her imagination.
 
Posted by brojack17 (Member # 9189) on :
 
Slideshow

Here is a slideshow about people protesting Michael Vick. Many of the people are holding large signs that show an injured dog. It's doesn't seem to be too gruesome (but you don't see a full on shot of the poster), but apparently shock is what most protesters are going for.

I still wouldn't want to see these things as I drive by. Especially with my children.
 
Posted by Samprimary (Member # 8561) on :
 
While laughing babies doesn't get the point across 'as forcefully' it's still better than pictures which largely garner a negative reaction and 'more forcefully' make pro-lifers seem like nutters.
 
Posted by PSI Teleport (Member # 5545) on :
 
Well, after checking into this, I'm feeling hopeless. The police department wasn't helpful at all. They were more like secretaries. And a good friend of mine said those guys have been coming to that corner off and on for at least twenty years. (She has strong memories of being told to close her eyes at that corner.) I'm guessing that the pictures they are using are probably that old, too.
 
Posted by Hookt_Un_Fonix (Member # 10094) on :
 
Don't give up. If I was there I would help you protest the protesters.

Samprimary, they might be able to get the same effect and not be as graphically offensive if they used more metaphorical pictures, like maybe a pregnant womans belly in cross hairs. Or a laughing baby playing with a gun or noose. It conveys a similar message, but on the same note it wouldn't give my daughter nightmares.
 
Posted by Javert Hugo (Member # 3980) on :
 
quote:
it's still better than pictures pictures which largely garner a negative reaction and 'more forcefully' make pro-lifers seem like nutters.
quote:
they might be able to get the same effect and not be as graphically offensive if they used more metaphorical pictures,
Is this true? I don't have data either way, but it hasn't been established that this is true. I know what my own preferences would be, but one thing is true - people are talking about them and what they want to have happen. It is negative here, but it's still attention. Perhaps the reaction here is not the only one that occurs.

In other words, maybe the pictures are working the majority of the time exactly as the protesters hoped they would. How does that change things?
 
Posted by Nato (Member # 1448) on :
 
I don't know if less offensive pictures would be as effective. I wouldn't react as strongly, but I wouldn't think the protesters were horrible human beings. v;)v

I think the problem with this kind of protest is that the solution to the abortion problem is so obvious. Both sides agree that it would be better if nobody needed an abortion. How can we get that accomplished? I think the only way to achieve a compromise on this issue (no, a solution, one that satisfies all sides fully) is to create a society, through culture and medicine where both women and men have complete control over or not their body will conceive so that if either one of them doesn't want it to happen, it won't. I think we're probably about 10-15 years away from a medical solution to this, but I think we can move toward this reality through comprehensive education and free and widespread access to birth control of all types.

I do support a woman's choice to choose to not become pregnant and to end unwanted pregnancies that do occur. Bringing a child into the world is a huge responsibility and cost, and where a child is thrust into people's lives when they are not ready for it, that child would not receive as good a start in life as when those parents were finally ready for it. People should have control over when that responsibility arrives.
 
Posted by Javert Hugo (Member # 3980) on :
 
quote:
People should have control over when that responsibility arrives.
People do have control over whether or not it happens.

The means of control is rejected doesn't it doesn't exist. Conceiving a child isn't like catching a cold.
 
Posted by mr_porteiro_head (Member # 4644) on :
 
quote:
create a society, through culture and medicine where both women and men have complete control over or not their body will conceive so that if either one of them doesn't want it to happen, it won't.
Barring rape, we live today in a world where people have complete control over whether they conceive a child or not.
 
Posted by PSI Teleport (Member # 5545) on :
 
quote:
In other words, maybe the pictures are working the majority of the time exactly as the protesters hoped they would. How does that change things?
Thing is, when I called the local pro-life pregnancy help center, they told me that they had had several positive referrals from the crazy street-corner pro-life group. (They also made sure I knew that they didn't agree with the method.) But how do we know that there wouldn't be MORE positive referrals if a gentler tactic was used?
 
Posted by BlackBlade (Member # 8376) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by mr_porteiro_head:
quote:
create a society, through culture and medicine where both women and men have complete control over or not their body will conceive so that if either one of them doesn't want it to happen, it won't.
Barring rape, we live today in a world where people have complete control over whether they conceive a child or not.
The morning after pill and rape kit makes rape even less of a factor in unplanned conception.
 
Posted by MightyCow (Member # 9253) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by BlackBlade:
The morning after pill and rape kit makes rape even less of a factor in unplanned conception.

Unless your doctor or pharmacist refuses to give you one. [Frown]
 
Posted by Javert Hugo (Member # 3980) on :
 
quote:
But how do we know that there wouldn't be MORE positive referrals if a gentler tactic was used?
How do we know there wouldn't be fewer? If a method that was less likely to capture attention was used, how do we know that doesn't mean less attention would be paid?
 
Posted by MightyCow (Member # 9253) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Javert Hugo:
quote:
But how do we know that there wouldn't be MORE positive referrals if a gentler tactic was used?
How do we know there wouldn't be fewer? If a method that was less likely to capture attention was used, how do we know that doesn't mean less attention would be paid?
More attention might be paid if they beat children in front of the clinic too. Do you really want to suggest that the end justifies the means?
 
Posted by Javert Hugo (Member # 3980) on :
 
Your non-sequitur does not follow. There is no constitutional right to assault.
 
Posted by MightyCow (Member # 9253) on :
 
Your argument seems to be that as long as it might be more effective, the protesters are justified to pick the most offensive method possible.

I wonder how the protesters would feel if people picketed their churches with giant signs showing graphic pictures of witch burnings and torture from the inquisition.

Turn about is fair play right? If that's an effective way to get the protests to stop, who cares if your kids are exposed to detailed pictures of hangings and torture.
 
Posted by Javert Hugo (Member # 3980) on :
 
You are mistaken about my argument. I never said any of that.
----
quote:
I wonder how the protesters would feel if people picketed their churches with giant signs showing graphic pictures of witch burnings and torture from the inquisition
Actually, if there were organizations in America that today regularly burned people at the stake or tortured them for supposed heresy, I think this would be a darn good idea.

That certainly seems like something that should stop. Or would you prefer that people protest quietly by holding up pictures of cute frogs someplace they couldn't be seen? Because who cares what atrocities are comitted as long as we don't talk about it.
 
Posted by Mucus (Member # 9735) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by MightyCow:
quote:
Originally posted by BlackBlade:
The morning after pill and rape kit makes rape even less of a factor in unplanned conception.

Unless your doctor or pharmacist refuses to give you one. [Frown]
Additionally, there are religious groups that consider the morning after pill to be equivalent to an abortion. There is also at least once large denomination that discourages the use of contraception.

I also suspect that we are overestimating the reach of modern medical education. There are many people who do not fully understand contraception, may believe urban legends about what one can do to avoid pregnancy or not, and even some people who may completely be unaware as to how fertility works due to either religious barriers or recent immigration.
 
Posted by camus (Member # 8052) on :
 
quote:
Actually, if there were churches in America that today regularly burned people at the stake or tortured them for supposed heresy, I think this would be a darn good idea.

That certainly seems like something that should stop. Or would you prefer that people protest quietly by holding up pictures of cute frogs someplace they couldn't be seen? Because who cares what atrocities are comitted as long as we don't talk about it.

Actually, I would prefer they limit the exposure of graphic, disturbing, and offensive pictures to those that are actually able to make such a decision. Young children are typically not in the position to legislate against torture or have an abortion.
 
Posted by Javert Hugo (Member # 3980) on :
 
quote:
There are many people who do not fully understand contraception
While there has recently been some evidence to the contrary that not everyone accepts that pregnancy comes from sex, I'm willing to bet that 99% of fertile Americans know.

Maybe 95% to allow for the preteens. Of course, if an eleven-year-old gets pregnant, there's most likely a man somewhere that needs to go to prison for a very, very long time.
 
Posted by MightyCow (Member # 9253) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Javert Hugo:
Is this true? I don't have data either way, but it hasn't been established that this is true. I know what my own preferences would be, but one thing is true - people are talking about them and what they want to have happen. It is negative here, but it's still attention. Perhaps the reaction here is not the only one that occurs.

In other words, maybe the pictures are working the majority of the time exactly as the protesters hoped they would. How does that change things?

I read this as I explained. If you're trying to say something that doesn't boil down to "ends justify the means", then please explain what you're getting at, because I don't see it.

quote:
Originally posted by Javert Hugo:
Because who cares what atrocities are comitted as long as we don't talk about it.

I won't get into a discussion when you're using that kind of loaded language. It isn't conductive to any kind of meaningful discussion, and to me, it shows why you favor the pictures. It seems that you want to get your point across, period.
 
Posted by Javert Hugo (Member # 3980) on :
 
Mighty Cow, it is the difference between making an argument and asking someone else to reevaluate their own argument in light of information they do not seem to have considered.

You read me wrong.
 
Posted by MightyCow (Member # 9253) on :
 
But when it comes down to it, do you think that the protesters should be holding up the signs that many people find horrific, if it gets their point across, or as you say, works as they hope it will work?
 
Posted by Nathan2006 (Member # 9387) on :
 
I've skipped a lot of posts. Sorry. Chances are that the topic has drifted pretty far now.

Have you tried calling the building/zoning committee (Or whatever it's called.)? Is the clinic anywhere near a school or library or anything?

You could always stand amongst them with a giant sign promoting cigarrettes or contraceptives. See how many positive referalls they get then.

<Sigh> If only we could do things like that. But, alas, we can't. But we can think about it.
 
Posted by MrSquicky (Member # 1802) on :
 
quote:
Your non-sequitur does not follow. There is no constitutional right to assault.
There isn't necessarily a consitutional right to displaying the signs being discussed either. They could be judged indecent. People don't have a constitutional right to wave large banners with pornography on them. The same may apply here.
 
Posted by Javert Hugo (Member # 3980) on :
 
quote:
But when it comes down to it, do you think that the protesters should be holding up the signs that many people find horrific, if it gets their point across, or as you say, works as they hope it will work?
You're asking my opinion about it?

Okay, here's where I caveat: I don't know what you're talking about. I have never seen any abortion protest, much less an explicit one. I haven't even seen an abortion clinic, although I'm sure I have passed some and was not aware of it. I haven't actually seen the images in question, and I don't know how obvious and/or unmissable they are.

Now, that I have managed to live in four large cities and traveled extensively within them, three in the South and one by the Great Lakes, leads me to think they can't be all THAT obvious. I recognize the fallacies in that, but hey - you asked what I thought.

I think they are entirely avoidable unless someone is actually going to the abortion clinic, and in that case, I am unwilling to give up my free speech to censor theirs.

Then there is that "should." I don't believe in "shoulds" and public moralizing in general, but on the balance, abortion is a great deal worse than displaying the effects of the abortion. I wouldn't participate in a protest like that, but if I'm going to start moralizing about behavior at the abortion clinic, it certainly isn't going to start with those outside.

[ July 26, 2007, 05:00 PM: Message edited by: Javert Hugo ]
 
Posted by kmbboots (Member # 8576) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by mr_porteiro_head:
quote:
create a society, through culture and medicine where both women and men have complete control over or not their body will conceive so that if either one of them doesn't want it to happen, it won't.
Barring rape, we live today in a world where people have complete control over whether they conceive a child or not.
Clearly, just telling people to not have sex hasn't been all that effective in preventing unwanted pregnancies. Maybe continuing the search for more effective measures makes some sense.
 
Posted by MattP (Member # 10495) on :
 
quote:
Clearly, just telling people to not have sex hasn't been all that effective in preventing unwanted pregnancies. Maybe continuing the search for more effective measure makes some sense.
I once heard "abstinence only" sex ed equated to "just hold it" potty training. It's a shallow metaphor, but it made me giggle.
 
Posted by mr_porteiro_head (Member # 4644) on :
 
quote:
Clearly, just telling people to not have sex hasn't been all that effective in preventing unwanted pregnancies.
Telling people not to have sex isn't very effective, that's true.

Choosing not to have sex is extremely effective.
 
Posted by Mucus (Member # 9735) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Javert Hugo:
quote:
There are many people who do not fully understand contraception
While there has recently been some evidence to the contrary that not everyone accepts that pregnancy comes from sex, I'm willing to bet that 99% of fertile Americans know.

Maybe 95% to allow for the preteens. Of course, if an eleven-year-old gets pregnant, there's most likely a man somewhere that needs to go to prison for a very, very long time.

So you're at least willing to concede that abortion is a viable alternative for that lower bound of 1% of the American population. I guess its a start. Thats still roughly 150,000 females, perhaps fertile 100,000 depending on which fraction is under/overage.

Once you move past that though, the problem becomes creating a policy that can accommodate this. How does one determine whether a woman is in that 1% or in the 99%? Do we create some bizarre rule that high school educated people (or higher) are to be denied abortions? Do we get a jury to listen to their testimony to see whether or not it is reasonable that they did not know?
How do we devise a reasonable system of determining who should be allowed an abortion, or a morning after pill for that matter?

I'm going to reiterate my previous question too:
What kind of policy do anti-abortion advocates propose that takes into account a United States where people can easily travel to Canada or Mexico for their medical needs?
 
Posted by Dagonee (Member # 5818) on :
 
quote:
There isn't necessarily a consitutional right to displaying the signs being discussed either. They could be judged indecent. People don't have a constitutional right to wave large banners with pornography on them. The same may apply here.
For clarification, indecency and pornography are very different things in the first amendment context. The latter may be outright banned, in any context, as long as the law is definite enough to avoid a chilling effect. Pornography, as it is (not) defined by the courts, is not protected speech. Indecency is protected speech, although less protected over the airwaves (and possibly some other contexts - I haven't researched) than some other forms of speech.

Several courts have upheld the right to display those pictures on first amendment grounds. One that supported regulation found the regulations to be content neutral and important to preventing traffic accidents.
 
Posted by mr_porteiro_head (Member # 4644) on :
 
quote:
So you're at least willing to concede that abortion is a viable alternative for that lower bound of 1% of the American population.
Rarely have I seen such a blatant case of falsely putting words into somebody else's mouth.
 
Posted by Javert Hugo (Member # 3980) on :
 
quote:
So you're at least willing to concede that abortion is a viable alternative for that lower bound of 1% of the American population.
The eleven-year-olds who are pregnant most likely as a result of rape? That's not a "start" to anything. Don't get your hopes up. The fully-cognizant adults who use abortion as birth control aren't even in the same galaxy.

Also, that misreading was so outrageous and unjustified by my post that it seems almost deliberate. I do not appreciate that lack of respect, and it doesn't bode well for the level of honesty in this discussion.
quote:
What kind of policy do anti-abortion advocates propose that takes into account a United States where people can easily travel to Canada or Mexico for their medical needs?
What Canada and Mexico choose to do has NOTHING to do with what America chooses to do. I don't vote in either of those places.

That line of questioning is irrelevant at best.
 
Posted by MightyCow (Member # 9253) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Javert Hugo:
Then there is that "should." I don't believe in "shoulds" and public moralizing in general, but on the balance, abortion is a great deal worse than displaying the effects of the abortion. I wouldn't participate in a protest like that, but if I'm going to start moralizing about behavior at the abortion clinic, it certainly isn't going to start with those outside.

I feel like I wasn't that far off in the first place then.


But why sanction bad behavior, simply because it is protesting something you feel is worse? Why lower yourself to protest something you feel lowers others.

I think a lot less highly of the moral position of a group who exhibits less than moral behavior themselves. I certainly wouldn't stand outside their houses with billboards showing two people having sex, even though it may well be taking place at some time within the house.
 
Posted by mr_porteiro_head (Member # 4644) on :
 
quote:
What kind of policy do anti-abortion advocates propose that takes into account a United States where people can easily travel to Canada or Mexico for their medical needs?
I don't feel the need to take into account what happens in other countries.
 
Posted by camus (Member # 8052) on :
 
quote:
I think they are entirely avoidable unless someone is actually going to the abortion clinic
So abortion clinics are in completely isolated areas at the very end of dead end streets that do not have any other commercial or residential places anywhere near them?
 
Posted by Javert Hugo (Member # 3980) on :
 
You are far off. Seriously, are you even reading? Or are you inventing things and then shutting out all evidence to the contrary?

If you want to gallop around attacking strawmen, leave me out of it. Nothing you say resembles my views or my posts, and I resent you using my name to pretend it does.
 
Posted by Hookt_Un_Fonix (Member # 10094) on :
 
I might not be the right guy to pipe up on this because I believe in 4th trimester on abortion, for the sake of positive evolution.
 
Posted by kmbboots (Member # 8576) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by mr_porteiro_head:
quote:
Clearly, just telling people to not have sex hasn't been all that effective in preventing unwanted pregnancies.
Telling people not to have sex isn't very effective, that's true.

Choosing not to have sex is extremely effective.

That (again obviously) is not a choice that works for everybody.
 
Posted by Dagonee (Member # 5818) on :
 
quote:
That (again obviously) is not a choice that works for everybody.
It's not a choice that everybody chooses, but it works for everyone who implements that choice except a small percentage of those who are forced to have sex against their will.
 
Posted by kmbboots (Member # 8576) on :
 
I didn't mean "work" as in effectively stopping pregnancy. I meant "work" as in be the right choice for a particular person.
 
Posted by mr_porteiro_head (Member # 4644) on :
 
With that definition of "work", I'd say that it works for nearly everybody who doesn't want to risk conceiving a child.
 
Posted by Dagonee (Member # 5818) on :
 
Which doesn't alter the assertion being made that perfect contraception is not necessary to avoid pregnancy in all but a very, very, very few cases.

The original assertion to which this subthread was a response was "People should have control over when that responsibility arrives." People (except the very, very, very few who conceive after being raped) do have that control.
 
Posted by Mucus (Member # 9735) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by mr_porteiro_head:
quote:
What kind of policy do anti-abortion advocates propose that takes into account a United States where people can easily travel to Canada or Mexico for their medical needs?
I don't feel the need to take into account what happens in other countries.
You really should for two reasons:
A) If you do not, I suspect that anyone of a low income living within driving/busing distance of Canada would be able to avoid the ban. Anyone of a moderate income or higher would be able to avoid the ban outright.
If I were to guess, that would leave maybe 1/5th or less of the population that could be successfully stopped from having an abortion.

The ban would be even more of a farce than prohibition with plenty of consequences.

B) If abortion is really "murder", you should really be concerned regardless of where it happens. Additionally, I would also bet that even if you did not (as evidence from the example of same-sex marriage) that other advocates *would* try to take into account this and take measures. It is worth considering what these measures would end up looking like and whether they would be worse than the problem at hand.

* by "the ban", this is shorthand for if anti-abortion advocates for their way and implemented a simple blanket "no abortion access in the US" policy
 
Posted by kmbboots (Member # 8576) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by mr_porteiro_head:
With that definition of "work", I'd say that it works for everybody who doesn't want to risk conceiving a child.

If that were true, we wouldn't have unwanted pregnancies. Since we do, there seems to be a problem with the "just don't have sex" solution.
 
Posted by mr_porteiro_head (Member # 4644) on :
 
quote:
You really should for two reasons
quote:
If abortion is really "murder", you should really be concerned regardless of where it happens.
If you want do that in your anti-abortion work, be my guest, but please don't tell me where my priorities should be.
 
Posted by Dagonee (Member # 5818) on :
 
quote:
If that were true, we wouldn't have unwanted pregnancies. Since we do, there seems to be a problem with the "just don't have sex" solution.
Be that as it may, it does not mean that most women lack control over whether or not they become pregnant. They do have such control and choose not to assert it, for whatever reason.
 
Posted by MightyCow (Member # 9253) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Javert Hugo:
You are far off. Seriously, are you even reading? Or are you inventing things and then shutting out all evidence to the contrary?

If you want to gallop around attacking strawmen, leave me out of it. Nothing you say resembles my views or my posts, and I resent you using my name to pretend it does.

Try as I might, I can't read minds. If you insist on dancing around the issue without giving a simple answer to a simple question, then the best I can do is read between the lines. If you're unclear in your position, it's due to your own unwillingness to take a stand.

I feel like the protesters are out of line. Period. I don't think what they're doing is the right way to go about it, regardless of their beliefs. I wouldn't condone anyone doing something similar to their homes or places of business.
 
Posted by mr_porteiro_head (Member # 4644) on :
 
quote:
If that were true, we wouldn't have unwanted pregnancies.
That doesn't follow from the definition of "work", as I understood it, that you used earlier.
 
Posted by kmbboots (Member # 8576) on :
 
Sometimes good reasons; sometimes not so good. Either way, must it be such a either or situation? Why is it such a bad thing to explore other avenues of preventing unwanted pregnancies? Why does it seem better to force women to choose either pregnancy or abstinence? That hasn't proved to be effective in achieving anybody's goals.
 
Posted by mr_porteiro_head (Member # 4644) on :
 
quote:
If you insist on dancing around the issue without giving a simple answer to a simple question, then the best I can do is read between the lines.
Without making any comment on what either you or Katarina have said in this thread, that isn't true. If somebody doesn't come out and answer a question to your satisfaction, you can choose to read between the lines, or you can choose to acknowledge that you don't know their mind on that exact matter. I think the second option is the better of the two.
 
Posted by Dagonee (Member # 5818) on :
 
quote:
Why does it seem better to force women to choose either pregnancy or abstinence?
I don't see anyone who has advocated that in this thread.
 
Posted by kmbboots (Member # 8576) on :
 
What is the point, then, of responding to a suggestion that we improve birth control with the "all people have to do is abstain if they don't want to get pregnant" argument?
 
Posted by Javert Hugo (Member # 3980) on :
 
quote:
Try as I might, I can't read minds. If you insist on dancing around the issue without giving a simple answer to a simple question, then the best I can do is read between the lines. If you're unclear in your position, it's due to your own unwillingness to take a stand.
I gave a perfectly clear stance: due to my own experiences, my feeling is that I would not wish to legally hamper the protesters in any way, because doing so would create strictures on free speech that I find intolerable.

I freely admit that if I were to have different experiences or see additional evidence, this may be modified.

Your opinion does not count as additional evidence.

As for the question of if they "should" protest in that manner (which is very different from whether or not they ought to be prevented from protesting in that manner), I am reluctant to do public moralizing about other people's priorities. That you do not share that reluctance is not my responsibility.

If you insist, I'll say that in the above-described situation, everyone in and outside the clinic comes off looking like crap.

In general, it seems that you wish to debate what should be moral and I wish to discuss what should be legal. Since we are both Americans (I think), there is probably enough common ground there for a conversation on legal matters to be possible.

And, if you must know, I don't wish to discuss what should be moral. I'm not interested in the views on morality of someone who is okay with abortion.
 
Posted by MightyCow (Member # 9253) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by mr_porteiro_head:
quote:
If you insist on dancing around the issue without giving a simple answer to a simple question, then the best I can do is read between the lines.
Without making any comment on what either you or Katarina have said in this thread, that isn't true. If somebody doesn't come out and answer a question to your satisfaction, you can choose to read between the lines, or you can choose to acknowledge that you don't know their mind on that exact matter. I think the second option is the better of the two.
True enough.

I could also say, "Some people might say those protesters are human scum and deserve a beating? I'm not going to comment, although I know how I feel about it, but some people might say that."

I didn't actually say anything about my feelings on the matter, but if I did say this, I can see how it might be taken a certain way.
 
Posted by mr_porteiro_head (Member # 4644) on :
 
Cow -- you said the best you can do is read between the lines. I disagree. I think that declining to read between the lines would be better.
 
Posted by Dagonee (Member # 5818) on :
 
quote:
What is the point, then, of responding to a suggestion that we improve birth control with the "all people have to do is abstain if they don't want to get pregnant" argument?
Because the idea of improving birth control was put forth as a "solution" to the abortion problem. The existence of such control now suggests that such control will not "solve" the abortion problem.
 
Posted by kmbboots (Member # 8576) on :
 
I'm not sure I understand. By "such control" do you mean abstinance?
 
Posted by MightyCow (Member # 9253) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Javert Hugo:
Then there is that "should." I don't believe in "shoulds" and public moralizing in general

OK, so "shoulds" are bad.

quote:
Originally posted by Javert Hugo:
Actually, if there were organizations in America that today regularly burned people at the stake or tortured them for supposed heresy, I think this would be a darn good idea.

That certainly seems like something that should stop.

Except when you feel like they aren't.

quote:
Originally posted by Javert Hugo:

And, if you must know, I don't wish to discuss what should be moral. I'm not interested in the views on morality of someone who is okay with abortion.

You don't wish to discuss morality, except to make the offhanded implication that my views are immoral.
 
Posted by Dagonee (Member # 5818) on :
 
quote:
I'm not sure I understand. By "such control" do you mean abstinance?
Yes.

Rejecting the idea that more effective birth control would "solve" the abortion problem does not mean one rejects the idea of more effective birth control.
 
Posted by Hookt_Un_Fonix (Member # 10094) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by MightyCow:
You don't wish to discuss morality, except to make the offhanded implication that my views are immoral.

Morality is subjective, but a few morals are universal.
 
Posted by Mucus (Member # 9735) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Javert Hugo:
quote:
So you're at least willing to concede that abortion is a viable alternative for that lower bound of 1% of the American population.
The eleven-year-olds who are pregnant most likely as a result of rape? That's not a "start" to anything. Don't get your hopes up. The fully-cognizant adults who use abortion as birth control aren't even in the same galaxy.

Actually they are. Not only are they in the same galaxy, they're in the same nation with all the real world ambiguities that apply.

Whether it is 1% of the population or just raped 11-year olds, you're missing the key thrust of my post.
Once you move beyond a 100% blanket ban on abortion to allowing loop holes, you move from a system that at least is marginally objective to a system that requires human judgement.

So, if we agree that the raped 11 year old can get an abortion, what about the 12 year old, or 13 year old? Is there a maximum?
What if its a woman who really was not raped but still wishes an abortion and claims she was raped?
What if the woman was actually raped and cannot prove that the pregnancy was the result of a rape?

A very common situation now, what if the woman initially refused to believe that she was raped and is in denial or too ashamed to act rationally to get a morning after pill or rape kit?

If you were these woman, who would you delegate to, the responsibility of determining whether you could or could not have an abortion, whether or not you were really raped?
Who would you trust with that job?
 
Posted by Mucus (Member # 9735) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by mr_porteiro_head:
If you want do that in your anti-abortion work, be my guest, but please don't tell me where my priorities should be.

Priorities is overstating it.
I'd deem it an awareness of the consequences of one's own proposals.
Granted, one *can* propose things without caring what the consequences are, but thats not particularly persuasive or more importantly, effective.
 
Posted by vonk (Member # 9027) on :
 
quote:
but a few morals are universal.
Which ones?
 
Posted by Hookt_Un_Fonix (Member # 10094) on :
 
Thats the trick,... which ones indeed.
 
Posted by kmbboots (Member # 8576) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Dagonee:
quote:
I'm not sure I understand. By "such control" do you mean abstinance?
Yes.

Rejecting the idea that more effective birth control would "solve" the abortion problem does not mean one rejects the idea of more effective birth control.

If not solve, certainly ease. If, for example, a woman had to go to the effort to be fertile that she now does to counter that. Go to her doctor, buy a prescription. Or a man had to be sure that he used whatever the reverse of a condom would be.

These are extreme examples, but what if it were possible to have to decide to get pregnant instead of the other way around?
 
Posted by vonk (Member # 9027) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Hookt_Un_Fonix:
Thats the trick,... which ones indeed.

None. I didn't want to put words in your mouth or assume you meant anthing in particular. I do not believe there are any universal morals.
 
Posted by Nato (Member # 1448) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by mr_porteiro_head:
Telling people not to have sex isn't very effective, that's true.

Choosing not to have sex is extremely effective.

Sex isn't something people shouldn't have. It's fun! [Big Grin]

Any society wherein not having sex is the only surefire way to not have a baby isn't as good as one with perfect medical birth control, so we should try to improve our birth control.

quote:
Originally posted by Dagonee:
quote:
What is the point, then, of responding to a suggestion that we improve birth control with the "all people have to do is abstain if they don't want to get pregnant" argument?
Because the idea of improving birth control was put forth as a "solution" to the abortion problem. The existence of such control now suggests that such control will not "solve" the abortion problem.
What the heck? I said we should improve birth control so that we can have our cake and eat it too. I wasn't saying abstinence doesn't work to prevent pregnancy.

Abstinence is not a good solution to unwanted pregnancy for reasons other than its effectiveness. (Most people don't want to go without having sex to ensure that they won't have a baby) Better birth control would be a better solution. The quality of birth control kmb describes would be a very good defense against unwanted pregnancy.
 
Posted by Javert Hugo (Member # 3980) on :
 
I excluded the eleven-year-olds from being responsible for their pregnancy. I did not say "yay! abortion for kids!".

Once again, you would do better to not make stuff up and pretend I said it.
 
Posted by camus (Member # 8052) on :
 
quote:
I gave a perfectly clear stance: due to my own experiences, my feeling is that I would not wish to legally hamper the protesters in any way, because doing so would create strictures on free speech that I find intolerable.

I freely admit that if I were to have different experiences or see additional evidence, this may be modified.

Okay, so how would your stance be modified if your experiences included PSI's stated situation?
 
Posted by Javert Hugo (Member # 3980) on :
 
I've already taken her description into account.
 
Posted by mr_porteiro_head (Member # 4644) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Mucus:
quote:
Originally posted by mr_porteiro_head:
quote:
What kind of policy do anti-abortion advocates propose that takes into account a United States where people can easily travel to Canada or Mexico for their medical needs?
I don't feel the need to take into account what happens in other countries.
You really should for two reasons:
A) If you do not, I suspect that anyone of a low income living within driving/busing distance of Canada would be able to avoid the ban. Anyone of a moderate income or higher would be able to avoid the ban outright.
If I were to guess, that would leave maybe 1/5th or less of the population that could be successfully stopped from having an abortion.

The ban would be even more of a farce than prohibition with plenty of consequences.

B) If abortion is really "murder", you should really be concerned regardless of where it happens. Additionally, I would also bet that even if you did not (as evidence from the example of same-sex marriage) that other advocates *would* try to take into account this and take measures. It is worth considering what these measures would end up looking like and whether they would be worse than the problem at hand.

* by "the ban", this is shorthand for if anti-abortion advocates for their way and implemented a simple blanket "no abortion access in the US" policy

Oh, it's worse than you think. My sights are set a good deal lower than "no abortion in the US". I just want individual states to have the right, if they so wish, to ban abortion within their own borders.
 
Posted by camus (Member # 8052) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by PSI:
My personal major issue is that I can't get home without passing them, and there's no way to avoid my children seeing this.

quote:
Originally posted by Javert Hugo:
I think they are entirely avoidable unless someone is actually going to the abortion clinic

You're not really taking her description into account because you don't think the premise of her account is true.
 
Posted by Scott R (Member # 567) on :
 
When we went to the Hill Cumorah pageant, there was no way for me to shield my kids' ears from the lies the protesters were shouting by bullhorn, into the parking lot.

Nor was there much chance of me stopping my eight-year-old and six-year-old from reading the signs denigrating our beliefs.

EVEN SO-- and even though the protesters' complaints were false, graphic, and personally directed (yes, they did shout at particular people walking across the lot)-- I would not do anything legal to stop, quell or frustrate their efforts to speak their minds.

We did talk with the kids beforehand about what they'd see outside the pageant; and our kids know who to ask for answers about our religion.

Kids' interactions with objectionable (but protected) speech on public display is best handled by parents talking with kids, and informing them about what the heck is going on before the actual encounter.
 
Posted by camus (Member # 8052) on :
 
quote:
Kids' interactions with objectionable (but protected) speech on public display is best handled by parents talking with kids, and informing them about what the heck is going on before the actual encounter.
Unless you can't anticipate the encounter and/or you think the subject isn't appropriate for your children to discuss. For example, if I had young children I wouldn't want people protesting premarital sex to be standing right outside of my house with graphic pictures of different STDs.
 
Posted by MattP (Member # 10495) on :
 
quote:
Oh, it's worse than you think. My sights are set a good deal lower than "no abortion in the US". I just want individual states to have the right, if they so wish, to ban abortion within their own borders.
Beyond having the right, do you support individual states actually instituting these bans? Do you believe that such bans would be effective?
 
Posted by MightyCow (Member # 9253) on :
 
I'm a big fan of protecting speech, but I'm not sure that should include huge, graphic images. I think protesters should be allowed to say basically what they want (excluding inciting violence or speaking slander), but there can exist very free speech without the necessity for disturbing images which will be forever burned into my mind.

You should be able to speak your mind, but you should not be able to set up a rock concert speaker system outside my house and speak your mind at deafening volume at 3am.

I would say similarly, you should indeed be allowed to stand outside an abortion clinic and say that abortion is murder, anyone who believes in abortion for any reason whatsoever is amoral and will burn forever in the fiery hell of Satan's bum, etc.

I don't think that right should infringe on other people's right to avoid listening to you if they choose not to. It should also not include the right to display huge pictures of disturbing violence on a public street. The people driving down that street should have the right not to see a picture of a dismembered fetus without having to close their eyes and veer onto the sidewalk.
 
Posted by mr_porteiro_head (Member # 4644) on :
 
I would advocate making abortion illegal in my state, yes.
 
Posted by PSI Teleport (Member # 5545) on :
 
quote:
Sex isn't something people shouldn't have. It's fun!
"I am afraid that the pleasantness of an employment does not always envince its propriety."

I love Jane Austen.
 
Posted by Scott R (Member # 567) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by camus:
if I had young children I wouldn't want people protesting premarital sex to be standing right outside of my house with graphic pictures of different STDs.

Graphic Picture of the Herpes Virus

Wow. You'd object to THAT? Man, I thought *I* was prudish.
 
Posted by BlackBlade (Member # 8376) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by mr_porteiro_head:
I would advocate making abortion illegal in my state, yes.

By illegal do you mean you'd ban the option of abortion in EVERY case, including where a doctor recommends it in order save the life of a mother?

Just curious.
 
Posted by mr_porteiro_head (Member # 4644) on :
 
No, I do not mean that.
 
Posted by MattP (Member # 10495) on :
 
quote:
I would advocate making abortion illegal in my state, yes.
Do you believe that making abortion illegal in your state is an effective means of eliminating abortions by the citizens of your state? Based on your previous comments, it sounds to me like you're less concerned with actually preventing abortions than in making sure they are illegal. Am I misunderstanding you?
 
Posted by BlackBlade (Member # 8376) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by mr_porteiro_head:
No, I do not mean that.

So by illegal would you make it illegal for individuals to request an abortion be done and instead limit it solely to the doctors discretion in life or death situations?

What about if a psychiatrist says that an abortion is neccesary to avoid serious mental trauma in the case of rape or incest?
 
Posted by mr_porteiro_head (Member # 4644) on :
 
Why the third degree on my opinions about abortion, folks?
 
Posted by Javert Hugo (Member # 3980) on :
 
Because when an unstoppable force meets an immovable object, it wiggles.
 
Posted by MattP (Member # 10495) on :
 
I'm trying to understand them but you are giving very short answers with very little information. If you don't want to talk about it, just say so.
 
Posted by BlackBlade (Member # 8376) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by mr_porteiro_head:
Why the third degree on my opinions about abortion, folks?

I'm actually not familiar with that phrase [Razz]

I'm just trying to flesh them out, I understand if for whatever reason you'd rather not spell them out. I'm just curious, I was surprised that it sounded like you were saying outright, ban all abortions in your state, that's all. I was not planning on challenging your opinions, just getting a feel for them.*

What can I say, I like the cut of your jib much of the time Porter.

*But as is common in a forum I reserve the right to change my mind on this matter [Wink]
 
Posted by Scott R (Member # 567) on :
 
quote:
when an unstoppable force meets an immovable object, it wiggles.
It Wiggles?

I'd run.
 
Posted by Belle (Member # 2314) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Scott R:
Graphic Picture of the Herpes Virus

Wow. You'd object to THAT? Man, I thought *I* was prudish.

Who knew Herpes was so pretty?
 
Posted by mr_porteiro_head (Member # 4644) on :
 
Or so multi-phallic. >.<
 
Posted by Hookt_Un_Fonix (Member # 10094) on :
 
We all have views on abortion, and not many people can find the middle of the road on this. This is why it has been used a filler campaign subject for many years. I do not think we will ever agree about it enough to get rid of protesters on either side.

Personally I do not agree with abortion but I under the medical needs for it. I do not think it should be used as a form of birth control. Those that are not willing to suffer or enjoy the consequences of their actions should not engage in those actions. Sex can and often results in the transmission of STD's or the conception of a child.

I think it is our job as parents and society to explain this to our children by talking openly about subjects and not trying to hide it behind fear and rethoric.

Sex is not bad. Sex can be a beautiful enjoyable experience even if it is with a sad sack like myself. It can be a great act of union and a physical representation of your feelings. Like all things that are good in life, you have to exhibit control over those desires less they exhibit control over you.

If our children and those ignorant adults are educated properly about sex, perhaps the need for abortions would and could be limited to medical purposes only. The argument needs to be made effective though with out using religion as a basis for the argument.

The reason for this is in our nation many people follow a variety of religions and though some have similar ideas not all are the same. Some people will reject sound advice, simply because you slipped in a religious note that may or may not be from their faith. They could and would reject your sound advice simply because they might feel it is not inline with their faith.

Thats just my two cents though.
 
Posted by Javert Hugo (Member # 3980) on :
 
I haven't noticed ANYONE in this thread citing their faith as for their rejection of abortion.
 
Posted by MattP (Member # 10495) on :
 
quote:
I haven't noticed ANYONE in this thread citing their faith as for their rejection of abortion.
I didn't notice anyone citing any reason for rejecting abortion - just that they rejected it. The suggestion that anti-abortion folk develop a rigorous secular argument for their position is a good idea.
 
Posted by Hookt_Un_Fonix (Member # 10094) on :
 
Okay then, other then your faith why should a person reject abortion. Leave doctrine and faith based morals out of the discussion. With out saying its just wrong tell me why its wrong. I have my own arguments for it, and I am not really pro choice. I woudl just like to hear what and other people have to say.

I woudl ask to hear the pro choice side of it, but since the law currently favors them its not really required by them.
 
Posted by Reshpeckobiggle (Member # 8947) on :
 
I'd tell you my reasoning, Hookt, but I value my sanity too much to get involved with this lot on this subject.


Ahh, here I go...

If abortion is murder, then it should be illegal, no exceptions. If we cannot answer the question of whether abortion is murder, then we must err on the side of caution. If you disagree with my reasoning, then we should at least be allowed to vote on the matter. But for some reason, we continue killing babies, and we don't get to vote on the matter. What's going on here?
 
Posted by Reshpeckobiggle (Member # 8947) on :
 
Oh, yeah, I thought this wasn't going to be your average abortion thread. But it sure appears indistinguishable from all the other abortion threads (maybe a little less name calling; but I guess I ruined that by effectively calling the pro-choicers "murderers.")

(I didn't actually do that, but that is how som

Now I'm gonna go find an evolution thread and cement my future temporary loss of sanity.
 
Posted by Hookt_Un_Fonix (Member # 10094) on :
 
The trouble is by current law, abortion is not murder (devils advocate here). It is a moral belief that makes it murder. By the law life does not start until the child leaves the womb, so can you legally prove that life starts at an another point. Is it conception?

On this note the law is hypocritical though. If a drunk driver kills a pregnant woman and her unborn child and they die, the driver faces two counts of murder in most states.
 
Posted by Reshpeckobiggle (Member # 8947) on :
 
Right. But I'm asking if abortion is murder in an objective sense, and not according to subjective human laws.
 
Posted by MattP (Member # 10495) on :
 
quote:
If abortion is murder, then it should be illegal, no exceptions.
No argument there.

quote:
If we cannot answer the question of whether abortion is murder, then we must err on the side of caution.
And this is where we get stuck, I think, on religion. I don't believe there is any non-religious argument that an early-stage fetus is any more a distinct human being with a right to live than the brain dead adults who's death via discontinuation of life support we seem to more universally accept.

I also believe that any sort of just god(s) would take care of any potential lost souls either by giving them another shot in the next available body, or giving them an express ticket to their eternal reward. But that's a religious argument...

quote:
If you disagree with my reasoning, then we should at least be allowed to vote on the matter. But for some reason, we continue killing babies, and we don't get to vote on the matter. What's going on here?
Because our system of government protects the minority from the "tyranny of the majority" by not allowing a direct vote on all issues. If a direct vote by the citizens in each state were the way we decided these sort of things, slavery could have continued for many decades.
 
Posted by Reshpeckobiggle (Member # 8947) on :
 
All true, Matt. But how do we decide what is something that should be left to the masses to decide vs. what should instead be ruled upon by judges? And how does that jibe with the torturous interpretation of the so-called "right-to-privacy" that is nowhere mentioned in the constitution but is somehow inferred, and then applied to something like thr right to privately abort your baby?

So do we leave it up to the judges who obviously in this case had their decision in mind and were going to interpret the law however necessary in order to justify their decision? Or do we let the people decide?

And sure, a just God will send those innocent souls to heaven. But does he judge the rest of us too? And will he judge me for standing idly by while millions of innocents are killed? I'd hate to find out the hard way. So to be on the safe side, I'm gonna protest the thing that appears to me to be murder. And I'll be accused of all kinds of nasty things along the way. For instance, a "right-wing conservative." *shudder*
 
Posted by Hookt_Un_Fonix (Member # 10094) on :
 
I agree with the protesting, and moral obligation to do it, but in what matter will you protest it? Are you willing to hold up a 5x5 poster depicting the corpse of the unfortunate child?
 
Posted by Reshpeckobiggle (Member # 8947) on :
 
No. I just do my best to argue my position effectively. And I vote for pro-life candidates only. That is one of the only things that will outright disqualify you from receiving my vote, is having a pro-choice stance. I view that as being a marker of either deficient morality or deficient intelligence.
 
Posted by Reshpeckobiggle (Member # 8947) on :
 
Allow me to qualify that statement; simply being pro-life does not preclude one from being morally or mentally deficient. As some might point out, I myself am proof of that.
 
Posted by MattP (Member # 10495) on :
 
quote:
And how does that jibe with the torturous interpretation of the so-called "right-to-privacy" that is nowhere mentioned in the constitution but is somehow inferred
The constitution was not meant to be an exhaustive list of rights. In fact, there was some controversy about it specifically because of a fear that people would come to believe that there were no rights other than those enumerated in the constitution. Alexander Hamilton anticipated this:
quote:
"I go further, and affirm that bills of rights, in the sense and in the extent in which they are contended for, are not only unnecessary in the proposed constitution, but would even be dangerous. They would contain various exceptions to powers which are not granted; and on this very account, would afford a colorable pretext to claim more than were granted. For why declare that things shall not be done which there is no power to do?"
The "right to privacy" was not invented in Roe v. Wade - it had already been established through a number of previous supreme court rulings. The application to Roe v. Wade was not about being able to abort the fetus in privacy, but that a woman had domain over her body and could choose to terminate her pregnancy if she wished. Privacy is broader concept than just an accounting of how many people know what you're doing.

quote:
So do we leave it up to the judges who obviously in this case had their decision in mind and were going to interpret the law however necessary in order to justify their decision? Or do we let the people decide?
If we let the people decide by popular vote then the mood of the day can dramatically and negatively the affect the lives of those in the minority. I do not trust the population at large to make good decisions about complicated legal matters, properly weighing constitutional and precidential factors.

quote:
But does he judge the rest of us too?
If there's someone up their judging us, then I expect that we'll be judged according to our knowledge. I'm sure very few people that have abortions believe they are committing murder and I don't think that they will be treated harshly for what they do in ignorance. If you are sure that there are murders happening then I suppose you might be accountable for keeping quiet. I would question how you can be so sure, though.
 
Posted by MattP (Member # 10495) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Reshpeckobiggle:
No. I just do my best to argue my position effectively. And I vote for pro-life candidates only. That is one of the only things that will outright disqualify you from receiving my vote, is having a pro-choice stance. I view that as being a marker of either deficient morality or deficient intelligence.

It seems like conservative candidates have gotten a lot of play out of espousing a pro-life position, but they rarely seem to act on that position. Given several years with a pro-life president, pro-life congress, pro-life senate, and pro-life supreme court, I'm rather amazed at how little action there was on abortion. Is it worth voting only for pro-life candidates, regardless of their position on other issues, if their pro-lifeness is just a campaign gimmick?
 
Posted by Reshpeckobiggle (Member # 8947) on :
 
I'm not so sure. I'm just playing it safe. In fact, I sometimes entertain the notion that one is only convicted of crimes that they know are crimes, and so someone who has an abortion, performs an abortion, or supports an abortion with complete confidence that an abortion is no crime will perhaps not be judge guilty of murder even if that is in fact what abortion is. But then, I also have a feeling that everyone knows deep down inside how wrong an abortion is.

[edit] I say "judged" and "convicted" in the sense of a higher power doing the judging and convicting, by the way. [/edit]

True, about the constitution not being an exhaustive list of rights. However, it is not for the judges to decide what rights the constitution left out. They are to determine what is allows and prohibits. This is not what they have done, and this does not end with the "right" to abortion.

Besides, whatever right to privacy those judges discovered, applying it to abortion is the definition of tortuous logic that fully demonstrates their original intention of legalizing it regardless of what the constitution says. Has no one yet pointed out in this thread that the thing being aborted is NOT a part of the woman, but is instead a separate human being?
 
Posted by Reshpeckobiggle (Member # 8947) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by MattP:
It seems like conservative candidates have gotten a lot of play out of espousing a pro-life position, but they rarely seem to act on that position. Given several years with a pro-life president, pro-life congress, pro-life senate, and pro-life supreme court, I'm rather amazed at how little action there was on abortion. Is it worth voting only for pro-life candidates, regardless of their position on other issues, if their pro-lifeness is just a campaign gimmick?

Yeah, it sucks. Don't think for a moment that I'm happy with any of our politicians. It seems like by simple virtue of being eminently qualified to be president pretty much rules out the possibility of your ever becoming president. Pat Buchanan comes to mind.
 
Posted by MattP (Member # 10495) on :
 
quote:
Has no one yet pointed out in this thread that the thing being aborted is NOT a part of the woman, but is instead a separate human being?
I don't think that's a settled matter. Even if it is a separate human being, it's a peculiar one with requirements that differ from other human beings. It completely relies on the mother for it's continued existence but an abortion ban would mean that she cannot choose to cut off that support. If a human being will die absent a marrow donation from another person, can we compel that other person to provide their marrow? What about a blood transfusion? Can that be compelled to save a life? Should people that refuse be tried as murderers?
 
Posted by Reshpeckobiggle (Member # 8947) on :
 
That fact that there are these questions are what makes me wonder why we let abortion go on unabated. Is it possible that abortion is not wrong? Sure. But it is still only a possibility, and what remains is the possibility that millions of innocent human beings are being killed every year in this country.
 
Posted by MattP (Member # 10495) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Reshpeckobiggle:
That fact that there are these questions are what makes me wonder why we let abortion go on unabated. Is it possible that abortion is not wrong? Sure. But it is still only a possibility, and what remains is the possibility that millions of innocent human beings are being killed every year in this country.

It's the lack of certainty which makes me think it should be up to the woman, rather than the government or society at large. If God wants her to know that it is wrong, I expect him to make that clear to her.

Personally, I think abortions are terrible (morning-after pill, not so much) and I wish that no one would ever feel that it was the correct choice, but I do believe that I'm not in a position to tell them what the correct choice is. I think the solution to the problem is to decrease the number of situations in which people feel that abortion is warranted by increasing the availability of contraceptives and the education on their use.
 
Posted by PSI Teleport (Member # 5545) on :
 
quote:
It completely relies on the mother for it's continued existence but an abortion ban would mean that she cannot choose to cut off that support.
It's been said but it bears repeating. How is this baby different from a newborn? A murder ban means that the mother cannot stop supporting the baby by refusing it nourishment, she can only try and find someone else to take the job. Since there's no provision for finding another source of support for an unborn fetus, she can't pass that job off to someone else until it's born. Unfairly, we've chosen to remedy this problem by offering the woman the choice to kill the child, rather than wait. Not even let the child die, by ignoring it, but willful and intentional killing.
 
Posted by MattP (Member # 10495) on :
 
quote:
It's been said but it bears repeating. How is this baby different from a newborn?
The baby isn't uniquely dependent on her at that point, as you've pointed out in the remainder of your post.
 
Posted by PSI Teleport (Member # 5545) on :
 
quote:
The baby isn't uniquely dependent on her at that point, as you've pointed out in the remainder of your post.
But is it wrong to make it so that the child at least has a chance of having its dependency shift to someone who'll gladly accept it, rather than kill it instead? As far as I can see, except in cases of health problems of the mother, all the mother will suffer long-term are a few unsightly stretch marks. Is it unfair to ask the woman to pay that price for the life of a child that she was half responsible for creating? Just so that it can have a chance? (A chance, by the way, that a terminal patient on life support does not have, and therein lies the distinction.)
 
Posted by Kwea (Member # 2199) on :
 
It boils down to who gets to decide this....the mother, or someone else.


I think the mother should.


Others think otherwise.


I don't think the fetuses possible rights trump the mothers definite ones, at least not until birth.
 
Posted by PSI Teleport (Member # 5545) on :
 
quote:
It boils down to who gets to decide this....the mother, or someone else.

If you put all the arguments from both sides together, I guess that is what it boils down to. But not when you're talking to one person whose opinions might not be there's no God, babies aren't people, and potential doesn't matter.
 
Posted by scholar (Member # 9232) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by PSI Teleport:
As far as I can see, except in cases of health problems of the mother, all the mother will suffer long-term are a few unsightly stretch marks.

Spoken like someone who has never been pregnant.
 
Posted by MattP (Member # 10495) on :
 
quote:
babies aren't people
I think there's some argument about what constitutes a "baby" or a "person" but I don't think I've ever heard anyone say that babies aren't people.
 
Posted by MattP (Member # 10495) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by scholar:
quote:
Originally posted by PSI Teleport:
As far as I can see, except in cases of health problems of the mother, all the mother will suffer long-term are a few unsightly stretch marks.

Spoken like someone who has never been pregnant.
Heck, I've never been pregnant, but I know there's a lot more to it than that. "Health problems of the mother" can cover a broad range of problems during the pregnancy, delivery, and long after. Even in my relatively small circle of acquaintances, I knew one woman who died from a postpartum blood clot and another who died from a staph infection acquired in the hospital recovering from her delivery.
 
Posted by Dagonee (Member # 5818) on :
 
quote:
I don't believe there is any non-religious argument that an early-stage fetus is any more a distinct human being with a right to live than the brain dead adults who's death via discontinuation of life support we seem to more universally accept.
This argument has been made many times, by many people, including atheists.

You might be accurate if you added "that is convincing to me" after the word "argument." But your belief as described is simply wrong. There is such an argument.
 
Posted by King of Men (Member # 6684) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Reshpeckobiggle:
Is it possible that abortion is not wrong? Sure. But it is still only a possibility, and what remains is the possibility that millions of innocent human beings are being killed every year in this country.

This is just a variant of Pascal's wager, and subject to the same weakness. You have zero knowledge of what an objective morality might be; therefore it is possible that it includes an injunction to abort fetuses whenever possible, as a positive duty. Indeed, for all you know, you are required to kill people who try to prevent you from aborting fetuses, including the mother. If you do not do this, you will be punsihed in hell for all eternity, and so forth. Since this scenario is exactly as probable as the one you outline, your argument fails.
 
Posted by Reshpeckobiggle (Member # 8947) on :
 
Here's the thing. You have people who say that abortion is wrong, but that it shouldn't be outlawed because, presumably, the alternative is more wrong. Then you've got people who think there is nothing wrong with abortion. And then you've got people who think that abortion is wrong and it should be outlawed. What you don't have is an excuse for making people live with the knowledge that abortion is legal and this was a decision that was made regardless of any populous decision and telling them that they have no right to determine whether this should even be allowed in the first place, because of theoretical threats to "minority rights."

The mother should not be allowed to make this decision. Because when you do that, sometimes she elects to kill the baby. This is not a "women's issue." We don't allow unwarranted killing in other situations. I don't care if you don't believe it's killing. Because you are exhibiting your own willful refusal to see it for what it really is. This is one of the major reasons for objecting to graphic photos of abortions. If it wasn't really something horrible, it wouldn't be considered graphic.

Ahh, I lost my train of thought.
 
Posted by Reshpeckobiggle (Member # 8947) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by King of Men:
quote:
Originally posted by Reshpeckobiggle:
Is it possible that abortion is not wrong? Sure. But it is still only a possibility, and what remains is the possibility that millions of innocent human beings are being killed every year in this country.

This is just a variant of Pascal's wager, and subject to the same weakness. You have zero knowledge of what an objective morality might be; therefore it is possible that it includes an injunction to abort fetuses whenever possible, as a positive duty. Indeed, for all you know, you are required to kill people who try to prevent you from aborting fetuses, including the mother. If you do not do this, you will be punsihed in hell for all eternity, and so forth. Since this scenario is exactly as probable as the one you outline, your argument fails.
Because you say so? I don't think so. My argument is that we, being members of a so-called democracy who get to make the rules as we see fit, get to make decisions about what is legal or illegal. I submit that because it is possible that abortion is murder, it must be considered when determining it's legality. But this option has been usurped by a branch of the government that is acting outside of its jurisdiction.

Besides, what's so wrong with Pascal's wager, anyway? If God really does exist, and avoidance of hell entails belief in that God, then what does it matter the reason why one chooses to believe in him, if the belief is sincere?
 
Posted by MightyCow (Member # 9253) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Reshpeckobiggle:
Because you are exhibiting your own willful refusal to see it for what it really is.

You're exhibiting your own willful refusal to accept that other people might be able to make a logical and coherent argument which is not consistent with your personal belief system. [Razz]
 
Posted by King of Men (Member # 6684) on :
 
quote:
I submit that because it is possible that abortion is murder, it must be considered when determining it's legality.
And I submit that because it is possible that abortion is desirable, that must likewise be considered when determining its legality.
 
Posted by Eaquae Legit (Member # 3063) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Reshpeckobiggle:
Besides, what's so wrong with Pascal's wager, anyway? If God really does exist, and avoidance of hell entails belief in that God, then what does it matter the reason why one chooses to believe in him, if the belief is sincere?

It's a crappy reason, that's why. I prefer to believe things because I honestly think them to be truth, not because I feel I need to cover my bases.
 
Posted by King of Men (Member # 6684) on :
 
Moreover, you are not responding to the criticism of the Wager that I actually made, but to a completely different one.
 
Posted by MattP (Member # 10495) on :
 
quote:
Besides, what's so wrong with Pascal's wager, anyway?
Because it presumes the choice is between the Christian god and no god when there are many other choices. In some belief systems, choosing the wrong god may be worse than choosing none.
 
Posted by Samprimary (Member # 8561) on :
 
quote:
... having a pro-choice stance. I view that as being a marker of either deficient morality or deficient intelligence.
Oh man when I saw that the thread title was changed, I knew you had to be behind it.

quote:
This is one of the major reasons for objecting to graphic photos of abortions. If it wasn't really something horrible, it wouldn't be considered graphic.
Butchering a cow is considered graphic. Hot, hot, hot sex is considered graphic.

I guess if meat and sex weren't really terrible things that should be abolished, they wouldn't be considered graphic OH WAIT, RESHPECTOBIGGLE LOGIC
 
Posted by steven (Member # 8099) on :
 
"I prefer to believe things because I honestly think them to be truth, not because I feel I need to cover my bases."

Interesting. Wouldn't a middle ground be smarter, though?

I direct that not at Eaquae so much specifically, but in general.

I'd like to hear some thoughts on this.
 
Posted by Javert (Member # 3076) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by steven:
"I prefer to believe things because I honestly think them to be truth, not because I feel I need to cover my bases."

Interesting. Wouldn't a middle ground be smarter, though?

I direct that not at Eaquae so much specifically, but in general.

I'd like to hear some thoughts on this.

But how many people can just decide to believe? I know I can't. And even if it would be smarter, it would be dishonest for me to agree to something just to avoid a potential punishment.
 
Posted by Javert (Member # 3076) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Reshpeckobiggle:
Besides, what's so wrong with Pascal's wager, anyway? If God really does exist, and avoidance of hell entails belief in that God, then what does it matter the reason why one chooses to believe in him, if the belief is sincere?

I'm sure someone must have said this, but I'll reiterate it.

It's wrong because it isn't a 50/50 option. If there was only one religion, then the wager would at least make sense. But that's not how the world really is.

Say I accept Pascal's Wager. I'm an atheist, but I figure I want to cover my bets, so I 'decide' to believe in the god of Christianity. But then I die and I end up standing in front of Allah. Sucks to be me, doesn't it?

All that Pascal's wager really tells us is to find the religion with the worst hell and believe in that one.
 
Posted by Kwea (Member # 2199) on :
 
I hold that attempting to engage Resh in any sort of actual discussion is ignorant and futile, at least in serious matters. He will, without fail, announce why he is smarter and better equipped to determine the "right" answer than anyone else in the thread, and announce his moral superiority to one and all.


I hold the past years worth of threads to be evidence.
 
Posted by steven (Member # 8099) on :
 
Tom never posted a link, but he mentioned a study sometime last year that suggested that intuition is only trustworty to the degree that you have experience/knowledge/ability in the subject area.

I have definitely seen the average quality of my own intuition vary tremendously depending on the subject area.

I guess what I'm saying is, I see no reason to trust another person's intuition more than my own on spiritual matters.

I think it's fine to make small guesses in the area of God/spirit/the Unseen. Without testing guesses, we don't increase knowledge. However....to my mind, many of the guesses that people make even today in this society are sometimes disastrously wrong.
 
Posted by Kwea (Member # 2199) on :
 
Yeah....a lot of times intuition is merely your own unconscious perceptions and knowledge reacting to your present situations and environment.


It would be cool to see a link to any studies regarding that, though. (hintHint)
 
Posted by rollainm (Member # 8318) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Dagonee:
quote:
I don't believe there is any non-religious argument that an early-stage fetus is any more a distinct human being with a right to live than the brain dead adults who's death via discontinuation of life support we seem to more universally accept.
This argument has been made many times, by many people, including atheists.

You might be accurate if you added "that is convincing to me" after the word "argument." But your belief as described is simply wrong. There is such an argument.

I'd like to hear it.
 
Posted by MattP (Member # 10495) on :
 
quote:
You might be accurate if you added "that is convincing to me"
I think prefacing the statement with "I don't believe" made my post as accurate as it could be.
 
Posted by Eaquae Legit (Member # 3063) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by steven:
"I prefer to believe things because I honestly think them to be truth, not because I feel I need to cover my bases."

Interesting. Wouldn't a middle ground be smarter, though?

I direct that not at Eaquae so much specifically, but in general.

I'd like to hear some thoughts on this.

Well, no. If I honestly believe something is truth, a "middle ground" would be just as dishonest as someone who doesn't really believe God is a truth accepting Pascal's Wager. It's "choosing" to believe a certain way just to cover all the bases.

Now, if I'm uncertain as to the truth of a thing or matter, I am quite content to remain agnostic about it.
 
Posted by Reshpeckobiggle (Member # 8947) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Kwea:
I hold that attempting to engage Resh in any sort of actual discussion is ignorant and futile, at least in serious matters. He will, without fail, announce why he is smarter and better equipped to determine the "right" answer than anyone else in the thread, and announce his moral superiority to one and all.


I hold the past years worth of threads to be evidence.

Has it really been years?


My real point here is that I don't see why it can't be left up for democracy to decide. To deny the people that option out of some assertion that it would open the door for despotism is to simply assert your own belief that you are the one who is right.
 
Posted by Kwea (Member # 2199) on :
 
I meant it to be possessive. Darn typos.... [Wink]


Although you have been around since 2005....so it depends on if we are noting the sign up year or actual months spent. [Wink]

I understand the point, as do most people here. The main reason, at least for me, is that I don't trust you with my freedoms, particularly those that involve my body (in general.....it's not like I can have a child myself). Not just you specifically, but in general.

The majority has been wrong many, many times. Just because 51 out of 100 people think something is true doesn't make it so.


People have a right to decide for themselves where the line is on important issues like these. Just because a majority disagrees with them doesn't mean they shouldn't be able to decide for themselves.


We have checks and balances for this very reason.
 
Posted by Reshpeckobiggle (Member # 8947) on :
 
But we get to vote on some things, right? Who decides what gets a vote and what gets dictated to us? What are the determining criteria there?

ah.. YEAR'S, not years. Makes much more sense.
 
Posted by Flaming Toad on a Stick (Member # 9302) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Javert:
Say I accept Pascal's Wager. I'm an atheist, but I figure I want to cover my bets, so I 'decide' to believe in the god of Christianity. But then I die and I end up standing in front of Allah. Sucks to be me, doesn't it?

[quibble] Not really. It's the same God. [/quibble]
 
Posted by Flaming Toad on a Stick (Member # 9302) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by MattP:
quote:
If we cannot answer the question of whether abortion is murder, then we must err on the side of caution.
And this is where we get stuck, I think, on religion. I don't believe there is any non-religious argument that an early-stage fetus is any more a distinct human being with a right to live than the brain dead adults who's death via discontinuation of life support we seem to more universally accept.


1. RE: non-religious arguments: It's not a religious argument. I believe the right to life is the most important human right, and that it begins when the egg is ferilized and begins to divide. It has its own genetic coding, it's own physical being. Later on during the pregnancy, it begins to acquire all of its human physical traits. In its last months, it is responsive and thinking. In short, I believe human life begins when a living creature with unique human DNA is created in the womb fom its parent cells. That's not a religious argument.

2. RE: Brain-dead adult analogy: It doesn't work. The brain-dead man will never think again, or move, or live very long for that matter. The fetus will gain sentince, develop, and possibly live 70, 80 or even 100 years as a healthy human being.
 
Posted by MattP (Member # 10495) on :
 
quote:
I believe the right to life is the most important human right, and that it begins when the egg is ferilized and begins to divide.
Why then?

quote:
The brain-dead man will never think again, or move, or live very long for that matter. The fetus will gain sentince
If potential is so important, why not act to protect the loss of eggs and sperm? Why is the moment of fertilization so important? What about all the fertilized eggs that don't implant? Are those all tragedies to be mourned?
 
Posted by King of Men (Member # 6684) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Flaming Toad on a Stick:
quote:
Originally posted by Javert:
Say I accept Pascal's Wager. I'm an atheist, but I figure I want to cover my bets, so I 'decide' to believe in the god of Christianity. But then I die and I end up standing in front of Allah. Sucks to be me, doesn't it?

[quibble] Not really. It's the same God. [/quibble]
Sez you. The god in question might disagree.
 
Posted by 0Megabyte (Member # 8624) on :
 
Allah shmallah. What about Krishna? Or maybe Zeus? Thor? Ra? Haruhi?

What about all of them, is a better question.

Further, who says that being Christian doesn't cause negative things? For Pascal's Wager to be right, you'd have to be sure being Christian doesn't.
 
Posted by MightyCow (Member # 9253) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Flaming Toad on a Stick:
[quibble] Not really. It's the same God. [/quibble]

I thought the quote went something like, "Thou shall have no other God before me."

Did they change it to, "Thou shall have no other God before me, except for Allah of course, since that's me too. Was the two different religions thing messing you guys up? I guess I should have edited my post sooner. My bad."

[Wink]
 
Posted by Flaming Toad on a Stick (Member # 9302) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by King of Men:
quote:
Originally posted by Flaming Toad on a Stick:
quote:
Originally posted by Javert:
Say I accept Pascal's Wager. I'm an atheist, but I figure I want to cover my bets, so I 'decide' to believe in the god of Christianity. But then I die and I end up standing in front of Allah. Sucks to be me, doesn't it?

[quibble] Not really. It's the same God. [/quibble]
Sez you. The god in question might disagree.
Allah is simply how you say "God" in Arabic. I pray to Allah, and I'm Catholic. Furthermore, the vast majority of pertinent scripture points to hem both being the same God, and this thought is backed up by most Christian and Muslim scholars.
 
Posted by Flaming Toad on a Stick (Member # 9302) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by MattP:
quote:
I believe the right to life is the most important human right, and that it begins when the egg is ferilized and begins to divide.
Why then?

quote:
The brain-dead man will never think again, or move, or live very long for that matter. The fetus will gain sentince
If potential is so important, why not act to protect the loss of eggs and sperm? Why is the moment of fertilization so important? What about all the fertilized eggs that don't implant? Are those all tragedies to be mourned?

1. I already went through that in my post. It's a living creature with it's own seperate human DNA, developing into a full human body. I believe the right to human life begins when human life begins. How is that a religious argument?

2. Why should they be? They are not seperate human beigns, they do not multiply or develop into anything else etc... Sentience is not important. I simply used it to show you why I believe your analogy doesn't work. The potential to develop into a full-blown human being is an important point for me in the case against abortion, but it's not the reason I believe life begins at conception.
 
Posted by Belle (Member # 2314) on :
 
quote:
If potential is so important, why not act to protect the loss of eggs and sperm? Why is the moment of fertilization so important? What about all the fertilized eggs that don't implant? Are those all tragedies to be mourned?
Because no matter what care you give a sperm, or an egg, no matter how you nourish it and provide it with an optimal environment in which to grow, it will never be a human being.

A fertilized, implanted egg, on the other hand, will. As for how I counter the argument that fertilized eggs often don't implant and should we try to "find" them somehow and preserve them - I don't see a problem with not interfering in natural death. As in, for instance, DNR orders for the terminally ill. If they want to request no one intervene and allow them to die naturally I have no problem with it.

If a fertiled egg never implants and is shed by the woman's body naturally, that is a natural death. So is miscarriage. I see abortion as a direct interference in the natural process, to take away, by force, the opportunity for that human being to develop. To return to my DNR analogy it's the difference between not doing CPR and allowing someone to die anyway, and willfully killing them before they would have died. There is a difference.

So, that is why I see abortion as killing a human being, and birth control that destroys sperm or egg is not.

Disclaimer: This is only my view and I'm not trying to speak for anyone else.
 
Posted by Flaming Toad on a Stick (Member # 9302) on :
 
I agree 100% Belle.
 
Posted by BlackBlade (Member # 8376) on :
 
I keep hearing this talk about Pascal's Wager and I immediately think of the scene in the movie The Mummy where Beni is being approached slowly by Imhotep and rifles through a fistful of religious symbols all tied around his neck attempting various prayers and only upon pulling out a star of david convinces the mummy to let him serve him, rather then kill him.

Pascal's wager does not work to me because its pretty insulting to think God has need of friends so badly a mere verbal proclamation of belief will suddenly convince him to love you back instead of stuffing your butt in hell.
 
Posted by steven (Member # 8099) on :
 
"stuffing your butt in hell".

I think that's the title of a porno.
 
Posted by ClaudiaTherese (Member # 923) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Flaming Toad on a Stick:
I believe the right to life is the most important human right, and that it begins when the egg is ferilized and begins to divide. It has its own genetic coding, it's own physical being. ... I believe human life begins when a living creature with unique human DNA is created in the womb fom its parent cells.

How do mono- and dizygotic twins factor into your perspective, with respect to the importance of unique human DNA? *interested
 
Posted by steven (Member # 8099) on :
 
He doesn't know, Sara.
 
Posted by ClaudiaTherese (Member # 923) on :
 
He answered this before? My apologies. I am very confused amidst all of the threads we have had here, with all of the very different people involved.

[It is my personal failing.]
 
Posted by ClaudiaTherese (Member # 923) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Belle:
A fertilized, implanted egg, on the other hand, will. As for how I counter the argument that fertilized eggs often don't implant and should we try to "find" them somehow and preserve them - I don't see a problem with not interfering in natural death. As in, for instance, DNR orders for the terminally ill. If they want to request no one intervene and allow them to die naturally I have no problem with it.

If a fertiled egg never implants and is shed by the woman's body naturally, that is a natural death. So is miscarriage.

Aren't there some circumstances where we are morally obligated to intervene in a "natural death?" We now have a much longer lifespan because we have done so, both as a matter of public funding choices (water hygeine, FDA controls on contamination, etc.) as well as parental responsibilities to children (treatment for meningitis or pneumonia, for example). I don't see where the fetus should not be as protected as other children, in the context of arguing it is as important as (and has the same claim on our obligations) as a born child.
 
Posted by mr_porteiro_head (Member # 4644) on :
 
quote:
Pascal's wager does not work to me because its pretty insulting to think God has need of friends so badly a mere verbal proclamation of belief will suddenly convince him to love you back instead of stuffing your butt in hell.
If you were really following Pascal's Wager, you would not merely verbally proclaim belief. Of course, I believe that to a large extent, we believe what we choose to believe.
 
Posted by mr_porteiro_head (Member # 4644) on :
 
quote:
Aren't there some circumstances where we are morally obligated to intervene in a "natural death?"
That's an interesting question by itself (not just as a rhetorical point concerning abortion), but I'm not so sure the answer is as easy or straightforward as you imply.

I certainly do what I can to extend the life of my children, a point which is much more poignant since we almost lost Xerxes a year and a half ago, and would have without modern medicine, but I'm not sure it rises to the level of a moral obligation.
 
Posted by steven (Member # 8099) on :
 
" I'm not sure it rises to the level of a moral obligation."

the law recognizes the concept of "depraved indifference." Do you not?
 
Posted by ClaudiaTherese (Member # 923) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by mr_porteiro_head:
That's an interesting question by itself (not just as a rhetorical point concerning abortion), but I'm not so sure the answer is as easy or straightforward as you imply.

I certainly do what I can to extend the life of my children, a point which is much more poignant since we almost lost Xerxes a year and a half ago, and would have without modern medicine, but I'm not sure it rises to the level of a moral obligation.

*nods

It may well be that different people have different reasonable answers to this. However, note that I didn't say "legal" obligation, but just "moral" [see clarification below] -- and I did not qualify whether this was a great or small obligation.

Nonetheless, I think most of us think there is some moral obligation to protect one's children from at least some natural deaths. Wouldn't you think a parent had failed in his or her parental duties if that parent hadn't reached out and pulled the child away from falling off a cliff? (Or, even moreso, not let the child wander near cliffs! [Wink] ) And yet it would have been a "natural death" if someone hadn't intervened.

I don't take the concession that there is a moral obligation at some level to establish that there is a moral obligation at every level, necessitating that everything possible be done to protect children.

However, what I was wrestling with was the idea (maybe I misinterpreted, BTW) that there is no obligation to intervene to prevent any natural death. If there is some obligation at some level -- and I think it's generally accepted that there is -- then a further discussion about why we would make protecting born children a priority but not do the same for the unborn is in order.

[ July 28, 2007, 01:57 PM: Message edited by: ClaudiaTherese ]
 
Posted by steven (Member # 8099) on :
 
CT wins the thread.
 
Posted by MattP (Member # 10495) on :
 
quote:
Because no matter what care you give a sperm, or an egg, no matter how you nourish it and provide it with an optimal environment in which to grow, it will never be a human being.
But it's still got potential. It's just one step removed from that potential. The optimal environment for a sperm includes an egg. The optimal environment for an egg includes a sperm. The optimal environment for a fertilized egg includes a uterus. I don't see the potential of an egg as being any different, logically, than the combined potential of the egg and sperm that create it.

I don't see human life as having a distinct beginning moment (other than Adam/Eve/primordial goo), but rather as a continuum. There's no point where we go from the cells of our parents, which are human life, to something that is not human life, to something that is human life again. Just being human life, whether a blastocyst or a skin cell, doesn't give any particular value to the object of discussion.

quote:
As for how I counter the argument that fertilized eggs often don't implant and should we try to "find" them somehow and preserve them - I don't see a problem with not interfering in natural death.
We frequently act to interfere with natural death. If these are persons with potential that must be protected, shouldn't we be applying our resources to try to determine what causes an implantation to fail and how we can prevent that? Even if we're OK with natural death, we tend to mourn the natural deaths of other people, why not of unimplanted blastocysts?

quote:
I see abortion as a direct interference in the natural process
Again, we interfere with the natural process all the time. Being part of nature ourselves, everything we do is part of the natural process. Just because something is natural, it's not necessarily objectively good or bad. Botulism is natural, but we don't complain about interfering with nature when someone becomes sick from it and we try to help them.

[ July 28, 2007, 12:58 PM: Message edited by: MattP ]
 
Posted by Flaming Toad on a Stick (Member # 9302) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by ClaudiaTherese:
He answered this before? My apologies. I am very confused amidst all of the threads we have had here, with all of the very different people involved.

[It is my personal failing.]

I've never answered it before, steven's just being an idiot.

When monozygotic twinning occurs, I believe that two human lives are created from one. When the zygote splits, it leaves two seperate human beigns. They have identical DNA, but seperate bodies.

In dizygotic twinning, two seperate eggs are fertilized by two seperate sperm. This is much more straightforward, as they have seperate DNA and bodies.

I really don't think of twinning as an issue, really.
 
Posted by Flaming Toad on a Stick (Member # 9302) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by ClaudiaTherese:
quote:
Originally posted by Belle:
A fertilized, implanted egg, on the other hand, will. As for how I counter the argument that fertilized eggs often don't implant and should we try to "find" them somehow and preserve them - I don't see a problem with not interfering in natural death. As in, for instance, DNR orders for the terminally ill. If they want to request no one intervene and allow them to die naturally I have no problem with it.

If a fertiled egg never implants and is shed by the woman's body naturally, that is a natural death. So is miscarriage.

Aren't there some circumstances where we are morally obligated to intervene in a "natural death?" We now have a much longer lifespan because we have done so, both as a matter of public funding choices (water hygeine, FDA controls on contamination, etc.) as well as parental responsibilities to children (treatment for meningitis or pneumonia, for example). I don't see where the fetus should not be as protected as other children, in the context of arguing it is as important as (and has the same claim on our obligations) as a born child.
I believe Belle's argument rests on deaths that can not be prevented.
 
Posted by steven (Member # 8099) on :
 
"steven's just being an idiot."

I don't need to call names to bolster my arguments.

I guess that makes me an idiot.
 
Posted by Flaming Toad on a Stick (Member # 9302) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by MattP:
I don't see human life as having a distinct beginning moment (other than Adam/Eve/primordial goo), but rather as a continuum. There's no point where we go from the cells of our parents, which are human life, to something that is not human life, to something that is human life again. Just being human life, whether a blastocyst or a skin cell, doesn't give any particular value to the object of discussion.

That's not really an argument I was making. My argument is that a zygote/fetus is not just human life, but a human life, it's own human being.
 
Posted by ClaudiaTherese (Member # 923) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Flaming Toad on a Stick:
I believe Belle's argument rests on deaths that can not be prevented.

But we can prevent many miscarriages. We can probably prevent many more if we put enough resources into doing so. [Confused]
quote:
Originally posted by Flaming Toad on a Stick:
When monozygotic twinning occurs, I believe that two human lives are created from one. When the zygote splits, it leaves two seperate human beigns. They have identical DNA, but seperate bodies


So the point about whether the new life has unique DNA is irrelevant, right? (Not trying to trap you or make a point -- this is just something that I always find difficult to piece out in understanding a given person's perspective. People will often mention the uniqueness of the DNA at one point, but then it seems that isn't really part of the argument at another point -- which is no big deal, just helps in understanding to clarify what is and isn't a key issue.)

So, e.g., regarding "My argument is that a zygote/fetus is not just human life, but a human life, it's own human being" -- the "it's own[ness]" is irrespective of whether it has a unique genetic code.
 
Posted by MattP (Member # 10495) on :
 
And let's not forget Chimera - two eggs can combine to create one individual with the DNA of both. There doesn't seem to be anything distinct and unique about a fertilized egg in that it can be split into multiple individuals or can end up only being part of an individual.
 
Posted by ClaudiaTherese (Member # 923) on :
 
I'm not wedded to the term "moral" in describing parental obligations, by the way. It is a word that has both specific and more loose meanings, and it may or may not be helpful to use.

I use it because it comes from "more," which is Latin for something like "values of character or conduct." It is a technical word in the field of philosophy, and studying and teaching philosophy is the arena where I spent most of the time discussing the morality of abortion.

However, I'm happy just to use the word "obligation" without any qualifiers. I just can't see why we do not have the same obligations to the unborn as we do to born children, if we are discussing them in the context where they are taken to have the same rights and obligations on us. (For me, I do not consider all unborn -- e.g., the blastocyst -- to have the same rights and obligations on us as born children, so it is not a problem for me.)
 
Posted by Flaming Toad on a Stick (Member # 9302) on :
 
The main idea behind the "unique" argument is "different from the parents".
 
Posted by ClaudiaTherese (Member # 923) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Flaming Toad on a Stick:
The main idea behind the "unique" argument is "different from the parents".

Ah. I'm not sure why that leg of your argument isn't circular, then.
 
Posted by mr_porteiro_head (Member # 4644) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by steven:
I don't need to call names to bolster my arguments.

But you do, apparently, need to make stuff up about other people.
 
Posted by steven (Member # 8099) on :
 
"But you do, apparently, need to make stuff up about other people."

Are you referring to my "depraved indifference" comment?
 
Posted by Belle (Member # 2314) on :
 
quote:
I believe Belle's argument rests on deaths that can not be prevented.
Flaming Toad is correct, I'm talking about deaths that cannot be prevented without efforts that are beyond the reach of medical science at this time.

For example, I believe that miscarriages should be prevented to the extent medical science allows us to prevent them. Sometimes it's a simple hormone imbalance that can be corrected, or drugs can stop preterm labor. But there are many things medical science cannot presently do, and those deaths that cannot be prevented, can be allowed to occur.

I should have put "unpreventable with current technology" in front of my original statement about natural death, because of course we interfere in natural death all the time. I believe a moral obligation does exist to prolong and protect life as much as possible, including life in utero.

Back to my analogy about the terminally ill - it's all right to allow a person whose heart has entered a fatal rhythm to die without CPR if that is their request, it is not okay to stab them or shoot them. However - unless the person has made those wishes known, you should always do CPR because if there's any doubt, you should come down on the side of protecting life where possible.

Which is why I could never support any type of abortion if I were unsure when life began - I assume life begins at conception because to believe otherwise and be wrong is an untenable situation for me. If I'm not certain, I'm going to err on the side of life.

I believe without a shadow of a doubt that a full term fetus is a living human being before it's born. I spent so much time looking at my twins in utero through ultrasound, I have no doubts at all. They even had distinct characteristics, they slept at different times, one reacted to loud noises more than the other, etc. They were alive and they were people to me. Do I know exactly when they became people? I believe it was as soon as they were conceived, but I can't prove that. But, because I have no proof either way, the safest thing, the thing that protects and honors human life most, is to assume it's at the earliest point they became what they are which is at conception when their unique DNA was established. Identical twins don't need any separate distinction as far as I'm concerned - when it's one embryo (is that the right term or is it blastocyst at that point?) it deserves the respect a human life deserves, when it splits they should be respected as two human lives. I don't see it as a real issue, but maybe I'm not understanding the point CT was trying to make by bringing them up.
 
Posted by Belle (Member # 2314) on :
 
And I realize I never addressed the points in the original post. I don't approve of using such tactics, myself. I respect their first amendment rights, but even as a staunch pro-life person I would be upset if my kids had to view such signs, so I completely sympathize with the original poster.

I believe in supporting pro-life organizations that care for mothers who need financial and other support to carry their babies to term and care for them (or give them up for adoption). The organization my church sponsors and supports and that my personal money goes toward does no picketing at all. They offer free pregnancy tests, counseling, baby showers to help mothers buy things for their babies, and post-abortion counseling for those that chose not to give birth. I think that's a much better way to spend my time and money than holding up graphic, disturbing pictures where young kids can see them.
 
Posted by erosomniac (Member # 6834) on :
 
quote:
For example, I believe that miscarriages should be prevented to the extent medical science allows us to prevent them. Sometimes it's a simple hormone imbalance that can be corrected, or drugs can stop preterm labor. But there are many things medical science cannot presently do, and those deaths that cannot be prevented, can be allowed to occur.
Question, then: should people who do NOT take all the steps medical science allows to prevent miscarriages be found guilty of criminal neglect?

(Assuming, of course, that you believe an implanted fetus is a human being.)
 
Posted by Belle (Member # 2314) on :
 
quote:
Question, then: should people who do NOT take all the steps medical science allows to prevent miscarriages be found guilty of criminal neglect?

Yup. Like those who drink and use harmful drugs during pregnancy should be guilty of neglect. Just as if you would find a parent guilty of neglect if they let their child die of a simple infection that was easily cured by antibiotics because they didn't carry them to a doctor.
 
Posted by erosomniac (Member # 6834) on :
 
Good to know - the entire idea is one I'd never considered before.
 
Posted by fugu13 (Member # 2859) on :
 
Belle, where do you draw the line? For instance, what about someone who has a miscarriage after horseback riding?
 
Posted by Kwea (Member # 2199) on :
 
Belle, first of all....thank you for answering so carefully. This is a touchy subject on several different levels, as we all know. It is good to be able to discuss these things with other people here while still being respectful of each other.

However, I don't agree with your last statement at all. Once you get into deciding what was and wasn't possible to prevent it enters a gray area that profoundly affects the mothers own rights.

We KNOW she is alive. We KNOW she has rights.


And I do not doubt for a second that her rights are being trampled on the second you (or anyone else) get to determine is she acted with enough care during her pregnancy.....if her miscarriage was preventable or not.

The possible psychological damage that could be inflicted just in carrying out an inquest into the matter is disturbing. Miscarriages are painful enough, and to have yourself held to ANY standard of proof after one is....well I lack the words to be honest.

Let's just say it is one of the worst things you could do to a woman who has miscarried.

IMO, of course.


Once again it seems to me the MOTHER'S rights are being held in contempt, all because the potential rights of a fetus are more important. And why is are their rights more important?

Because they MAY already be human beings, at least to some "majority" opinion.


I hate abortions. I understand why they may at times be necessary, but I hate them. To me every abortion is a huge loss, regardless of their state of humaness at the time, because of their potential from the moment of conception.


But I would hate living in a world where a mother would have to "prove" she didn't cause her own miscarriage even more.

That would be inhuman, IMO.


On a more general note:

I just don't see any way out of the fact that a woman has a right to her own body, her own rights, and her own self-determination. I may not like how she lives her life, but I sure the hell don't want the ability to force her into living her life the way I think she should.

Not being sure of something (human or not) should not give me the right to interfere with how someone else chooses to live their life.


Even if I know I would live it better. [Wink]
 
Posted by ClaudiaTherese (Member # 923) on :
 
Belle, then what is different about the unborn that makes them less of a priority than born children? [Confused]

If 2 million US children were dying a year for mostly unknown reasons, I can't imagine we'd say they can be allowed to occur just because we presently do not know how to prevent them. It'd be a national emergency, right?

(I know I'm missing something about your perspective, but I also know that repeated questions can feel like one is being harrassed -- if so, please feel free not to answer. I don't want that at all.)
 
Posted by Kwea (Member # 2199) on :
 
Yeah...I hope it didn't seem like I was contributing to a pig pile....that wasn't my intent.
 
Posted by Dagonee (Member # 5818) on :
 
quote:
Question, then: should people who do NOT take all the steps medical science allows to prevent miscarriages be found guilty of criminal neglect?
It should be noted that this (not taking all the steps medical science allows) is not the standard for criminal neglect.

quote:
Belle, then what is different about the unborn that makes them less of a priority than born children?
I still don't see where she has said this is the case, CT.

She has mentioned capability as setting the level of responsibility. There is extensive miscarriage research being conducted, as I'm sure you're aware.

Moreover, miscarriages likely stem from many causes. Vaccines prevent about 2 million childhood deaths a year. There's nothing to say that we won't find analog preventive measures for miscarriage.
 
Posted by ClaudiaTherese (Member # 923) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Dagonee:
There is extensive miscarriage research being conducted, as I'm sure you're aware.


Is there really? The dearth of such research has long been bemoaned in the medical literature. Where are you finding an extensive amount? *interested
quote:
Moreover, miscarriages likely stem from many causes. Vaccines prevent about 2 million childhood deaths a year. There's nothing to say that we won't find analog preventive measures for miscarriage.

Right. [Confused] That's what I implied -- at least, if we look for it. But making looking for it a priority isn't consistent with a stance that it just "can be allowed to happen."

---
Edited to add:

We wouldn't (I assume) stand for 2-4 million unexpected deaths of born children every year in the US without actually making the fixing of it a priority, and we wouldn't say it just could be allowed to happen because we aren't sure what is causing it yet.

Again, I am honestly not trying to back anyone up against a rhetorical wall --- not you, not Belle, and not anyone else here. I am honestly trying to understand. This was one of the sticking points for me when I was thinking through the underpinnings of my own anti-abortion stance. For me, I found that I did believe the unborn had less of a claim on us than the born, at least in this aspect, and cognitive dissonance forced me to examine how far I took that difference to extend, and to what extent.

I don't expect everyone to reach the same conclusions (or start from the same perspective, for that matter) as I did. I am very interested in how other people would solve the inconsistencies I couldn't.

[ July 29, 2007, 02:56 AM: Message edited by: ClaudiaTherese ]
 
Posted by ClaudiaTherese (Member # 923) on :
 
This must be said, too: I don't want to dogpile or be abrasive to the people I am speaking with here on this thread (Belle and Dagonee in particular, but everyone, really) both because of general principles and because of the thoughtful, honest, passionate, and considerate manner of those who engage me. Class should be met with class, and those on this thread deserve it.

I'd fall far short of my own standards in a many ways if I didn't do my best to honor that.
 
Posted by Flaming Toad on a Stick (Member # 9302) on :
 
CT, Matt, I'm going to be really busy for the next few days, so I apologize for leaving your statements unanswered. I promise you that I will get you a full response as soon as I can.
 
Posted by Kwea (Member # 2199) on :
 
I agree with CT, at least as far as my intent in discussing these issues yet again. [Smile] I usually avoid abortion thread like the plague these days, because I have already firmed up my own thoughts and stance on it.

Also, these discussions tend to bring out the worst in people because it is such a sensitive isuue, and I don't like how most people treat each other in them.

For the most part, this thread has been fairly civil, and I really hope it stays that way. Not because I think we will find a "soloution", but because one fo the only ways to explore these issues is in frank conversation with other people who care , even if they are on the other side of the idealogical fence. Maybe even because they are on the other side of the issues.
 
Posted by Dagonee (Member # 5818) on :
 
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Is there really? The dearth of such research has long been bemoaned in the medical literature. Where are you finding an extensive amount? *interested
I found three studies in about two seconds of googling. Folic acid, alcohol, smoking, and pesticides have all been studied for their effects on miscarriage rates.

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That's what I implied -- at least, if we look for it. But making looking for it a priority isn't consistent with a stance that it just "can be allowed to happen."
The words used were "those deaths that cannot be prevented, can be allowed to occur." (emphasis added)

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We wouldn't (I assume) stand for 2-4 million unexpected deaths of born children every year in the US without actually making the fixing of it a priority, and we wouldn't say it just could be allowed to happen because we aren't sure what is causing it yet.
But, prior to immunizations, we did "stand" for large rates of children dying from childhood diseases. I'm not really sure what "stand for it" means - certainly neither miscarriages now or deaths to measles, smallpox, etc. then weren't considered good things, and steps were taken to the extent possible to eliminate them. But the point is those deaths occurred and we didn't, as a result, decide that there was a lesser duty to protect children from intentional killing.
 
Posted by Belle (Member # 2314) on :
 
quote:
Let's just say it is one of the worst things you could do to a woman who has miscarried.

First of all, don't assume I don't know what it feels like to miscarry, or that I'm not sympathetic to how women feel.

I believe that the vast, vast majority of miscarriages cannot be prevented with medical science as it stands today. Therefore, most women who miscarry do so through no fault or nothing they did wrong. Sometimes a pregnancy ends. It's tragic, it's terrible (and believe me I do know what I'm talking about) but there's nothing that anyone did wrong. If someday we do find a way to prevent them better than we have now, I would like to see women take advantage of that treatment and save babies who are at risk of dying due to miscarriage. Let me assure you, had such technology existed, I would have fully availed myself of it.

When I say hold women accountable I'm not speaking of a woman in early pregnancy who has no idea she's pregnant yet and goes horseback riding. I'm talking about people who know they are pregnant and willfully do things that endanger their babies. Smoke, drink, engage in dangerous physical activities with full knowledge they can harm their babies, etc. Sometimes deaths, though tragic, are not preventable - and yet sometimes they are. We should do all we can to prevent those that are preventable and look for more ways to save those we currently cannot. it's not about fault or assigning blame to anyone.

But one thing at a time. Before we start enacting laws that hold a woman accountable for her actions toward her unborn child, I'd like to see us as a country recognize the fetus as a person with the rights and protections that status conveys. Since that hasn't happened yet, and probably won't - if I can indulge in some pessimism, then anything further is just what we're doing here - civil discussion.
 
Posted by ClaudiaTherese (Member # 923) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Dagonee:
I found three studies in about two seconds of googling. Folic acid, alcohol, smoking, and pesticides have all been studied for their effects on miscarriage rates.

Dagonee, we are speaking of 2-4 million deaths per year. The investment in those studies sorts of studies is miniscule. Compare this to research on leukemia, which affects about 2000-2500 children per year in the US. If you would like the numbers, I will certainly find them, but I can assure you that the amount of money spent on childhood leukemia research is many orders of magnitude greater than 1/1000 the amount spent on miscarriage research. [*grin And before I go to the lengths to go digging, I'd want to know that the results would actually matter to someone. If it is a side point, or irrelevant, I simply do not have the time. I have another 4 hours of worktime to put in this weekend!]

And, note, most childhood leukemia is the further sequelae of a genetic deficit. We believe these children are born with a propensity to cancer, that this is programmed into them (as my heart failure at 17 yrs old was destined for me). It is, or would have been, a "natural death."
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The words used were "those deaths that cannot be prevented, can be allowed to occur." (emphasis added)
Right. And I still maintain that "We wouldn't (I assume) stand for 2-4 million unexpected deaths of born children every year in the US without actually making the fixing of it a priority, and we wouldn't say it just could be allowed to happen because we aren't sure what is causing it yet."

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We wouldn't (I assume) stand for 2-4 million unexpected deaths of born children every year in the US without actually making the fixing of it a priority, and we wouldn't say it just could be allowed to happen because we aren't sure what is causing it yet.
But, prior to immunizations, we did "stand" for large rates of children dying from childhood diseases.
Not the way we are "standing for" 2-4 million miscarriages a year.

You are right that people may mean different things by "can be allowed to happen." I don't take it that phrase to imply anything along the lines of "must be made a top priority to address," but this might well be what Belle or others do mean by it, or there may be another way they resolve the cognitive dissonance, or maybe there is any host of reasons why they do not see a contradiction here. That's why I am asking, you know.
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I'm not really sure what "stand for it" means - certainly neither miscarriages now or deaths to measles, smallpox, etc. then weren't considered good things, and steps were taken to the extent possible to eliminate them. But the point is those deaths occurred and we didn't, as a result, decide that there was a lesser duty to protect children from intentional killing.
And I am not saying that I "as a result, decide[d] that there was a lesser duty to protect children from intentional killing." That's a mistatement of what I said, if you were intending to paraphrase me or summarize my history.

What I said was that "I found that I did believe [on extensive reflection about how I felt about miscarriages that] the unborn had less of a claim on us than the born, at least in this aspect, and cognitive dissonance forced me to examine how far I took that difference to extend, and to what extent."

That is, I didn't come to believe that because I thought it was okay to kill some kids, it should be okay to kill other kids. Rather, I probed why I was much less worried about deaths at one stage of development than at another, and I came to conclude that I didn't see those deaths as equivalent. That was worth thinking about more, to me.

I also stated "I don't expect everyone to reach the same conclusions (or start from the same perspective, for that matter) as I did. I am very interested in how other people would solve the inconsistencies I couldn't." But that interest wouldn't outweigh my desire for civility with my friends and to refrain from causing more grief in the world.

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Edited to fix quotation formatting

[ July 29, 2007, 01:08 PM: Message edited by: ClaudiaTherese ]
 
Posted by steven (Member # 8099) on :
 
One difficulty with making abortion illegal is finding a way to teach boys and young men how to treat women appropriately despite the fact that laws say that women have no right to control what happens to their bodies. If you support abortion in the case of rape or incest, with all the proof of rape needed being the woman's claim to her doctor, then I might agree with you. Might.

By "appropriately" I mean "as intellectual equals".

This post is in response to Belle's.
 
Posted by ClaudiaTherese (Member # 923) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Belle:
I believe that the vast, vast majority of miscarriages cannot be prevented with medical science as it stands today.... If someday we do find a way to prevent them better than we have now, I would like to see women take advantage of that treatment and save babies who are at risk of dying due to miscarriage.

Would you agree that in making decisions on how to dispense public resources for research into illnesses/deaths of children, no distinction should be made between born and unborn children?

(I am not trying to trap you -- actually, I honestly expect you to say "yes," as I have found you to be quite consistent in your beliefs, as far as I can understand. And if you say "no," I certainly would assume you have good reasons for making that disctinction here (even if not elsewhere), regardless of whether you choose to share them.)
 
Posted by Belle (Member # 2314) on :
 
quote:
One difficulty with making abortion illegal is finding a way to teach boys and young men how to treat women appropriately despite the fact that laws say that women have no right to control what happens to their bodies.
I'm really confused as to how making abortion illegal means women have no right to control what happens to their bodies. Do you think men have no right to control their bodies?

CT, I'm sorry because it does look like a trap. I mean, if I say yes, put public resources into the research to save the unborn I'll be countered with "So you'd let a five year old die of a disease that could be cured if only research had been one on his disease instead of research into miscarriages." Sorry, not going to play that game.

Let me just say this - we need more money for medical research across the board, into protecting the unborn, the newly born, the young, the adult, the middle-aged, the elderly. I want all of it to be studied and I want medical science to one day cure cancer, cystic fibrosis, and the common cold. But the fact of the matter is that not every disease gets the same attention and funding. What gets funding is what gets good PR. I had colorectal cancer - the number two cancer killer behind lung cancer. Yet where I received chemo all I heard about was fund raisers for breast cancer, all I saw were pink ribbons everywhere. That's just the way it works. It's unfortunate, because I'd love to see us eradicate every deadly disease and every cause of miscarriage but it ain't gonna happen.
 
Posted by ClaudiaTherese (Member # 923) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Belle:
CT, I'm sorry because it does look like a trap.

*nods

I can see that, and I certainly respect your decision not to answer. All I can do is acknowledge that, and give you the space what you say without further pressure. I will still post my thoughts about it, too, just as you, although I do not take us to be arguing in opposition, but as presenting different perspectives.
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I mean, if I say yes, put public resources into the research to save the unborn I'll be countered with "So you'd let a five year old die of a disease that could be cured if only research had been one on his disease instead of research into miscarriages."

I wouldn't have said that to you, although it would indeed have been the logical consequence of the statement. It would follow from viewing the unborn as no more or less important than born children.

Some people might hold that this should be disconcerting because we should be taking prevention of that unborn death as seriously and with as much import as the born. I don't, myself, but that is because I don't take it a a maxim that our obligation to the born and the early gestational unborn are the same.

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Sorry, not going to play that game.

I'll hold myself to gently saying that it isn't a game to me, but rather a matter of grave importance. I take the matter quite seriously, as I have a (small, but heard) voice in making funding decisions.
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Let me just say this - we need more money for medical research across the board, into protecting the unborn, the newly born, the young, the adult, the middle-aged, the elderly. I want all of it to be studied and I want medical science to one day cure cancer, cystic fibrosis, and the common cold. But the fact of the matter is that not every disease gets the same attention and funding. What gets funding is what gets good PR. I had colorectal cancer - the number two cancer killer behind lung cancer. Yet where I received chemo all I heard about was fund raisers for breast cancer, all I saw were pink ribbons everywhere. That's just the way it works. It's unfortunate, because I'd love to see us eradicate every deadly disease and every cause of miscarriage but it ain't gonna happen.

I'd certainly agree with you on the first part. For the latter, I'd say that what is may not be what should be, if we take the issue seriously. And I am indeed concerned just as much as with what should be as what is, because both determine what will be.
 
Posted by steven (Member # 8099) on :
 
Belle, how would you feel about allowing doctors to perform abortions as long as the woman was willing to claim rape, without actually requiring her to tell anyone other than her doctor?

What I find interesting about people with "religious" objections to abortion is that some of them will literally murder to stop abortions....yet the Bible never mentions it at all.

Funny, you'd think God would have mentioned something worth killing over.

Edit: I think I need to break out the spellcheck.
 
Posted by Belle (Member # 2314) on :
 
First of all steven, I don't think I've mentioned God in any of my posts. I also never, ever even hinted I think violence is appropriate in the pro-life movement. I believe I specifically addressed that I only supported groups that did not picket, did not harass clinics, and focused on doing constructive things to help mothers.

I do not appreciate your attempting to paint me as someone who believes preventing abortion is worth killing over, that's disingenuous on your part and very offensive.

Secondly, I've addressed how I feel on the rape issue before and see no need to go into it right now, mainly because I have a final exam to take in about an hour and need to leave. I'll return later.
 
Posted by steven (Member # 8099) on :
 
I really would like a response on the rape issue.

I'd like a response on that from ANY pro-lifer.
 
Posted by ClaudiaTherese (Member # 923) on :
 
For what it is worth, I have never, ever found Belle to be anything but against unnecessary violence and cruelty, however it may come. She also puts tremendous time and effort into trying to make the world around her better for everyone, both by her own efforts and by supporting others that do so, as well.

She is both consistent in her pro-life stance and a very classy lady, to boot.

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Edited to add: a final on Sunday morning?! That is unnecessary violence! [Frown] You have my sympathies and crossed fingers, though I am sure you do not need them.

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Edited again to add: steven, as I am not in the demographic, I cannot help you with that question. I do suspect that it comes across to many as having more going on than just a mere simple question, but that is also beyond the pale for me to address. Were I to consider myself "pro-life," I'd be leery of answering, too.

As a general rule here, I'd like the conversation to stay as civil and mutually respectful as possible. I am not a Janitor, though -- but I do have a vested interest, even if no authority. (And yet I myself smell of traps, as well!)

Furthermore, we've already gone so far outside PSI's fervent request. I am sorry, PSI.
 
Posted by Dagonee (Member # 5818) on :
 
quote:
Dagonee, we are speaking of 2-4 million deaths per year. The investment in those studies sorts of studies is miniscule. Compare this to research on leukemia, which affects about 2000-2500 children per year in the US. If you would like the numbers, I will certainly find them, but I can assure you that the amount of money spent on childhood leukemia research is many orders of magnitude greater than 1/1000 the amount spent on miscarriage research.
I don't see why there should be a linear relationship between number of victims and research dollars spent. We certainly take other factors into account, including emotional impact on those who know the victim and suffering incurred prior to death. There's also an element of "fashion" to what diseases are given the most research funding.

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And, note, most childhood leukemia is the further sequelae of a genetic deficit. We believe these children are born with a propensity to cancer, that this is programmed into them (as my heart failure at 17 yrs old was destined for me). It is, or would have been, a "natural death."
We try to stop some deaths. No one here has denied that.

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And I am not saying that I "as a result, decide[d] that there was a lesser duty to protect children from intentional killing." That's a mistatement of what I said, if you were intending to paraphrase me or summarize my history.
I was not intending to paraphrase you. I was trying to indicate why the fact that some people in a given class die natural deaths is not a compelling reason to me (and, presumably, Belle) to allow intentional killing of that class of people.

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That is, I didn't come to believe that because I thought it was okay to kill some kids, it should be okay to kill other kids. Rather, I probed why I was much less worried about deaths at pone stage of development than at another, and I came to conclude that I didn't see those deaths as equivalent. That was worth thinking about more, to me.
After thinking about it, I came to a different conclusion: that "worry" is not a proper measure of worth of the being worried about or the effect of the deaths of such beings.

Moreover, I don't see an examination of the effect of a being's death on others - whether that effect is motivating the spending of resources to avoid it or the mourning of it afterwards - as a valid indicator of the measure of a death or a factor in determining "equivalence" of deaths. Much more important are the means of a death - including intent - and reasons for it.

We had a decent discussion about the principles underlying that once, although half of it is missing now.

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I also stated "I don't expect everyone to reach the same conclusions (or start from the same perspective, for that matter) as I did. I am very interested in how other people would solve the inconsistencies I couldn't." But that interest wouldn't outweigh my desire for civility with my friends and to refrain from causing more grief in the world.
In short, I don't see inconsistencies here, so I probably can't address your interest.
 
Posted by Dagonee (Member # 5818) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by steven:
I really would like a response on the rape issue.

I'd like a response on that from ANY pro-lifer.

What response? It's been addressed multiple times here before, both by people who believe abortion should be allowed in cases of rape and those who believe it should not be allowed in cases of rape.

If you mean a response to your allegation that banning abortion will increase rape, I wouldn't hold my breath if I were you. Belle already addressed the underlying assumption of that post.

I might be willing to go more into depth about it if I had any hope that you were actually interested in discussing the issue. But when you both bring up murder as a tactic of the pro-life movement in the context of this thread as well as postulating some link between believing that abortion should be prohibited and thinking rape is OK because women shouldn't control their own bodies, I'm highly skeptical of both your motives and your willingness to address people respectfully.
 
Posted by ClaudiaTherese (Member # 923) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Dagonee:
I don't see why there should be a linear relationship between number of victims and research dollars spent. We certainly take other factors into account, including emotional impact on those who know the victim and suffering incurred prior to death. There's also an element of "fashion" to what diseases are given the most research funding.

Indeed. I draw a distinction here between what is and what should be. Just because it is -- I think -- doesn't mean it shouldn't be changed.

And as I said above, I am indeed concerned just as much as with what should be as what is, because both determine what will be.
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We try to stop some deaths. No one here has denied that.
Understood. It was a point of clarification about the applicability of terminology that had been used earlier. It appears all here agree about the use of that terminology, which is lovely from my perspective.
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I was not intending to paraphrase you.
Excellent! Then I have no quibble.
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After thinking about it, I came to a different conclusion: that "worry" is not a proper measure of worth of the being worried about or the effect of the deaths of such beings.

I don't take my worry (or lack thereof) as a direct indication of the worth of something. I do, however, take it as an indication of my own underlying beliefs, which is what I was examining.
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Moreover, I don't see an examination of the effect of a being's death on others - whether that effect is motivating the spending of resources to avoid it or the mourning of it afterwards - as a valid indicator of the measure of a death or a factor in determining "equivalence" of deaths. Much more important are the means of a death - including intent - and reasons for it.

I don't understand what you mean by "a valid indicator of the measure of a death." When I speak of "'equivalence' of death," again, I am speaking particularly of how it reflects individual beliefs and values. The mode or intent of someone else's action is not how I come to know my beliefs about it -- it is my reaction that tells me about myself. Of course, my reaction is based on the facts of the case, but those facts are not equivalent to my judgments. [Confused]
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We had a decent discussion about the principles underlying that once, although half of it is missing now.

So much is lost, eh? It is a shame.
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In short, I don't see inconsistencies here, so I probably can't address your interest.
I can see you do not. I think this is because there is some muddled conflation of ideas and/or terms midway.

Whether or not further discussion about that would yield more understanding is another question. I surely wouldn't want to sacrifice the harmony of friendship here over this, so I am happy to leave that call up to you.
 
Posted by MattP (Member # 10495) on :
 
quote:
CT, I'm sorry because it does look like a trap. I mean, if I say yes, put public resources into the research to save the unborn I'll be countered with "So you'd let a five year old die of a disease that could be cured if only research had been one on his disease instead of research into miscarriages." Sorry, not going to play that game.
I'm not sure I understand the concern about putting someone into a "trap" or in being led into one. If one's position, taken to a logical conclusion, leads to an unpleasant place, shouldn't we discuss that place and why we find it unpleasant?

If you actually feel that pre-birth and post-birth children have equivalent value, then I don't see anything abhorent about a position that advocates a redistribution of resources to equalize the efforts to protect both groups.

What would be more interesting to me is if you claim there is equivalent value but despite that you would not advocate a redistribution of resources. I would be interested in how you reconcile such a position.
 
Posted by Dagonee (Member # 5818) on :
 
quote:
When I speak of "'equivalence' of death," again, I am speaking particularly of how it reflects individual beliefs and values.
I have no idea what this means. How does a death "reflect individual beliefs and values"?

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The mode or intent of someone else's action is not how I come to know my beliefs about it -- it is my reaction that tells me about myself. Of course, my reaction is based on the facts of the case, but those facts are not equivalent to my judgments.
When I said "others" I was referring to "other than the person who died." In this sense, I was referring to the fact that your analysis is of the effect of a death on another being - specifically inducing specific reactions in you (the other being, in this case) as a means of determining how that other being (again, you) really feels/thinks about that death.

I fully expect human reactions to events, including my own, to be inconsistent with the moral implications of those events. Therefore, I don't find such inconsistency to be particularly probative. And when I directly examine this issue, for reasons both Belle and I have gone into at some length, I don't find there to be any inconsistency between the idea that unborn children are fully as human and deserving of legal protection as born children and the generally lesser reactions I have to miscarriages of people I don't know compared to my reactions to deaths of people I don't know.

In examining the difference between my emotional reactions concerning different deaths, I find that they are influenced by how well I can empathize with the deceased and their loved ones. If someone I know dies, there is a direct impact on me. I can visualize the world with and without that person and feel the loss directly. If someone who is close to someone I knows, the direct visible impact on that person has an impact on me. When a death involves prolonged suffering, I can imagine the suffering visited upon me or my loved ones.

It's hard to empathize with another's unborn child. The world isn't different so much as an imagined, hoped-for world to be is different. To the parents who had already entered that world, the loss is much more immediate.

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I can see you do not. I think this is because there is some muddled conflation of ideas and/or terms midway.
I'm not sure where the muddled conflation of ideas or terms is occurring.
 
Posted by ClaudiaTherese (Member # 923) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Dagonee:
I'm not sure where the muddled conflation of ideas or terms is occurring.

But do you think it is worth pursuing in discussion, or would you prefer not to continue? (Or some other option? [Smile] )

Honest question -- I'm trying explicitly not to push in an irritating way. I am happy to let things stand as they are, should others find that best for any reason (explicit or not).
 
Posted by King of Men (Member # 6684) on :
 
Got nothing to say about the issue, right now, but maybe the thread title could be changed again. [Smile]
 
Posted by steven (Member # 8099) on :
 
"...If you mean a response to your allegation that banning abortion will increase rape,"

I wasn't even thinking such a thing, much less saying it. I was thinking more along the lines of burkas, female suffrage, and all that.

Dag, I really shouldn't discuss anything with you at all. You mystify me, and I don't do well with people whose behavior I can't predict, usually.

I mean, really, wow....
 
Posted by Dagonee (Member # 5818) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by steven:
One difficulty with making abortion illegal is finding a way to teach boys and young men how to treat women appropriately despite the fact that laws say that women have no right to control what happens to their bodies. If you support abortion in the case of rape or incest, with all the proof of rape needed being the woman's claim to her doctor, then I might agree with you. Might.


 
Posted by MattP (Member # 10495) on :
 
I don't see where he said rape would increase. I can see that being one logical conclusion of his argument, but there is no indication that it's the conclusion that steven has reached.
 
Posted by Dagonee (Member # 5818) on :
 
I was posting where I got it from. If that's not what he meant, fine, but his alternative interpretation isn't any better.
 
Posted by steven (Member # 8099) on :
 
Dag, I'm not the Devil. at most, I'm the spawn of the Devil. No more. So stop acting like I'm the Devil!

Seriously, I worry about your blood pressure.

No, you can call me a liar if you want, but...I just don't think about rape as something that happens unless someone brings it up. I've never been raped, and I've never had the slightest inclination to rape anyone. Talking to me about rape is like talking to a dog about giant squids.
 
Posted by Dagonee (Member # 5818) on :
 
quote:
No, you can call me a liar if you want, but.
I didn't call you a liar. I just don't find your clarification any better than my initial interpretation.

quote:
Talking to me about rape is like talking to a dog about giant squids.
They why do you keep bringing it up?
 
Posted by steven (Member # 8099) on :
 
Dag, seriously, you're going to die young if you don't ease up. This is not the way to approach the issue.

I brought up rape for a separate reason, and did not connect the two in my mind at all.

Where are you getting that I meant rape? Are you having some kind of spiritual epiphany that I meant that? I seriously am wondering why you think I'm lying.
 
Posted by Dagonee (Member # 5818) on :
 
Look, I've already accepted your clarification.

But when you say "talking to me about rape is like talking to a dog about giant squids" in a thread in which you've talked about rape, my confusion is understandable.
 
Posted by steven (Member # 8099) on :
 
Not to me, from my perspective.

Rape is always brought up in any abortion discussion. Creating conditions where women are generally ignored/devalued is not as much.

I doubt women get raped that much more often in extremist Islamic societies than in the US. I don't know what the rates are, and I doubt there are good statistics out there on it, but I figure that the harsh control that fathers and husbands put on women keep them away from non-family adult men more, thus reducing the odds of rape, althought this is total speculation on my part.
 
Posted by King of Men (Member # 6684) on :
 
Random-stranger rape, probably, yes. Being married off to men at least halfway against their will, well, there's a different kettle of cultural assumptions.
 
Posted by Kwea (Member # 2199) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Kwea:
I agree with CT, at least as far as my intent in discussing these issues yet again. [Smile] I usually avoid abortion thread like the plague these days, because I have already firmed up my own thoughts and stance on it.

Also, these discussions tend to bring out the worst in people because it is such a sensitive isuue, and I don't like how most people treat each other in them.

For the most part, this thread has been fairly civil, and I really hope it stays that way. Not because I think we will find a "soloution", but because one fo the only ways to explore these issues is in frank conversation with other people who care , even if they are on the other side of the idealogical fence. Maybe even because they are on the other side of the issues.

I gotta say...I just watched Obama's discussion about faith and politics, and it reminded me about this thread, and a few other conversation I have had with a few people here at Hatrack. [Smile]
 
Posted by kmbboots (Member # 8576) on :
 
That was a pretty amazing speech. I really hope that he can raise the level of public discourse on abortion as well as many other contentious issues.
 
Posted by Kwea (Member # 2199) on :
 
quote:
It's hard to empathize with another's unborn child. The world isn't different so much as an imagined, hoped-for world to be is different. To the parents who had already entered that world, the loss is much more immediate.
See, I don't have a problem with this.... because I don't see it as an imagined difference at all. I see it no different than if they lost a 2 month old, and I feel greatly for them.


Any more than an abortion would be an imaginary loss. [Frown]

In the case of a miscarriage, most of the time the parents really WANTED a child, so losing it is far worse, IMO. They probably have already begun changing their lives, and it all comes crashing to a halt.


I understand about a cognitive dissonance within a personal belief system. I feel one every time I enter a discussion about this issue, because I defend the right of a woman to terminate her pregnancy while not approving of abortion in my own personal life. [Dont Know]


I have said it before, but it bears repeating.....I had a frank and candid talk with my wife before we slept together, just to make sure we were on the same page. I would never, excepting for the health of the woman, be part of an abortion. While I could not force a woman to have the child, an abortion would end whatever we had together because of my personal views and beliefs.

She agreed with me, thank God. [Smile]


But that doesn't mean I am willing to remove that right to choose from people who don't come from the same religious background and upbringing as mine. It concerns too much of the womans own health and welfare for my opinion to outweigh hers in the end result.
 
Posted by Belle (Member # 2314) on :
 
CT, yes I had a final on Sunday - when I have to be home with my kids during the day I'm limited to taking classes on nights and weekends. Fortunately I'll be back to day classes (with the exception of Wednesday night - which bums me because I teach choir on Wednesday night and now have to find someone to take my place for the fall semester). At any rate, it was only the first of my finals so my next two weeks will be pretty frazzled. No time for another abortion debate so I won't be answering any more questions here. The good news is, there will always be another thread like this coming around sometime. [Smile]
 
Posted by guinevererobin (Member # 10753) on :
 
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I really would like a response on the rape issue.

I'd like a response on that from ANY pro-lifer.

Posting in the abortion thread as my first Hatrack post seems like a bad idea, but...

I'm pro-life. I am fine with abortions for medical reasons, when necessary (although I'm appreciative my mom risked her life to have me); and I consider abortions for cases of rape and incest as a medical issue, as long as a doctor also signs off on it. Carrying a child to term after rape could be quite psychologically damaging for certain women, which is why I consider it a medical issue.

That said I'd rather those pregnancies were prevented in the first place by the availability of the morning-after pill, both as part of a rape kit and also just available by prescription for those women who aren't going to go to a hospital afterwards.

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Rape is always brought up in any abortion discussion. Creating conditions where women are generally ignored/devalued is not as much.
That's very much a matter of perspective. You consider a women "not having control over her body" because she can't have an abortion as women being ignored/devalued. I consider abortion a symptom of a society where both women and children are ignored and devalued. Why is it necessary for women to have abortions in the first place? Do any of those reasons indicate that women are empowered?

Abortion is legal in China - but I don't think anyone would argue that the widespread abortion of female children indicates much respect for women.
 
Posted by Flaming Toad on a Stick (Member # 9302) on :
 
Wow, gone for two days, and now I can't really pick out a recent post to debate that hasn't already been debated. So if anyone wants me to discuss a previous issue in the thread or answer a question (old or new), please feel free. I've got nothing to do at the moment.
 
Posted by mr_porteiro_head (Member # 4644) on :
 
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Carrying a child to term after rape could be quite psychologically damaging for certain women, which is why I consider it a medical issue.
Carrying a child to term and then putting it up for adoption could also be psychologically damaging.

Carrying a child to term and keeping it when that child wasn't desired in the first place could be psychologically damaging.
 
Posted by guinevererobin (Member # 10753) on :
 
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Carrying a child to term after rape could be quite psychologically damaging for certain women, which is why I consider it a medical issue.
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Carrying a child to term and then putting it up for adoption could also be psychologically damaging.

Carrying a child to term and keeping it when that child wasn't desired in the first place could be psychologically damaging.

And having an abortion can also be psychologically damaging. We can't protect an individual from all possible consequences of their actions.

However, the woman who was raped has ALREADY been psychologically damaged, unlike the women who had consensual sex, and carrying the child to term - the child of her rapist - may potentially worsen that damage. we're talking about "psychological damage" on a far more drastic level here then anything which may arise from consensual sex, which I think is clear.
 
Posted by mr_porteiro_head (Member # 4644) on :
 
How and where do you make the distinction between what psychological damage is great enough to be considered a medical issue, and thus justifying an abortion, and what doesn't?

If the reason for being against abortion is that it's the killing of a child, I don't see how any amount of potential psychological damage justifies abortion.
 
Posted by guinevererobin (Member # 10753) on :
 
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If the reason for being against abortion is that it's the killing of a child, I don't see how any amount of potential psychological damage justifies abortion.
Yes, it's the killing of a child, but IMO when there's a health risk to the mother, abortion is acceptable. If a woman is traumatized by a rape and further traumatized by carrying the child, then I can see that as a possible health risk due to the deep psychological effects of the entire situation. If you don't see where that's different, then I really don't think I can convince you.
 
Posted by mr_porteiro_head (Member # 4644) on :
 
Can you think of any other situations where you think it's OK to kill an innocent person in order to avoid psychological trauma inflicted by a third party?

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If you don't see where that's different, then I really don't think I can convince you.
I have no idea what you are saying. If I can't see where it is different from what?
 
Posted by guinevererobin (Member # 10753) on :
 
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I have no idea what you are saying. If I can't see where it is different from what?

If you don't see the difference between the trauma of childbearing/childbirth for a woman who has been raped, and for a woman who hasn't.

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Can you think of any other situations where you think it's OK to kill an innocent person in order to avoid psychological trauma inflicted by a third party?
Are you against abortions when necessary to save the life of the mother? If so, then from your perspective this is a valid argument. If not... I think extreme psychological anguish also constitutes a health risk to the mother.

There are women who are raped and still choose to carry the child to term. I think that's an incredibly brave and selfless thing to do. But I don't think any woman should be forced to carry the child if it's going to have an extreme negative effect. I wouldn't want to see a woman commit suicide because it was so painful for her to carry this unwelcome, alien life. And psychological issues ARE health issues - if it's going to impede her recovery to carry the child, then with a psychiatrist's counsel she should be able to terminate the pregnancy so the effects from the rape are not compounded.
 
Posted by mr_porteiro_head (Member # 4644) on :
 
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If you don't see the difference between the trauma of childbearing/childbirth for a woman who has been raped, and for a woman who hasn't.
Saying that I'm not sure that the differences between the two justifies taking the life of an innocent is not the same thing as saying that I cannot see any differences between the two.
 


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