My wife read it and loved it. And she wasn't all that freaked out when it became known that he fabricated some of it.
I was about to read it, but now I get kind of sick when I think about it.
We live in a world where ghostwriters pen books for Nicole Richie and Ivana Trump. Does anyone question their authenticity? Does anyone care?
Are we mad at Frey for lying (which he did) or are we envious of his success? For me, it’s both I guess.
And if you have no idea what I’m talking about here’s a linky-poo.
http://www.thesmokinggun.com/jamesfrey/0104061jamesfrey1.html
Embellishment is an autobiographer's perogative.
Not only did he make up a lot of it (complete fabrications, not just exaggerations), but there are now allegations that he plagiarized bunches of it from a book called Another Day in Paradise.
I've never checked the Oprah Book Club for recommendations. What SF&F books are on her list?
Can't recall any overt SF or fantasy on her list, but I certainly don't have a copy of it. Maybe one of the literary works could be considered fantasy without the actual label. (Was Toni Morrison's "Beloved" on Oprah's short list?)
Now here's Frey, who in prior interviews said his work was entirely factual, now caught in a series of lies. He's a fiction writer, oh well, stuff happens; he’s taking his lumps. But what about the people around him?
A friend of mine who is familiar with the AA program talks about the "dry drunk"... just because the person isn't imbibing the chemical doesn't mean their addictive behaviors and personality have changed much.
It is pretty common for people with some sort of dysfunction, be it drug abuse, alcoholism, anger, you name it... to have a deep and personal transformation. So they turn around and try to give back to society by teaching their method and telling their story. Problem is, they haven't healed completely. They are in the PROCESS of healing, but life is the journey -- not the goal. Then when they backslide, they do it in a pretty spectacular, and public, fashion.
I'm a little more jaded about some of these self-help authors. I used to work for a church that had folks like this coming in on a regular basis, to deliver sunday sermons and to give workshops and retreats. I know WAY too much personal background information about a lot of these folks to embrace them as some sort of "in touch" guru. (I admit I have never met Frey, btw.)
From personal experience, I can tell you the "self-help" lecture circuit is an industry, just like any other. People scratch each others backs, there are prima donas and dysfunctional gurus and you name it. It doesn't take away anything from the fact that lots of people DO find help in what they write. But one must always keep in mind the fact that these people are human, and many of them are working out their dysfunctional behaviors on a big stage. All I can say is: "Glad it ain't me."
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My operating position and philosophy exactly. Though I like to preserve the flexibility of being able to lie, if at all necessary...
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