Which self should it be? I or me?
It was I.
Or,
It was me.
?
Seriously, this is one point I've never been clear on. Can someone confirm. I want to say that the correct grammar would be: "It was I."
But is that correct?
Z
"I" is the subjective case, and in your example, the "I" is a subject complement - "words following linking verbs that complete the meaning of the subject" - if it sounds odd or too stilted you can rewrite around it.
Mary admitted that the thief was she.
Mary admitted that she was the thief.
"Me" is the objective case when it "functions as a direct object, and indirect object, or the object of a preposition."
Jon gave me a surprise party.
(quotes from "A Writer's Reference" by Diana Hacker)
I am he.
We are they.
It is I.
You are she.
However, informal usage has moved toward using the direct object form of the pronoun following to be (as well as using contractions.)
I'm him.
We're them.
It's me.
You're her.
Update: Looks like punahougirl84 beat me to the explanation.
Incidentally, if somone calls me on the phone and asks to speak to Eric Stone, I say, "This is he," not "That's me."
[This message has been edited by EricJamesStone (edited September 02, 2004).]
And if someone called asking to speak to Susan? I'd reply, "Speaking".
Susan
But, going back to what Eric was saying about common usage, you need to look at the character who is saying it, or the context in which it is used. If you're writing a formal letter to someone, or if your character is a throwback from the 19th century or an English teacher, you would use the grammatically correct.
But if your character is a contemporary teenager or really pretty much anyone speaking informally one with another you'd use what sounds less stuffy--It's me. IE, if a twenty-something person snuck up behind someone else and whispered "It is I," into the ear of another person I would automatically make the assumption, if I didn't know better, that the story setting was Victorian England or that the character was a highly educated dweeb.
Sorry Grammarians. I'm a language barbarian.
(OOOHHH!! A rhyme!)
[Sorry]
[This message has been edited by mikemunsil (edited September 02, 2004).]
The phone was for Larry.
The phone was for me.
The phone was for me and Larry.
She groans.
We groan.
It is I who groans.
It is she who groans.
The groan was for thee and me, and him, and her, and them, and...
Aw heck!
Susan