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You could lie like a rug and tell them you were looking for a serious commitment and then leave them at your whim.
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Well, if you're going to be damned if you do or damned if you don't, might as well go for the gusto. My experience is that even though women *say* they like honesty, what they really mean to say is that they want guys to tell them what they want to hear as honestly sounding as possible. PLUS, after a while, if you really do actually become evil, women will be beating down your door to go out with you. I mean, even moreso than they are now.
Of course, I just like to hold hands. So, you know, don't mind me.
They aren't lining up by any stretch of the term, but they are out there. But I do have an evil friend (he's trying to reform, but he has definitely left a blazing trail of destruction in his wake), and they're lining up to date him while he's at school, and on his current work term in Finland they're lining up to have sex with him (this despite the fact that he has a girlfriend and as such tells them all "no").
What I can't figure out is where to find the ones I'd really be interested in committing to. Fortunately, I don't have to worry about it for another year or so...
Hobbes, of course they're lies. That's just what women say so they can feel good about themselves. Denial and all that.
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Yes, but "casual" for you and "casual" for me don't mean the same thing. I can't do the serial casual thing that you do, because I'm never in one place for long enough.
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twinky, I'm as averse to commitment as you are; I'll go on three dates with you. Are you good-looking AND funny?
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*pats Palpatine* Dude, you really do remind me of a prune in a bath towel...how did you get to be Emperor, again?
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I think it had to do with killing the Jedi. And political crimes. I think. I need my ginko biloba.
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"Of course, I just like to hold hands." ::sighs:: Where are the guys like that in high school? ::mutters something about them being too busy feeling-up their girlfriends:: Posts: 1548 | Registered: Aug 2002
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I know guys like that are out there in high school, it's just hard to find, that's all. ::shrugs:: Eh, such is life.
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..yeah me too but then your hands get sweaty..lol..
I've been too observant, lately. I've a theory that the weirder a boy is the sweeter they are in romance. The more of a jock/prep they are the more they are dating for popularity and things 'after' that. Those 'inexperienced' are so much fun to date as compared to those that 'know the secrets'. By now, I'm used to being a 'first' to some..lol..
Twinky, I'd know alot of ppl who'd love to meet you.
I also know people who abuse the word 'relationships' and 'love'...Too many people actually..
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It took me a while, but I finally figured out the difference between lust and love.
I did a lot of playing, and I do mean a lot of playing, before I settled down. I did extra playing for those who went into relationships early.
I've no regrets about any of the playing, but it pales in time and I find myself wanting more. As I'm not one to settle, it gets a little tougher. No big deal, but she has to be something special if she wants me to kiss her or even desire to hold her hand.
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I make a horrible malicious player..I can't lie to people, and I don't like to hurt feelings. Actually, I consider myself one of the abnormally considerate of the player sort. Then again, I'm also becoming more and more motivated by _reactions_...
Yeah, but the "weird" types also have more of a tendency to be the whiny, annoying puppy dogs always tagging along at your heels. Not to say I don't like 'em.... They're just more fragile.