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So my wife had this odd dream last night....
quote: So, I had this really weird dream right before I woke up. I dreamt that Kelly Stebbins was working at Coke and was really good friends with Jenifer. She had decided though that she wanted to move on to another job and needed to find someone to fill her position. So, she chose me and I kept telling her that I knew nothing of computers. She and Jen both said that that was fine and they said it wouldn't matter.
They had told me right in front of you and you had been hopeing to get the job and when they picked me you got very upset. I kept trying to tell you that I didn't want the job and I didn't know how to fix computers and I would tell them to hire you instead, but you started to cry out of frustration and I didn't know what to do.
Just for reference:
Kelly Stebbins = one of my ex-flames from years past
Jen = My best friends ex that he still works with at Coke, that most of us don't like
And the working at coke reference is because my buddy works in the IT department for Coca-Cola, and wants me to work there when a job opens up
Any translation would be great!
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Dude, we don't need the book for this one. And Bob's at work, so I'm sort of filling in.
Take your wife out to a nice restaurant and let her know that she is the only one for you.
Then...have a very serious conversation about what her hopes and dreams are out of life.
Trust me on this one. She'll never admit it (I assume) but this dream is expressing some insecurity in her role in your life together, and whether she can do what's "required" of her.
Reassurance is key.
This stuff pops up in our dreams all the time. It's how we work out our little worries and doubts so they don't intrude on waking life.
She probably doesn't even really feel this way.
But knowing how much you love and trust her, and want the things that she wants couldn't hurt, neh?
Worst case you get some hubby brownie points.
<insert the usual disclaimer here> <add a further disclaimer warning you not to take relationship advice from divorced men who are now twitterpated & engaged> <insert "but I'm right about this one" here>
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LoL, thanks for the advice. I have all of that covered so I am not to worried in that department, and I let her know all the time that she is the greatest woman I could ever have as a wife.
But I really do enjoy the odd descriptions he has in his big book
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