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I would try using a new email acct to send the forwarded email on with. If that doesn't work you could ask your friend to contact ex for you but that is a sticky situation also.
The situation really sucks but you are stuck in a position where you are darned if you do darned if you don't. In the end you can do what is possible and turn the rest over to God. As my kids enter teen years I am realizing there is so little about their lives I can control anymore and I have to just pray like mad that God protects them.
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quote:Originally posted by BlackBlade: Out of curiosity, in Rabbinical court is a restraining order completely binding, or can it be reevaluated?
It can be, sure. But the odds are next to nil in this case.
quote:Originally posted by BlackBlade: Would the creation of an anonymous email with which you forward your friends email to your ex be a viable option?
The restraining order isn't against me contacting my ex. Just the kids. And when I tried forwarding my friend's e-mail, it bounced. So either they closed down their gmail accounts, or they've blocked me.
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I'm sorry it's such a difficult situation, Lisa. I second the advice to create a new anonymous email account and forward the information you have. If your ex is just blocking you it should get through. It'd have a chance of alerting her to the situation enough to investigate and perhaps intervene.
Also, if you know someone close to your ex, whether it's a religious, family, or work relationship...giving them the info anonymously might spur them to pass it along. (It sounds like if your identity is attached to the information it will be roundly ignored. )
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Actually, my partner's mother died on Monday, after battling lung cancer for about 15 months. So we're in Florida. They aren't having the funeral until Thursday, and we're going back to Chicago on Friday so that Havah can sit shiva there (and actually have a minyan in the shiva house, which her father won't permit).
So I've been a little distracted.
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