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Hmmm... haven't updated lately but basically I found out she was definately having an affair, She has since been totally screwed over by the guy she was seeing. He showed himself for what he really was, someone out form only one thing, and um, I guess we can all guess what that was. She took all that really bad and even made a half hearted attempt at suicide by taking a bunch of pills. She has since been back to conseling and put on a new medication for her depression. Just today she was a pproved for her own appartment and will probably move out in the next couple of weeks. I'm not sure how I feel about this. I'm obviously still rather hurt about the affair but I'm very unhappy to see her go. A large part of me was hoping she would stay and we'd try and work things out. She says she doesn't consider this move to be the end of it all. She just wants to take a bit of itme apart and see where her heart tells her she should be. She says it's best because she doesn't love me like I want her to and our living together still is a bad situation. I can't say I disagree but I still hate that she's leaving. Oh, well. It's is definately gonna make it a lot easier for me to get past all this and her and try to start a new life for myslef. I have told her that if she leaves that It is pretty unlikely I will ever want her to come back but she says it's something she has to do and take her chances. She says she does hope that things will get better and we can work things out but that right now her being here is the worst thing for both of us.
So, anyways, she's leaving and it sucks but I'm also looking forward to seeing what happens. I know that I won't be sitting here waiting for her. My big decision I need to make is wether I should wait a while and see what happens or just have my lawyer draw up the divorce papers right now and be done with it.
But on a more exciting note, my basement is all studded up and all my wiring is in place so I'm gonna start to drywall the ceiling tonight. It will very soon start to look like an actual room.
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Beatnix, give yourself time to figure all of this out. Your life has gone through some major changes (and still is) and it might take awhile before you can wrap your head around everything.
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beat, if it makes you feel any better, I know a guy who walked in on his wife having an affair. That wasn't even the bad part. She was having the affair with his ex-wife.
Hope it all works out. And remember, it could be worse. It could be raining.
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It does suck Beatnix19. I hope it all turns out best for you in the end, though in the "now" it is incredibly painful.
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Kayla - An affair is an affair, but hmmm... your friend's sounds a lot more interesting than mine. He at least had the opportunity to turn that into a very, um, shall we say, unique experience, at least for that one night. hey, if you're going out at least you can try to do it with a smile. Posts: 1294 | Registered: Oct 2003
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