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dread pirate romany
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My friend Sharon has been battling breast cancer for about the last 5 years, and I heard today that she has about 2 weeks left, maybe less. She is not well enough for visitors. She was just at church last Sunday, while her grandbaby was being baptised. I am so very sad; I have yet to tell the kids but will over supper.

[ November 28, 2004, 06:19 PM: Message edited by: dread pirate romany ]

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Very sorry to hear that. [Frown]
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Romany, I'm sorry. [Frown]
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Oh dear! I'm so sorry! [Frown]
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I empathize. That's horrible. [Frown]
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Noemon
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Romany, I'm so sorry. Would it help or hurt to tell us about your friend? If it would help, I would love to hear about her.
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Sorry to hear of your friend's illness, Romany. [Smile]
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I'm sorry to hear that. [Frown]
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(((((romany))))) [Frown]
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Romany, I'm so sorry to hear about this. [Frown]
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God welcome her home... May we end this scourge against our mothers wives and daughters in our time.

BC

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*hugs*
I lost a friend to that too back in 99...

[Frown]

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You have my empathy, romany.
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God, that's awful. My friend's mother has hepatitis and a hole in her heart, and now they've found a lump of breast cancer. My friend's devastated.

I'll be praying for you, for her, and for her family.

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(((Romany))) [Frown]
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That's aweful, Romany. We'll be sending you good vibes on our end.
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I'm sorry *hugs*
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*hugs Rom and family*

*hugs Sharon*

[Frown]

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dread pirate romany
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Thanks all...I would love to tell you a little about her.

The one thing I think of when I think of her is her commitment to literacy. She was a full time then substitute elementary reading teacher. IN her retirement she started and headed our church library and helped start a tutoring program at our church. This was after her diagnoses. She did not just tutor kids but drove them herself if their parents had no car.

Everyone is so surprised the end is so near, she never showed pain and has done volunteer work up until the last week or so.

Thank you for listening....

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(((dpr)))

I am so sorry for this. It is a hard, hard thing. Are -you- dealing okay?

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dread pirate romany
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Wanted to let you know she passed on a few days ago. Her memorial is next Wednesday.
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[Frown] Hugs for all.
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Raia
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Oh, rom... I'm so sorry. I know how tough it is to lose a loved one, trust me. [Frown] *hugs*
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(((romany)))
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I'm very sorry for your loss.
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(((Romany))) [Frown]
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[Frown] *hug*
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[Frown] I'm sorry...
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Great memories you have of her. Thanks for sharing them with us. I'm sorry for your loss. [Frown]
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Ah, romany, I'm sorry to hear that.
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I'm so sorry Romany. She sounds like a truly lovely person; people like that aren't forgotten. Please let me know if I can be of any help to you. [Group Hug]

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I'm so sorry. [Frown]
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dread pirate romany
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Thanks everyone.

Right now I feel at peace. Like I did my grieving when the "deathwatch" began so now I am just relieved she is no longer in pain.

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I'm glad for your peace. It is a hard, hard journey she took.
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dread pirate romany, I'm so sorry for your loss. I'm glad you're finding some measure of peace.
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Thanks for telling us a bit about her. She obviously touched a great many lives and left the world better than when she found it.

(((dpr)))

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