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Just before I left work, I was looking at thisnews item and thinking I would post it on Hatrack, except that undoubtedly someone would beat me to it, before I got home. I'm here. No one's posted it. And they found the kid hiding in the attic.
Poor kid. Happy ending, but I bet he's mortified that he let his father's balloon go, for a while yet.
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I can't imagine how terrified those parents must have been. Yay for happy endings, though. Typical kid, thinking they'd be more freaked out about the balloon flying off than that he was missing.
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A balloon that is a 20' sphere would have 280 lbs lifting force. This balloon was saucer shaped, 20' in diameter and 5' tall. I'd say that would probably lift a 6 year old.
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I can't imagine how terrified those parents must have been. Yay for happy endings, though. Typical kid, thinking they'd be more freaked out about the balloon flying off than that he was missing.
I think he successfully deflected any wrath that might have been forthcoming. Smart kid? Posts: 4287 | Registered: Mar 2005
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I felt sorry for the kid, but not for the parents who made it possible for a 6-year old to get within 50 yards of an unsecured hot air balloon with the capability of floating to 10,000 feet.
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Sounds like it was an accident, and frankly, they scolded the kid for playing near it, so it sounds like they were doing their job. Someone didn't correctly secure it, and that's obviously a mistake, but negligence comes in degrees, and I don't know how severe I'd be in my criticism of them.
Either way I'd feel sorry for them. It must have been terrifying to think he was up there, especially when they found out he wasn't. I think it'd be pretty cold to not have some compassion for suffering parents, even if they did contribute in some accidental way to the situation.
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It SOUNDS like a publicity stunt from the stuff that this story is uncovering.
And yeah, I'm a pretty cold person. I had some compassion when we thought the boy was up there, but now that we know he was never in harm's way, we can concentrate on parental failings. Posts: 5264 | Registered: Jul 2002
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quote: I had some compassion when we thought the boy was up there, but now that we know he was never in harm's way, we can concentrate on parental failings.
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I watched a bit of the coverage. I was watching the Obama townhall in New Orleans which was playing on MSNBC. Their was supposed to be some analysis and discussion after when they went straight into breaking news. I had to turn it off after awhile because the whole situation was just too scary and depressing.
I'm glad the boy is ok but now I just want to smack his parents. According to one article I read online, they often chase dangerous storms with their kids along for the ride and its a lifestyle that had them featured on "Wife Swap" not once, but TWICE.
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If he were in a box inside a helium balloon, wouldn't he be dead from lack of oxygen anyway? I'm confused about how they thought he was riding the balloon.
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quote:Originally posted by Frisco: It SOUNDS like a publicity stunt from the stuff that this story is uncovering.
And yeah, I'm a pretty cold person. I had some compassion when we thought the boy was up there, but now that we know he was never in harm's way, we can concentrate on parental failings.
One of my co-workers was following this story intently through the day... His first line of comments were "I want to punch the dad/parents in the face." After more details came out (they've been minor "family" TV personalities) and the boy was found, his thoughts turned in the "Is it a publicity stunt?" direction.
Whatever the truth, a scary story to be sure...
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quote:Originally posted by Frisco: I felt sorry for the kid, but not for the parents who made it possible for a 6-year old to get within 50 yards of an unsecured hot air balloon with the capability of floating to 10,000 feet.
I feel very sorry for those parents.
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Poor kid, I hope he doesn't find out that he just ratted out his parents.
Wonder how much they'll get sued for. How many different organizations were involved in the rescue?
(yes, I realize this is jumping to conclusions, but watching the father say "Man" and then stammer out some wtf-inspiring smokescreen just feeds into my preconceived notions about this story. )
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Of course, if they had been really, really bad parents, they would actually have put the kid in the balloon.
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I don't know if it's the same story linked to above, so sorry if it's repetitious, but a neighbor who observed them running around in a panic looking for the kid said he was convinced they really didn't know where the child was, and if it was a scam then they were way better actors than he thought.
Weren't they on some kind of reality show at one point? If that's the case I can't blame a 6-year old kid for getting confused and saying something about a show.
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Right, but after the child said that, the father then proceeds to explain that Falcon hides all the time whenever he is asked to do something or when he feels he is going to get in trouble.
I'm not totally sold that this was all an act but that definitely makes me very suspicious. I feel like the father's response after his son's comment really only made the situation worse.
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It also could have made that the balloon was made for some show, or just being on TV could feel be refered to as a show by a jukid.
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quote:Originally posted by BlackBlade: I feel like the father's response after his son's comment really only made the situation worse.
Sure. But if the kid said something that actually makes little sense, the parent knows it sounds bad, and is being asked on national TV to explain . . . well, getting flustered and upset is not unreasonable. Especially since the cops had also asked initially if this was a publicity stunt (and STILL seem convinced it was not).
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Someone sent me a link to the family's 'Wife-Swap' episode. Having seen a clip (couldn't watch the whole thing - too horrible) in which the screaming father poured milk over the 'wife' while the kids laughed, I can believe anything of these people.
Yes, the show is staged, but these people are clearly somewhat deranged and desperate for attention. Or, as the family would apparently rather have it, descended from aliens.
And now they have the kid throwing up on live TV every time the 'for the show' comment is mentioned.
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quote:Authorities are currently investigating whether the Heene family was involved in a hoax. If they were, that is certainly a story. But until that’s proved, maybe the media should back off just a little and not punish a family that may well have just survived the worst day of their lives.
I can't imagine how terrified those parents must have been. Yay for happy endings, though. Typical kid, thinking they'd be more freaked out about the balloon flying off than that he was missing.
I think he successfully deflected any wrath that might have been forthcoming. Smart kid?
Deflected wrath? -- maybe. Avoided punishement? not if his parents are at all like any of the parents I know.
All you parents out there, what would you do? (Assuming of course that this wasn't a hoax). Of course you'd feel the sense of relief at finding him and initially that would be overwhelming. But the next morning, what would you do? Would grounding him for life be too severe?
Clearly this kid did something very seriously bad, most likely to avoid being punished, and the kid needs to be taught that this wasn't acceptable. I don't no the punishment is the proper response, but something needs to be done to make this kid understand. Maybe having him write letters to all the people involved in the man hunt, apologizing for what he did would be a good start.
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On the one hand, I don't think he should have to pay for the arbitrary size of the consequences of a very common and usually minor childish mistake (hiding). In other words, I don't think he did a "very seriously bad thing", I think he did a slightly bad thing that happened to turn into a big deal for reasons outside his control.
On the other hand, there's a reasonable chance that if he doesn't learn not to hide like that, it could lead to further worry and expense.
Writing a letter and then getting help from Mom and Dad to read it over a few times and then distribute copies seems like a good idea. Working through imaginary scenarios and reinforcing the right responses to stressful situations seems like a good idea. I wouldn't be inclined to extend any additional punishment.
At six he's going to need a lot of encouragement to do better next time, and not a lot of accountability for what went wrong, IMO. *shrug*
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(Just to be clear, I think the kid initially hid in a very normal and slightly naughty way, and then was probably overwhelmed by a very scary ruckus which I think exceeds a six year old's ability to properly cope with. All of this is assuming there is no hoax.)
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Assuming no hoax, it is primarily the parents' fault for creating a potentially deadly situation in their backyard and failing to adequately supervise or restrain their 6 year old.
But assuming no hoax, the terror they went through is more punishment than anything anyone else could do to them.
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quote:Originally posted by The Rabbit: . Of course you'd feel the sense of relief at finding him and initially that would be overwhelming. But the next morning, what would you do?
I don't know. I think that repeated television interviews causing him so much stress that he throw up during one is probably not the right answer, though. I'm sure it does go a long way towards getting him to say 'no' the next time that his parents want to involve him in a hoax (assuming it is one). It would also discourage him from behaving in that fashion on a regular basis, too (assuming it's not a hoax).
"The case of a giant Mylar balloon, which ascended into the sky late last week amid fears a 6-year-old boy was aboard, has been determined to be a "hoax" and a "publicity stunt," Larimer County, Colorado, Sheriff Jim Alderden said Sunday.
"The family of the Fort Collins boy, Falcon Heene, engineered the incident in order to better market themselves for a reality television show, Alderden told reporters at a news conference."
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What a world we live in. So what happens now?
Funny thing is, I used to make hot air balloons by ironing garbage bags together, and now I can imagine people building huge Mylar helium balloons, just to be copycats. In fact, this has gotten my old "I want to build a radio controlled dirigible" juices flowing.
But why do people have to turn cool hobby stuff into creepy attention getting weirdness?
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OK, parents. If your kid spoiled a hoax (that was otherwise likely to succeed and further your television career) by failing to contain his cognitive dissonance on national television, what is the appropriate punishment?
(I decided to make a joke rather than attempt to express what I think of the parents. Assuming hoax, now.)
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How can you even begin to express the disappointment you feel in that situation?
"Falcon, all we asked was one simple thing: consistently stick to a complicated lie, even when people are asking you questions about your motivation for things you did not do. It makes us very sad that you decided not to be a team player."
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"Daddy just wanted to be famous. But he didn't want to be famous for being a soulless fraudster and horrible parent."
I guess that doesn't work. He probably doesn't mind being famous for those things.
Maybe this:
"Next time, Falcon, when the family is perpetrating a massive abuse of public trust and resources, you won't get to play."
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Now imagine if the whole thing wasn't a hoax and the kid just said something from a confused sense of what was going on. Everyone's suspicions go crazy and they decide it's a hoax. Dad goes to jail and gets a huge fine, legal fees, glares at the supermarket.
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[Edit #2: I reread this and realized it could be misread. I'm not replying to any of the above posts -- just have been trying to give the benefit of the doubt whenever I can. It's been a hard slog with this one, though. I find myself unusually pissy about the likely manipulative aspects underlying this particular series of self-presentations.]
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It sounds like the sheriff may have made reference to a confession by one of the parents. If so, certainly people confess under duress to things they may not have actually done, but we'd be getting to the spindly level along the branch of implausibility here.
quote:Alderden said the sheriff's office had possibly misled the media by appearing more credulous than they actually were.
"The only way that we were able to bring this to a successful conclusion is if we got a confession," Alderden said. "We developed a strategy to do that. It was very important during this time that they maintained their trust with us."
quote:Originally posted by dabbler: Now imagine if the whole thing wasn't a hoax and the kid just said something from a confused sense of what was going on. Everyone's suspicions go crazy and they decide it's a hoax. Dad goes to jail and gets a huge fine, legal fees, glares at the supermarket.
This is actually what I'm worried about most right now. That expose by an "acquaintance" did surprisingly little to convince me that it was a hoax. But perhaps the police have conducted interviews where one or more family members admitted to perpetrating a publicity stunt.
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quote:Originally posted by scifibum: OK, parents. If your kid spoiled a hoax (that was otherwise likely to succeed and further your television career) by failing to contain his cognitive dissonance on national television, what is the appropriate punishment?
(I decided to make a joke rather than attempt to express what I think of the parents. Assuming hoax, now.)
Unless anyone is confused, my original question was based on the presumption that this wasn't a hoax. If one of the parents has now confessed that it was a hoax, that changes the entire picture.
Assuming that it was a hoax, the parents should at a minimum be required to pay for the full cost of the search and rescue operation. Some jail time is probably also in order. And quite frankly, I think there is a definite call for a further investigation by child protective services with the possibility of removing these kids from their parents custody. That may be over the top, but involving a six year old in this sort of a scam certainly borders on child abuse. The little boy was clearly so stressed by this he was throwing up. I'm not saying this incident alone would justify removing the children from the home, just that it warrants further investigation into the home situation.
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Even if I didn't think using the kinds in a scam was grounds for some serious scrutiny by child protective services, I think their continuing involvement of the kids especially when it was so distressing certainly does.
That assumes there was a hoax, which hasn't been proven but sure seems likely to me.
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Maybe it's me, but I fail to see how an event such as this, regardless of whether it was real or a hoax, would serve to "better market themselves".
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Fame is its own reward? It would certainly drum up interest, however temporary, in whatever project they were working on at the time-whether it be chasing storms, cleaning gutters, reality television, or experimental balloons.
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