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Jenny Gardener
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Gay, to me, has three meanings now: happy, blithe; homosexual; tacky in a pretentious way

If I said I had a gay marriage, I could mean any of the following:

I have a happy, fun marriage.
I have a homosexual marriage.
I have a tacky, pretentious marriage.

Not sure where I'm going with this, but I'm curious to see what our etymology people have to say.

[ March 02, 2004, 03:27 PM: Message edited by: Jenny Gardener ]

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**starts throwing tomatoes at Jenny**
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Jenny Gardener
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Mmm, yummy tomatoes.
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The Editor-in-Chief
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Are the etymology people supposed to say something? I'm a little confused.
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beverly
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Yeah, Porter and I have a really gay marriage! [Big Grin]
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Dagonee
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1000 points to the first person who can find an example of a marriage that meets all three definitions!
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We get 1.25 out of 3.

1 -- Yes. We are happy and have fun.
2 -- No. Neither one of us is homosexual.
3 -- Partly. I am not pretentious (I don't think I am!), but I do enjoy tacky. Not all the time, but enough to really annoy my wife.

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Amka
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Rosy and her wife?
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Interesting...

I've never heard the "tacky/pretentious" use of the word "gay." Is that something you think of when you hear the word or have you actually seen the word "gay" used in that fashion.

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Raia
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[ROFL]

Jenny, you will be the death of me.

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beverly
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That is so gay.
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Bob,

Teenagers use it that way all the time. One of them will do something lame/stupid or tactless, and the others will say, "that is SO gay!" in a condescending way.

Farmgirl
edit: beverly beat me to it!

[ March 02, 2004, 03:43 PM: Message edited by: Farmgirl ]

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Jenny Gardener
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Around here, Bob, gay in that sense is a slang term. I probably picked it up from the teenagers. For instance, a really tacky kitsch lampshade might be described as "gay". Or a person who is flaunting a tacky fashion item might be described as "gay". So that definition has entered my brain now. Some movies are "gay", as are some musicians - nothing to do with their sexuality, just pretentiousness and shallow copying of styles.
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Beren One Hand
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This thread is a lot less interesting than the title implied. [Mad]
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beverly
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Do homosexuals find that slang offensive?
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Jenny Gardener
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Made ya read it!

[Kiss] Beren.

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My brother once made my mother laugh by saying that if he became a homosexual, he would be a lesbian. So he might be able to have a gay marriage in every sense. If his wife were into the third definition.
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