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I recently made a post on a topic and learned that I should put myself out more. Someone suggested giving a short autobiography.
So, this is what I am going to do.
We will see how short it turns out.
My name is Kacie. I am 17 years old. I four dogs and there names are Dixie Marie, Bo, Jake, & Bandit. Two cats that are named Chloe Hemi and Kitty. And TWO FISH... that don’t have names. One is called “Purple” the other is called “Pink”
I like reading and walking. I also like going on a nearby ropes course, even though I am deathly afraid of heights.
When I was three years old my parents divorced, and now they are both remarried. I have 6 brothers, most are either step or half. Two of them took care of me most of my childhood because my dad worked shifts.
One of those brothers became an alcoholic and was involved in a lot of gang stuff. Fortunately, though, he has recovered from all of that, has three kids, and a loving wife. But the other is about 23 now and has been hard into every kind of drug that you could imagine since he was 13. Although I have always had faith in recovery, I am beginning to lose that. After so many lies you just LOSE faith.
I went through a two year period where I wanted to be just like my brothers. I think that I went through that because they never seemed to LOVE me. I have been told the reason for all of their problems was me, because I was always the "favorite”. My little faze was also caused by an abusive step mom.
I ended up leaving my dad to live with my mom, who I had hardly anything to do with up till that time. She worked me hard trying to help me straighten up my life but I always ignored her. After all I wanted my brother’s attention and I STILL didn't have it. Well I got it. He ended up using me, and then making me look like a liar.
That is when it clicked. It has been about two years since all of that. I have some of the best friends anyone could have... But I don't have that many at all. I try not to surround myself with people who distract me from what life is about. After everything my mom is my best friend. I talk to her about everything! And I mean everything.
I have a wonderful boyfriend who I have always believed is a gift from God.
Now I will end with something maybe a little conceded. I love myself. I love who I have grown to be! I am smart, I am fun, I am happy, and I am trustworthy. I guess that I am just extremely proud of my self.
Through my many experiences I have decided that I want to be a psychologist.
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Goodness, Kacie, what a life already! I'm glad you love yourself. That's not conceited at all, that's great. Thank you for telling us a little more about yourself. I'm glad you're here, and look forward to seeing more of you around the forum. Posts: 7954 | Registered: Mar 2004
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Nice to get to know you Kacie. It's a good think you are confident and proud - most 17 year olds aren't, deep inside. I hope your brother eventually recovers.
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Conceited? Kacie, that isn't conceited at all--it's healthy. I'm glad that you found us, and I look forward to getting to know you better. Glad you decided to create this thread.
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Hello, Kacie! It's great to meet you. I'm really glad that you've decided to take your experiences and use them for good. You're seventeen, so will you be graduating from high school soon? What are your plans for college?
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I am a junior so I have one year left. .. and to be honest.. I am scared to death of graduation.lol.
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I was a bit nervous about the whole thing, too. I really liked high school and I wasn't happy about leaving all my friends behind. It's a pretty big change in your life, and I think it makes sense to be a big scared of it. I always had a bit of trouble understanding the people who were so excited for it to be over.
College is pretty fun, though. Lots of new and exciting experiences. Have you thought about where you might want to go?
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I think it's great to hear that you love yourself! Many 17-year-olds I know don't-- especially 17-year-olds who have been in tough emotional situations with their families. Good for you, and glad to have you aboard!
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(Belated) welcome to Hatrack! I'm glad that you're on track and happy with yourself. It sounds like you've had some hard times but figured out what's important. Pretty cool. Posts: 4393 | Registered: Aug 2003
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Hey, we almost have the same rare spelling of our name . We should be Hatrack sisters...though I don't know if that means we back each other up or fight like cats and dogs
Being proud of yourself in the face of adversity you've faced is an accomplishment, not evidence of conceit or arrogance.
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Welcome! It sounds like you've had some pretty intense experiences. I'm glad you've survived them. I have no doubt that your experiences will make you stronger in the long run. Posts: 13680 | Registered: Mar 2002
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quote:Originally posted by Kasie H: Hey, we almost have the same rare spelling of our name . We should be Hatrack sisters...though I don't know if that means we back each other up or fight like cats and dogs
Ha. That is too weird. I have always wanted a sister so that sounds great.. And if we decide to fight I should warn you I am pretty strong
Shigosei- I live in Oklahoma so naturally I have thought about going to Oklahoma University. but I am not completely sure I can be so far away from home yet..
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Hiya Kacie! Very cool to know more about you. I'm 18 myself, so we're not that far off in age.
I second what Noemon said about that not being conceited. It's healthy, and essential to your mental well-being. It's something I'm just learning myself and let me tell you, increasing self-esteem has led to a dramatic increase in happiness.
You mentioned God ... are you of a particular faith/denomination? Don't worry, it's in the Terms of Service that no one can disparage your beliefs . I'm just curious.
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And if you're worried about a minor (heh, sorry) intro being conceited, wait until you hit landmark status.
-Trevor
Edited to add: Trust me, graduating high school is just one in a long, long road of scary firsts. Ten years from now, you won't remember the terror - just a fond nostalgia for much fun you had. Posts: 5413 | Registered: Jun 2004
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Hey Kacie! Glad to get to know you better!
Rayann
P.S. I'm in Oklahoma, too! Tulsa area. Are we starting our own clump?!
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Welcome! I'll leave the BBQ where it is. I'll be nice today. Though, those cats would be quite tasty...errr, um... *shifty eyes*
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Thanks for the great intro post. I hope you stick around here. This is a good place with good people and you sound like you'll fit right in.
Good for you for loving yourself at your age. It takes most people a LOT longer to get to that point, if they ever actually make it.
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I don't know where in OK you are, but if you're anywhere near Tulsa I bet Boon would love to bring her monst... er, munchkins to meet you (and a parent or friend, if your parents are comfortable with that.)
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Indeed, I would, provided we meet in a public place and your mother joins us. Maybe lunch or something? (Of course, if you're too far away, it'd have to wait until I'm in the mood for a roadtrip or something.)
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Oh my god graduation... I'm not too nervous about college since I think I know what I want to do, but I can't imagine leaving all my friends (I've been with them since kindergarten.) One more year...
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That sounds wonderful Boon! I actually live in Ardmore, which is about 3 hours away, but my oldest brother and his family lives in Tulsa. I am not sure WHEN I will visit them , but maybe that would be a good time.
Is anyone else from Oklahoma, or is it just us?
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Loving yourself is good; it's what gives you the strength to make the right choices when you are confused, when other people seem to think you're wrong.
It's what keeps you going through the tough times.
Of course, it was in Canada, so probably not the same one... Posts: 8355 | Registered: Apr 2003
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Farmgirl, unless I'm mistaken, lives in KS, up near Wichita somewhere. And I think there's another Okie here, but I can't remember who...too far away for a casual meet-up, at any rate, for me anyway. Might be closer to you, but I can't remember who it is.
One of the benefits of meeting up with me and my kids is that you become instantly "real," as Legoman and Barbie_Biker have both posted here, so qualify as members, and we're all "real," having met at least two other "real" Jatraquero/as.
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