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Most of the crits I've gotten have been within a few days. I've tried to do the same, and if it's just not happening, I've communicated that back to the person who's waiting on me, with apologies.
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Every now and then, one will vanish into the black hole of life. There has been a time or two when I got overzealous and agreed to read several pieces at once, and in the mix, lost track of one of them. I say shrug and move on Or sent a kind note asking if the critique will be coming.
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Critiques do vanish into the abyss. In fact, I've become that abyss a couple of times, usually when unforseen business enters my life and I forget. On both ends, I have a standard: After a week, forget it. That is, if a critique has still not come back in a week don't expect it and if you remember after a week that you haven't given a critique don't bother because they've probably already gotten the feedback they needed and made changes and yours won't be particularly helpful any longer. I choose a week because it's long enough. That's how long my critique group has to get back to one another. When I post something on F&F I'm not asking for people who will have time to read next month or next year or a week from Tuesday, I (and I think most everyone else) is really looking for someone who can spare a few minutes in the next few days. (Not necessarily NOW but soon.)
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Abloutely. These are voluntary critiques, and 'life happens', so take what you get and politely request a response when you need to. Posts: 2710 | Registered: Jul 2004
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BUT, critiques getting lost in the abyss doesn't excuse the person who lost them from politely dropping a note to apologize for dropping the ball.
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You're absolutely right, dakota, and that is something i have been remiss in the couple of times I've had to "drop the ball." On the other hand, I've never received a note of explanation myself. Not saying that's an excuse, but perhaps in the future we should all make a concerted effort to give a word or two of explanation and apology if we won't be able to look at the story after all. Posts: 3567 | Registered: May 2003
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I am one of the worse people on these boards. A critique from me can take anything from 3 days to 2 weeks. The best for you is to get a promise from me of when I'll get it back -- that way, I'll have a deadline to pressure myself with.
But when I critique, I think (and hope!) the end-result is worth the wait ^^.
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Or sent a kind note asking if the critique will be coming.
I've had to do that myself once or twice.
