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dread pirate romany
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Our baby was born early this AM.

I was induced after not feeling movement and an ultrasound confirming he had died.
His name is Brian Benjamin. He was 4 lb 13 oz and 19 inches.

The doctor could find no sign of cause of death, but said due to no mec in the amniotic fkuid it was fast so: I could not have gotten to the hosptial in time, no matter what and , he did not suffer.

I am getting lots of hands on help here, and lots of support from church. Our newest pastor spent a lot of time with us and she came at 5:30 AM to bless him.

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[Frown] I'm so sorry for your loss.
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Much love to you from the Card house.
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Jay
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So sorry, you and your family will be in my prayers.
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I am very sorry to hear that, and you are in our thoughts and prayers.

Rob and Jenni

[ February 28, 2005, 09:09 PM: Message edited by: Kwea ]

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Derrell
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[Frown] [Frown] (((dpr)))
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I'm so sorry.

Our thoughts and prayers are with you too.

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dread pirate romany
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Thanks
I need to get offline and just be with my family, but all your thoughts and prayers mean so much.

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((dpr)) I'm so sorry for your loss. [Frown]
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What Bob said. And hugs.
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I'm so sorry, romany. [Frown]

(((((romany and the family)))))

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Sorry for your loss. [Frown]
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I'm sorry, romany. I'll be thinking about you and your family.
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You will be in our thoughts. Be with your family and take comfort.

((dpr))

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Oh romany...

I'm thinking of you.

[Frown]

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That is horrible. I do not usually make it a habit of playing, but I will tonight. ((((dpr&family)))) [Frown]
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Oh, no. I am so very sorry.
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Can we have your address?
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[Frown]

((((romany))))

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[Frown]
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[Cry] I'm so sorry to hear about your little one. I'm really glad you have lots of support there for you and your family.
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I am so, so sorry. All my best thoughts to you and yours. [Frown]
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I am so sorry. [Frown] Your family is in my prayers.
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Oh my. I'm so sorry.
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I'm sorry for your loss.

Hello Brian. I always liked that name.

[Frown]

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I am so, so sorry. I will pray for you and your family.

I am so sorry. I don't know what else to say. I know he will wait for you.

[ February 28, 2005, 11:02 PM: Message edited by: ketchupqueen ]

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Good wishes going out to the romany family. [Group Hug]
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Ah romany, I'm sorry. I'll be thinking of you and your family.
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Words can't even... [Frown]
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Oh romany, I'm so sorry. May God be with you and your son.
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Oh dpr - I am so terribly sorry.

[Frown]

Much love, hugs and prayers to you, your family, and little Brian.

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I remember when a very similar thing happened in my family, and we lost my baby sister. I've never seen anything more difficult for my parents to deal with. Our prayers go out to you.
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((((dpr))))

[Frown]

Wishing you comfort and peace through this time.

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Oh, dpr, I am so, so very sorry. I know that none of us can take the pain away, but please know that I'll hold you and your family in my heart and thoughts. I hope you find peace. And I'm sure Brian was beautiful, and I *know* he was loved.

space opera

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(((romany)))
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When I was laying down to go to sleep I couldn't help but think of this thread and my own family's situation. My family lost a daughter a couple of years before I was born. She lived for 2 months and suddenly died of SIDS. My family of course was devestated. It sounds like you are among family, which is the best place for you right now. I don't think my mother let herself greive, not for a while. She blamed/s herself. Her father reinforced this. She went through a very tough decade after my sister died because should couldn't believe that it wasn't her fault, she couldn't let it go.

I just wanted to remind you to give yourself permission to greive and to be able to fully accept that it was *not* your fault.

Best wishes (((dpr&family)))

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Oh, I'm so sorry. Lots of love and prayers.
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dpr... my thoughts are with you and your family. My heart goes out to you. A beautifully chosen name.

{{{dpr and family}}}

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: comes back to Hatrack for just a moment just for this :

(((((( romany )))))))

I cry for you.

Farmgirl

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I'm so sorry, romany. [Frown] [Frown]
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(((dpr))) [Group Hug]
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[Frown]

I'm sorry. I will keep your family in my prayers.

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{{{{{dpr and family}}}}} [Group Hug]
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Ah, dpr. I'm so very sorry. May you feel sheltered in God's love for you and yours. We, too, will keep you in our thoughts and prayers.
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What a tragedy! I'm so sorry. ((romany and family)) [Frown] [Cry]
Alan

[ March 01, 2005, 12:47 AM: Message edited by: Morbo ]

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Man. That's awful...
((((dpr & fam))))

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[Frown] [Frown] [Frown]
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My thoughts, condolences and best wishes for you and your family, dpr.

I am so sorry for your loss. [Frown] ((((Romany))))

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I'm so sorry, romany. I'll be thinking and praying for you. Take whatever time you need to grieve in a way that's best for you and yours.
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