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Exactly what I was getting at, Dag. Obviously, she really trusted this guy, and he was slime. I'm not saying that all polys are slime, or that this sort of thing happens a lot.
It's just the 'mothering' part of me that wants people to be wary and protect themselves. That and, I admit, my own complete inability to share. Ron is the best thing that ever happened to me, and, though I joke around, I wouldn't consider this kind of lifestyle for myself. I don't mean that to be judgemental, just honest.
Funny thing. I am actually living with two adult men other than my husband. I know it must look scandalous to the neighbors. *giggle* One is my beloved's little brother and the other is an old friend whose been with usfor about two years. He moved in with us when he had no place else to go, really. He'd planned to leave quickly, but then he got a job and started helping with the bills. His health is in question right now, and frankly, we're used to our grown roommies. They do their own laundry and generally see to their own food and stuff. We all get along, and it's cool.
We may even be going into business together soon. But it isn't a polyamorous situation, even though it may look that way.
I think I actually enjoy looking scandalous more than being scandalous.
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