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Raia
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Eighty years ago, a man was born who would contribute to giving me the breath of life, and would change my life forever.

The man who I know as my grandfather accomplished more in his life than anyone would dare to dream about.

He was a genius in the field of biology, an expert in the subject of the history of Palestine, and a widely known figure all over the world.

Forty eight years ago, he became a father for the first time. And three years later, his wife gave birth to a son.

His son later provided him with two grandchildren. His daughter raised three of her own for him to love. The eldest passed away six months ago, throwing my grandfather (not to mention the rest of us) into a state of depression.

Over the past few weeks, his condition has deteriorated rapidly.

As of last night, Jacob Wahrman has left this world forever.

[Cry]

[ June 14, 2005, 03:06 PM: Message edited by: Raia ]

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(((Shani))) I'm sorry dearheart.
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Oh Raia, I'm so sorry. I know you were very close to him. [Frown]
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*hugs tightly* I'm so very sorry, Shani...lots of love to you and your family...
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Raia,

I am sorry for your and your family's loss. He sounds like a great man, a great father, and a loving grandfather. May he be at peace for always.

{{{{{Raia}}}}

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.ברוך דין האמת

[Frown] I'm so sorry, sweetie. (((((Raia))))) Please pass along my condolences to your parents and sister.

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Raia
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Thank you all for your kind wishes. The funeral is set for this tuesday at 6:00. My house is chock full of relatives, and I just want them all to go away. I hate having people constantly in and out, especially when I'm upset about something. But they can hardly stay at my grandfather's... [Frown]
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I'm so sorry for your loss. (((Shani)))
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I am sure he loved you as much as you obviously loved him. Our condolances.


Rob and Jenni

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I am really sorry, Raia. We will be praying for you and your family today.
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((Raia)) [Frown]
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(((((Raia)))))

I'm so sorry.

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((Raia))

Lots of love and good thoughts for your family. [Frown]

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(((Raia)))
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I wish you and your family comfort and strength in this difficult time.
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((Raia)) I'm sorry for your loss.
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*hugs tight and doesn't let go*
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I'm sorry, Raia. [Frown]
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[Frown]


((((Raia))))

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(((Shani)))
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Raia
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Thank you everyone. *hugs back* It means a lot.
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I'm so sorry. (((hugs)))
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Thank you for telling us about your grandfather. He sounds like a fascinating man. I'm so sorry for your loss, Raia.
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*hugs Raia* Oh, honey, I'm sorry.
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I'm sorry, Raia.
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I don't have any clever, comforting words, but...*hugs*
(((((Raia)))))

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((((nini, maya, and whole family))))) If there's anything I can do sweetie, let me know.
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((((Raia)))) I'm sorry for your loss.
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Oh, Shani I am so sorry. I really wish I could hug you in person. Can you e-mail me your address? What a loving tribute to your grandfather.
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Oh Shani, I'm so sorry... *hugs*
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Shani, I can't seem to find my words. Just know that a lot of people love you and are here for you, sweetie. Hang on.
*very tight hug*

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Raia
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The funeral is tonight. I know I've said that already, but I can't sit still, I'm shaking, and I keep having to busy myself. So I thought maybe telling you all again would ease that a little bit.

I hardly slept last night, it was really hot, and the mosquitoes ate me alive, and I kept waking up in tears.

I just can't imagine this world without him. It's like trying to imagine a chocolate cake without the chocolate. It can't be done.

It's just not fair. [Frown]

*hugs everyone* Thanks a million for your comments.

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I am so sorry.
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Raia
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The funeral was today... oh my god, it was so awful. When Tiltan died, at least I didn't have to watch them put her in the grave... today, I did. This time it was a religious ceremony, as opposed to last time, so they had my grandfather there through the entire thing, on a stretcher, with a talit (prayer shawl) covering him. Afterwards, they brought him out to the grave, and slid him into the hole. I had to stand and watch my grandfather's body slide into a hole in the ground, never to come out again. I hope I never have to see anything like it again. *cries uncontrollably*

There were so many people there. He really touched the lives of so many people. But I just can't imagine this world without him. I'm not ready to live in a world without my grandfather. I thought I could never feel worse than I did when Tiltan died, and I guess I don't feel worse, but I just feel like this all over again. Two funerals in one year -- it's more than I can handle. I just want to curl up forever.

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[Frown] (((Shani)))
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Ah, Raia, I'm sorry. If it would help, tell us stories about him.
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((Raia))
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Oh, Shani, that must have been so very hard to see. Got your e-mail, I want to send you a little something.
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I am so sorry Raia! You have my sincerest sympathy. ((((Raia))))

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I am very sorry for you loss. [Frown]
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Noemon, I may do that once I recover a little bit. He was a very unusual man.

Romany, thank you. *smile* You're so sweet. Really.

Everyone else: Thank you too. *hugs* [Frown]

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[Group Hug]
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[Frown]
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((((raia))))
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