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Actually I find this whole conversation VERY facinating. I'm actually tempted to put my toe into this pool of drama....
*inserts big toe*
I agree that for JTStryker to bring this up might make him a drama-queen...but there is also the possibility that he wanted to announce his sins, get yelled at, and then forgiven. And I think why the people involved are insulted by that is because they see the attempt to win forgiveness...an attempt to coerce them.
As a stranger to him I must give the benefit of the doubt. Basically hijacking the date from the girl you took out to another girl there is very cold, but I don't think he did planned it. It was spur of the moment and lovely teenage hormones. Ahhh... remember the days...
You'll all look back on this, I'm sure, and smile. When we get older we don't have as many passions or as deep...
quote:When we get older we don't have as many passions or as deep...
*snort*
Spoken like a twenty-something. Anyone who thinks this sort of high school drama is representative of deep passion doesn’t know the meaning of either word.
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quote: but there is also the possibility that he wanted to announce his sins, get yelled at, and then forgiven.
Well, Telperion, you got my reasoning down. Sarah forgave me before Rainelle and I were out of site, it's the rest of our group who i needed to have a way to vent on me.
Farmgirl, Yes we all spend way too much time posting on here and not enough time talking on Aim, sorry.
Raia, which ex-girlfriends have you talked to? I can only think of one (besides you) that didn't still think I'm a great guy after we were done dating.
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I'm not talking about ex-girlfriends... I said who have NOT dated you in the past. I was saying that many people take my viewpoint on this matter, people who don't have the emotional strain of having dated you get in the way.
And I did still think you were a fine person after we broke up, but I'm sorry, you seem rather shallow to me, now that I see more of you.
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I think there is a certain value in being able to restrain one's physical passions, such as - it helps you restrain yourself and say "Hey, I like you, but I'm on a date with Sarah, so don't think I don't like you, but we should save this for later." So, yeah, you probably agree that would be a better course of action, but it takes a change in attitude to decide that that is the kind of person you want to be, that you want to be able to restrain yourself when a pretty girl wants to make out with you.
So yeah, for the sake of this one incident, it's important to apologize to your friends, to get everything to be cool in that way, but the next step is figuring out how you're going to get yourself not to do the same thing again to another girl.
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