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mr_porteiro_head
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Men with faces more like women's?
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beverly
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I think one person described it as the youthful look being the initial cause of attraction to a smooth male cheek. Dunno if it's true or not.
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Verily the Younger
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quote:
Still, I don't see it as a laziness issue considering that the hair belongs there. It is the natural way of things. Shaving it, when I choose to do so, is the affectation.
Thank you! About time somebody said something sensible. You know, there was a time when a man without a beard would get no respect. It's such an obviously masculine feature, the vast majority of women being unable to grow one, that it was a sign of manhood. A man with a beard was a man; a man with a naked face was a girly man.

I keep a beard, not because I'm lazy, but because I bleeding well want one. I like the way it looks on me. (I'd like it better if I could get my mustache and beard to connect. Darn my Cherokee blood!)

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It's nice to have light-colored hair so I don't have to shave every morning. Maybe it's my tender flesh, but shaving hurts like nothing else I do on a regular basis. It's not exactly positive reenforcement to continue the practice.
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I have a funny dent in my skull. I'd look odd with a shaved head.
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When I reach my 60s, I'm going to abandon the beard and get me some of these. Man, talk about cool. [Cool]
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A beard to really complain about!
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I picked my husband because of his beard. I'll have to get a picture up some time.
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rivka, I always wonder about pictures like that: What do they do when they decide it's time to get the bees off?
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GAH!

Thanks for the link, rivka. [Angst]


Jamie: With cranial restructuring, you can fix that.

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rivka
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quote:
Originally posted by Icarus:
rivka, I always wonder about pictures like that: What do they do when they decide it's time to get the bees off?

I don't know. But I bet ScottR might have some idea.
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I am indifferent both ways about beards, but my favorite is a four-day stubble. If they could keep it at that, I'd be happy.
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rivka
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O_o You like the Saddam look?
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A little more experience kissing would change your mind, kat. [Razz]
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Hey, this is based on experience. I had someone who only shaved on Sunday, and Thursday was my favorite day.
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True, I suppose with you, only the face area would be covered in a red rash. [Razz]

I was thinking more about my experiences.

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Your faith in my innocence is sweet.

Four-day stubble

[ July 12, 2005, 05:28 PM: Message edited by: katharina ]

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Olivetta
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MMmmnghgahgjshlrrrRAaaaaawwwrr

I admit, though, that I like a bit o' beard better when the whiskers are of the blondish variety. I don't know why, unless it's that it is the same color as the skin underneath. Same reason I never wear my hair in cornrows (even thouiugh it WOULD match after a few weeks of being out and about - but that would risk the whole burning/peeling thing. Not good.)

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Beards are all about respect.

My plan is to grow a beard so amazing that I'll be elected president of the United States, this is coming from someone who isn't a citizen. Yup, it'll be that incredible.

But seriously if someone bases their respect on how much hair you have on your face then they have a problem.

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I haven't shaved in about 7 months, the only thing I've trimmed is the mustache because it gets in my mouth. I do wash and comb it though. Here are some pictures of me with the beard and without. Also I cut my hair fairly short and the only reason I get it cut again is because it starts bothering me, I do the same with my fingernails, they get to be about a half inch long before I cut them usually. Right now I dont have that much of a reason to make my self look neat because I'm just going to college. Some of my professors have beards and I haven't noticed that they treat me differnt when I have the beard then when I don't. Also one of my professors complimented me on my beard.
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Verily the Younger
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quote:
My plan is to grow a beard so amazing that I'll be elected president of the United States,
Odd that you'd say that, considering it's been quite some time since we've had a bearded president at all.
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Rico
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My beard will be the beard that defines all future beards.
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Icarus
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Interesting link, Verily. (And Forsooth!)

Did you listen to this recording, of the first president to have something completely unintelligible/incoherent recorded?

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Verily the Younger
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Pretty interesting. Didn't catch a word of it, of course, beyond "president", and I'm pretty sure the end was "Benjamin Harrison".

But wow, check this one out. Actual audio of Theodore Roosevelt. [Cool]

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>>A beard to really complain about!

You know, I bet he's holding the queen in his mouth.

Eww.

[Smile]

No, really-- he's either holding the queen off-camera, or she's in his mouth.

They get bees off of them by releasing the queen, and then gently brushing the bees away.

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What gets respect is neatness, not hairlessness.

Frisco: I looked over details for being faculty at BYU once. Beards are forbidden. Can you believe it?

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bmeaker -- you look quite nice in the top photo, with the medium-length, trimmed beard. I don't like the longer beard as much on your face. But I definately like the beard to the clean-shaven option. (but then again, that is my vote on most men).

edit: oh -- and your brother Jonathan should NOT have a beard! oh my.

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quote:
Originally posted by Will B:
What gets respect is neatness, not hairlessness.

Frisco: I looked over details for being faculty at BYU once. Beards are forbidden. Can you believe it?

Well, students can't have them, either, so it's not much of a surprise. I seem to remember hearing that they make an exception for non-member professors, but I'm not sure about that.
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I can believe it, and always found it curious that facial hair was forbidden at a school named after a man with such a ginormous beard. [Razz]
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Farmgirl - Thanks, right now its a little bit longer than that first picture but its still fairly neat. I haven't cut or trimmed it since that first picture was taken. My brother has a goatee right now, it looks ok, and he has short hair.
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Tonight at the signing I kept staring at male faces.

I blame Hatrack.

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This thread has also made me a bit more aware of facial hair on men.

Maybe it comes from being an Army Brat(where every man I came in contact with as a child was clean-shaven), but I have always felt threatened by men with beards. The longer/shaggier the scarrier. My mom used to refer to them as woolly-boogers. [Big Grin] When our pastor started growing a beard, she asked him if he'd mind coming over to our house, because our kitchen sink needed a good scrubbing. *snerk*

My mother was te only woman I have ever known who could get away with saying something like that.

And I love the word 'ginormous.'

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