quote:I'd have never have thought of that as a particular selling point.
It's kind of representative of an entire personality. He also returns library books on time and is kind to his family and pays cash for everything. It's quite darling.
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I do all those things. Makes me wonder what other little habits I have that I think of as simply "behaving correctly" that some woman might find a turn-on. Stopping and looking at every stop sign? Turning on my turn signal before I change lanes rather than while I change lanes? Returning my own grocery cart instead of leaving it out? Waiting patiently if the person ahead of me in the checkout line is taking a while instead of shouting, "HEY, MOVE IT ALONG"?
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*laugh* Yes, actually that's cute, especially when you combine it with snarky. The snark provides the Funny while the kindness means you can still be trusted.
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quote:Verily, first you have to get someone completely smitten with you. *Then* they will find everything that you do completely and utterly cute.
*slaps forehead* What bloody good does that do? If I could do that, then I wouldn't even be worrying about it!
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quote:Yes, he parks his car correctly. Even if it means getting back in and making adjustments when the parking lot is half empty and you're only going to be about ten minutes. It's very cute.
I'll be darned. I'd have never have thought of that as a particular selling point.
I think pretty much everything about a guy driving is cute. Especially when they are really serious or get mad and swear at people.
I am also weird.
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Kat, I see a distinction between a person that makes snap decisions without consulting those close to them and one that solicits advice, weighs the options and then acts decisevely. The former falls under my definition of a jerk and the latter, more likely, would fit my defintion of a nice guy. Perhaps I should have included the phrase, "...regardless of who may be hurt or what moral boundaries might be crossed"
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Thanks AJ, I've been in lurker mode for months. I'm not sure I can pinpoint the reason for my silence, although I was swamped with work through the fall. How about we call it non-specific posting malaise?
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