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Megan, you already stated you don't care about my opinion, why continue talking to me?
Apparently, it's so far below you or anyone else that it doesn't need to be discussed.
I look at things quite differently than you. I being a man know what men deal with. And here you are trying to define what I have to deal with.
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I don't think I have the same set archetypes for what constitutes a "knight in shining armor" or a "suave gentleman." In fact, I don't think I have them at all. Or at least, not the way you do.
I also don't think a certain type of person only deserves a certain other type of person.
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Well... I'll admit, I just skipped through those 4 pages. But, I did read the first post. And my response, regardless of whether or not someone has already said this...
It's true. Duh. It really DOES seem like the jerks tend to go out with more girls. It's a perverted way of thinking that someone is "cool", because the "cool" kids are only self-proclaimed to be so, and in reality, the majority of them will amount to nothing when they get out of high school.
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In my case, I'm but a wee thirteen year old, but this is the way it seems. The nice guys... A lot of them have girlfriends, too. In some cases, it might just be because the jerks/cool guys have enough courage, bravado, whatever, to ask them out.
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It doesn't work as well online, because the jerkness can't be masked by rugged good looks and a devil-may-care grin.
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quote:Originally posted by El JT de Spang: It doesn't work as well online, because the jerkness can't be masked by rugged good looks and a devil-may-care grin.
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So you also think that men that beat women should get them ? Or women that beat men should get Nice guys? Since you aren't describing what should and shouldn't be allowed, you are allowing for everything.
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quote:Originally posted by Chreese Sroup: So you also think that men that beat women should get them ? Or women that beat men should get Nice guys? Since you aren't describing what should and shouldn't be allowed, you are allowing for everything.
Who are you talking to?
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Kat, I don't know how you define those things.
However, I do know you. You are someone that wants a guy that will take care of you, someone that will help you do what you are working. This someone also has to need your help.
I'm not really sure on the whole pheremone part of it though.
I was referring to pH in that last post. About "I also don't think a certain type of person only deserves a certain other type of person."
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First, there was the crazy girl from somewhere in the midwest that wanted to be my friend because I was an asian guy. When I rejected her friend request, she messaged me a two page biography about herself.
Second, there was the gay guy who just didn't seem to understand that straight means not interested in other men. He apparently thought that if he tried hard enough, he could convince me I was gay and should therefore hook up with him over the intarweb.
This is what happens when you're just so. damn. GOOD looking.
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erosomniac, I got a message from a guy offering me $70+ an hour to walk on him.
Uh, I fail to see how what I said has anything to do with beating people. And considering that I've had an abusive relationship in the past, I'm vaguely offended.
All I was saying was, I don't think the "jocks" only deserve the "cheerleaders" or whatever.
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I got messaged by someone in my town who was on her friends profile. She wanted to chat with me at xxx@yahoo.com (not her real email, you pervs).
However, she gave me no reason why I'd wanna chat with her. No mention of what it was about me that she liked, no bands we had in common, and there was nowhere I could go to see that, because she wasn't a member. I thought that was a little weird.
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Well, I wasn't referring to you, I was referring to one of my best friends who was married to an abusive person. Take it as you wish.
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quote:Originally posted by Chreese Sroup: Well, I wasn't referring to you, I was referring to one of my best friends who was married to an abusive person. Take it as you wish.
I still fail to see how that has anything to do with what I said.
quote:Kat, I don't know how you define those things.
However, I do know you. You are someone that wants a guy that will take care of you, someone that will help you do what you are working. This someone also has to need your help.
Aside from the next to last sentence being gramatically incomprehensible, it's quite obvious you *don't* know kat at all.
quote:erosomniac, I got a message from a guy offering me $70+ an hour to walk on him.
This is where my friend needs to chime in with her story about the guy who offered her $10,000 if he could video tape her crying while having her head shaved.
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1) Kat does want someone who loves and values her and makes her feel loved
2) She HATES being "taken care of" in the way implied, however that is different from making someone feel special and valued.
3) As she said before she's not a "training wheels" practice relationship sort of date. If you are a needy person, you need not apply. She's not your therapist. She's got her life together, you'd better have yours.
4) If you met Kat you *would* be falling at her feet within a matter of minutes. She's that wonderful.
I completely understand what you are saying. I feel that way myself. I call it the Brunhilda Theory. If you deserve me, you are hero enough to brave the ring-of-fire.
I am also pretty much an "old maid" at this point.
I am not saying this to contradict you or mock you. I am quite sincere. All I am saying is maybe I have made it too hard?
Of course, you may just be way more "worth it".
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It's been my experience that women who want you to jump through hoops of fire to win them either never really stop wanting you to jump through hoops or turn clingingly submissive once you do "win" them. I'm not interested in either. I prefer relationships between equals.
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And alas for me, though I spend my time on the this forum desperately seeking after some of the fabled internet love, I seem only to attract those women who are off-limits. Cruelty, thy name is the Hatrack Singles Scene.
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quote:Originally posted by erosomniac: This is where my friend needs to chime in with her story about the guy who offered her $10,000 if he could video tape her crying while having her head shaved.
That was me. And it wasn't on Myspace, although I'd prefer Myspace messages to direct contact with creeps. I love my hair. It is worth at LEAST $10,000. I think it was for some kind of sick head shaving porn site. It is SO hard being pretty. *no sarcasm* Posts: 308 | Registered: Sep 2005
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There is a diverse world of mates out there for everyone. Thinking that all or a majority of women are valueing a specific set of traits above others is a sure sign that you lack perspective. Sure there are girls out there that admire a take charge, damn the consequences kind of guy. So what? There are also lots of women that want a mate that will listen to them, value their thoughts and solicit their advice. Sometimes the "Nice guy" sobriquet protects you from the chaff that your really didn't need anyway.
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Then there are the girls who totally just want to watch me and ersomomniac make out. (It's the E names.)
--Enigmatic (regrets that he had to go back to work immediately after posting previously, and missed the fallout)
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I'm just wondering where you find people willing to pay to tape you getting your head shaved. Although I'd figure $10,000 was a starting point and negotiate up. But I don't think I could manage to cry, so I guess I'm not qualified.
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Hello Hyperfried! I see that you joined in April, but we must not post in the same threads, in general, so--belatedly--welcome! I just wanted to say that I was stunned to hear you describe yourself as a thirteen year old, because you don't "sound" like one at all in your writing--you sound much more adult! Posts: 13680 | Registered: Mar 2002
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I could build an awfully nice new garage for 10 grand. And probably remodel my bathroom, too. And it's been 7 years since I shaved my head, so my hair is waist length again. *speculates*
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But, I did read the first post. And my response, regardless of whether or not someone has already said this...
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I just wanted to say that I was stunned to hear you describe yourself as a thirteen year old, because you don't "sound" like one at all in your writing--you sound much more adult! ![[Smile]](smile.gif)
