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Author Topic: Need a (((hug))), take a (((hug))), have a (((hug))), leave a (((hug)))
Belle
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*hug*
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blacwolve
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*kisses new page*

((((shira)))) I love you dearly,but do you have any idea how painful that is?

((((Raia))))
((((rivka))))

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Belle
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*dances*

I have the 1000th hug!

Since it is such an auspiciously numbered hug, it goes out to every jatraquero!

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Valkyrie
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(((((((((((((((((((((((koga)))))))))))))))))))))))) Sorry the hug is so late. I hope everything is better now. [Frown]
(((((((val))))))
(((((((rivka)))))
((((((((((((((((((((((raia)))))))))))))))))))))))) im sorry [Frown]
((((((tt&t)))))))
((((((kidyanna))))))) hello [Smile] sorry about your job [Frown]
((((((((((((((((((((((marek))))))))))))))))))))) im sorry [Frown]
((((((anthro))))))
((((((imogen))))) hows that arm?
im tired so... (((((every one who wants one)))))

[ January 25, 2004, 11:22 PM: Message edited by: Valkyrie ]

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Anna
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((((((((((Kidyanna))))))))))
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BobbyK
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*Finds sanity*

I quit my job. I've been working 6 days a week,
anywhere from 8-11 hour shifts. No breaks often.
On top of being run ragged, the kitchen(I work
in a restaurant) is taking over an hour to get
food to the tables, AND keeps running out of
EVERYTHING.

"Welcome to Red Lobster, my name is Bobby. I'm
gonna be your server tonight. Just to let you
know, we're out of all fresh fish, center-cut
sirloin, and chicken breast."

Tired, embarassed, and broke; I walked in Red
Lobster Thursday, shirts in hand.

Backstory: 3 General Managers in three months.
No Kitchen Manager currently. And our current GM
and one of the other 2 managers is new. So, we
have one manager with any time under her belt.

Because management is suffering, some servers
who have been there forever step in and act as
managers to fill in called a "Server
Professional."

Shirts in hand, I walk in to find our server
professional filling out seating charts for the
week. She asked what the hell I was doing. I
told her I was done. It was wearing my health and
sanity away to nothing. Done. Done. Done.

My mom hates this. She's a firm believer, as am
I, in having a secure job in place before
quiting a job. Well, the current work setup
wasn't allowing for sleep, let alone a job hunt
including interview and whatnot.

Cheryle asked what else I could do.

Rrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr. *E-brake*

Cheryle "I'm sure Meghan(Our 1 weathered
manager) would rather reposition, rather than
lose you altogether."

A sit down with Meghan and the Gen Manager, and
I'm now a host/busser/alley coordinator.
Possibly bar tender in the new future, though
that may call for some 11 hour shifts again.
Which I'm not interested in. I go for my first
day as a host at Red Lobster in an hour, and am
finally happy about going to work.

Sorry I haven't been around. I tend to be
reclousive when things are going wrong. I keep
my doomsayer mode to myself. It's for your
protection, honest.

You guys SO rock!!!!!!!

You have NO idea how big a smile I got to find
recent hugs after my month of waywardness. Thank
you thank you thank you!! I needed 'em!

(((((((((((((((RIVKA)))))))))))))))))))))) [Kiss]
(((((((((((((((RIVKA))))))))))))))))))))))
(((((((((((((((RIVKA))))))))))))))))))))))
(((((((((((((((RIVKA))))))))))))))))))))))
(((((((((((((((RIVKA))))))))))))))))))))))
(((((((((((((((RIVKA)))))))))))))))))))))) [Kiss]
(((((((((((Valentine))))))))))))) Thank you for putting up with me sweetie!
(((((((((((((((Anthro)))))))))) BM, right?
((((((((((((((mongo[or would it be konrek?])))))))))
(((((((((((((((((imogen)))))))))))))))))
((((((((((((((((TT&T)))))))))))))))) Too good for MSN these days? [Wink]
(((((((((((kidyanna)))))))))) I wish you good luck.

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Eruve Nandiriel
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I could use a hug. I was stuck at the scene of bad wreck yesterday. (not IN the wreck, just there) Then when I tried to sleep last night, I kept seeing the car flipping towards me. [Angst]
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rivka
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(((((Mayday)))))
(((((kidyanna))))) Welcome again! [Big Grin]
(((((Belle)))))
(((((blacwolve)))))
(((((Valkyrie)))))
(((((Anna)))))
((((((((((Bobby)))))))))) [Smile] I'm glad you improved your job situation! Yay! And that you came back -- I do the self-exiled-growly-bear-in-a-cave thing too. [Wink]
((((((((((Eruve)))))))))) [Eek!] Before you go to sleep, tell yourself that you have the power to change your dreams. If the car flips toward you, shove it back! Hey, why shouldn't you have superpowers in a dream? (This technique doesn't work for everyone, but with practice, can be very useful. You might also try visualizing the dream revision while still awake.)
(((((Raia)))))
(((((tt&t)))))
(((((imogen)))))
(((((Marek)))))
(((((Derrell)))))
(((((Valentine)))))
(((((Zotto!)))))
(((((Anthro)))))
(((((Narn)))))

[Group Hug] Hatrack [Group Hug]

I could use more hugs, please. And maybe a large cave. *sigh*

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Anna
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((((((Eruve))))))
((((((Bob))))))

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Anna
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((((((((((Rivka))))))))))
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(((rivka)))
(((Raia)))
(((Bobbyk)))
(((katharina)))
[Group Hug] eveyone [Group Hug]

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Raia
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(((((Derrell)))))
(((((Eru)))))
(((((Shira)))))
(((((Zotto!)))))
(((((Anthro)))))
(((((Wonko)))))
(((((Koga)))))
(((((Anna)))))
(((((rivka)))))
(((((Mayday)))))
(((((Kidyanna)))))
(((((Belle)))))
(((((blacwolve)))))
(((((Kyrie)))))
(((((BobbyK)))))

Sorry no personalized little notes this time, guys... Next time, I promise, I will acknowledge you all! Thank you so much for the hugs. Things are a tiny bit better, but not much... [Frown]

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Eruve Nandiriel
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[Frown] (((((Raia)))))
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Raia
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(((((Eru))))) Thanks. Man, you're fast!
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Eruve Nandiriel
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Really?
*checks watch*
Well, not that time. [Wink]

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Koga
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Raia, If this is a race to 2000 posts I think Eruve may win, but way to go on almost being at 1900 (which you may have passed by the time this read)

(((((Eruve))))) I was going to comment on the loss of the last post thread, but I see I was too slow [Cool]
(((((Raia))))) I hope it get's better for you soon
(((((BobbyK))))) good to see you around again
(((((rivka)))))I can always count on the queen of the hug thread
(((((Zotto!))))) thanks for the email
(((((kdyanna))))) welcome, I know you have heard that alot here, but not from me yet
(((((Valkyrie))))) thanks for all the hugs (Marek is my other screen name [Wink] )
(((((Anna)))))
(((((Belle))))) any hug on the thread seems special to me, but the 1000th hug is most definately a cool one to get to post [Hat]
(((((tt&t)))))I hope the party was fun, and I hope to talk to you on AIM again soon, but I understand being busy (I was assumeing I was just never on the same time you were)
(((((Myr))))) ah the wonders of chat, thanks for helping to distract me from homework, and other stuff

Thanks everyone who hugged me, things are slowly getting better, or easier to deel with anyway.

[ January 27, 2004, 12:13 AM: Message edited by: Koga ]

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Zotto!
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(((riv))) Are things well?
(((Bobby))) Good for you, man. Slave no more! *raises fist*
(((Rai))) Hope things are getting better...
(((Marek))) ...and the same goes for you.

(((everyone else))) Because I'm a shmoe and I have to get off the pooter.

(((Narn&TT&T))) WHERE the blazes are you two?! [Big Grin] [Razz]

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(((Raia)))
(((Koga)))

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(((((Anna))))) [Smile]
(((((Derrell)))))
((((((((((Raia))))))))))
(((((Eruve)))))
((((((((((Marek))))))))))
(((((Zotto!))))) Not really. Working on getting there, though, I think.
(((((EL)))))
(((((blacwolve)))))
(((((imogen)))))
(((((Valkyrie)))))
(((((tt&t)))))
((((((Valentine)))))
(((((Anthro)))))

(((((you!)))))

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Zotto!
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Haha! I snuck back on the comp for a lil while!

...ostensibly to do work, but STILL...

(((riv))) Well keep working at it. Hope things get better soon!

(((Hatrack!)))

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rivka
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(((((Zot))))) Thanks. [Smile] You should get on AIM every once in a while! But not necessarily now -- I'm heading off to [Sleep] .
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((((((everyone))))))) [Smile]
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((((((((((Pints))))))))))
[Wink]

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thank you everyone for the hugs you sent my way things are going a small bit better.
(((Raia)))
(((Rivka))
(((Blacwolve)))
(((and everyone else [Group Hug] )))

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Valkyrie
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I dont know what to say [Cry]

well anyway,
(((((((rivka)))))))
(((((((eruve)))))))
hope things get better for you both.

(((other people i ment to give a hug, and/or those who just need one)))

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Anthro
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(((Riv)))
(((Raia)))
(((Eru)))
(((Valk)))
(((Fool)))

((((Anyone Else))))

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kidyanna
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(((Everyone)))

so far everyone I have talked to either on here or otherwise could use a hug so , [Group Hug] this one is for everyone.

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I could use some hugs, please. The reason why is explained in a thread i started earlier today.

http://www.hatrack.com/ubb/cgi/ultimatebb.cgi?ubb=get_topic;f=2;t=021111

(((Raia)))
(((rivka)))
(((Kat)))

[Group Hug] everyone [Group Hug]

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Derrell
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Helloooo, is anybody home? [Angst]
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Raia
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(((((Derrell))))) That's a beautiful thread. It made me cry. I'm so sorry your mother is under those conditions, I hope it gets better for her, I really do.
(((((Koga))))) Thanks, I hope things are going better for you, too.
(((((Eru))))) [Wink]
(((((Zot))))) Thanks, pal! I've been missing you around here, great to see you back! [Smile]
(((((Equae Legit))))) Thanks, appreciated. [Smile]
(((((rivka))))) [Kiss]
(((((Wonko))))) Don't see you around here much!
(((((Fool))))) Ditto!
(((((Kidyanna))))) All will be well. We will find you a nice French boy with blond hair and blue eyes, and his name is Henri. We will also find you a job that pays $20 an hour. [Wink]
(((((Valkyrie))))) Dearest, why are you crying?? [Frown] We had a snow day, that should at least make you feel a LITTLE better! [Wink]
(((((Anthro))))) Thanks... you never forget me, and I appreciate it!
(((((Narn))))) COME BACK!!!!
(((((tt&t))))) DITTO!!!
(((((imogen, Mayday, Anna, Shira, Damien, and anyone else who visits this thread on rare occasion!)))))
((((((((((((((((Everyone else I've forgotten, I'm so sorry)))))))))))))))))

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(((All who need one. Those what don't, bugger off. Or drop a nickel in the jar. [Wink] )))

And special hugs to:
(((Valk)))
(((Derrell)))

Oh, and to (((Rivka))), who taught me hugs are best if given free, though it was about as effective as trying to make a dent on water. [Taunt]

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(((((Zotto!)))))
(((((Wonko)))))
(((((Fool)))))
(((((kidyanna)))))
((((((((((Kyrie))))))))))
(((((Anthro))))) Water can wear a hole in stone, given enough time. [Big Grin]
((((((((((Derrell))))))))))
(((((Raia)))))
(((((Eruve)))))
(((((Marek)))))
(((((blacwolve)))))
(((((imogen)))))
(((((tt&t)))))
((((((Valentine)))))
(((((Narn)))))
(((((Damien)))))

(((((YOU!)))))

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(((((rivka)))))
(((((Raia)))))Thank you. So far she's doing alright.
(((Anthro)))

[Group Hug] everyone [Group Hug]

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*sniffle*

I have been forgotten by Raia (see her post on January 26). You still get a ((hug)) from me today, though.

((((Raia)))) [Confused]
((((rivka))))
((((BobbyK)))) I'm glad to hear the new position is working out for you, hon. You needed to take care of you.
(((((Kyrie))))
((((Koga))))
((((Zotto!))))
((((Darrell))))
((((tt&t))))

Oh gosh, it's late and I know I'm forgetting many, so ((((BIG HUGS)))) to all I've missed!

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Derrell,

My mother had a cancer too so I know it's difficult in many ways to live with someone you love and go through that. I hope she'll be well.
((((((((((Derrell))))))))))

[ January 28, 2004, 04:45 AM: Message edited by: Anna ]

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((((Valentine))))
(((rivka))))
(((Raia)))Thank you.
(((Anna)))
(((BobbyK))) I hope It gets betterat work.

[Group Hug] EVERYONE [Group Hug]

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(((rivka)))
(((Raia)))
(((Farnmgirl)))

[Group Hug] everyone [Group Hug]

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(((Rivka))) Sorry, but I said making a dent in water, not using water as a denter.

(((Val)))
(((Valk)))
(((Derrell)))
(((Raia)))
(((Other folks what need it)))

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Feeling some what more optomistic today, [Frown] better then this. Almost at this [Razz] .

Anyway,
first of all (((hugs)))) to the people im missing from lack of attention span.

Now,
(((((raia))))) [Razz] snow days are good, but 2 hour delays are nothing to be snezzed at!
(((((val))))) [Wink] (never to be forgoten)
(((((rivka))))) [Hail] need I say any more??
(((((eruve)))))
(((((anthro))))) [Kiss] thank you so much for the spesial hug
(((((kidyanna))))) im including myself in the "everyone" hug [Wink]
(((((((((derell)))))))))im so sorry [Frown]

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(((Valkyrie)))Thank you.
(((Raia)))
(((rivka)))

[Group Hug] everyone [Group Hug]

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quote:
*sniffle*

I have been forgotten by Raia (see her post on January 26). You still get a ((hug)) from me today, though.

((((Raia)))) [Confused]

(((((((((((((((((((((((((((VAL))))))))))))))))))))))))) Sweetie, I'm so sorry!!! I didn't mean to forget you!!!!!!!!! ((((((((Valentine))))))))) [Kiss]
(((((Anthro))))) I find it amusing that after my post about how you never forget me, you don't give me a hug. [Wink] Just kidding, here's one for you!
(((((rivka))))) [Kiss]
(((((Derrell))))) Anytime. And I really do hope she feels better.
(((((Derrell's mom)))))
(((((Anna))))) Because you're a sweetie.
(((((BobbyK))))) How are you holding up?
(((((Kyrie))))) No, I love the ONE day of normal scheduling we're gonna have this week! [Wink]
(((((Kidyanna))))) Feeling better? I'm still searching for your French boy!
(((((Zotto!))))) Who needs a reason to hug Zot?
(((((((((((((((((((Anyone else I forgot, and Val))))))))))))))))))))))))

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(((((Derrell)))))
(((((Valentine)))))
(((((Anna)))))
(((((Anthro))))) I know what you said. [Smile] My point was, that EVEN stone can be worn down by water. Making a permanent dent in water is easy. Does the Lincoln Tunnel ring a bell? [Big Grin]
(((((Kyrie))))) [Smile]
(((((Raia)))))
(((((Zotto!)))))
(((((kidyanna)))))
(((((Eruve)))))
(((((Marek)))))
(((((blacwolve)))))
(((((imogen)))))
(((((tt&t)))))
(((((Narn)))))
(((((Damien)))))

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(((Raia)))She hasn't got all that sick from the chemo, so it's looking good.
(((rivka)))
(((Valentine)))
(((kidyanna)))
(((Anna)))

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I need some advice. I was really good friends with someone for about 7 months. Like, we were best friends, inseperable, all that. Then she broke up with her boyfriend. After about a month, I realized I really liked him (I'd been friends with him for a couple of years) and he realized he liked me. I asked her if she minded, she said she didn't convincingly enough that we started dating. I'm only saying this because it's prolly important.

After a few months she and I started arguing, about him originally, I didn't think he was the horrible person she did, but later about everything. We drifted apart, didn't enjoy, understand, or like each other anymore. Tonight I IMed her to get some closure about the whole thing, I was expected her to tell me how much she hated me, which would give me enough closure that I could stop worrying about the situation. Instead, we both remember why we were friends in the first place. Right now, we're talking about that. I have a feeling though, that I'm going to have to make a decision about whether or not to be friends again in a little bit. Quite frankly, I dont' want to be hurt again, and she does have a short history of whirlwind relationships. I have no idea what to do. Does anyone have any advice about this?

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(((((((((((blacwolve)))))))))))))
(((((rivka)))))
(((((Derrell))))) I'm so glad to hear that!!!
(((((Everyone from before)))))

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(((((Derrell)))))
((((((((((blacwolve)))))))))) Friendships are hard. You can only try your best. I don't really know what to suggest. [Dont Know] Good luck! (((((blacwolve)))))

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Grr. I hate computers. You guys are great though! [Big Grin]

(((((Raia))))) [Frown] Email me, darlin'. I hope you're ok. (((((Raia)))))
(((((Marek))))) Same to you. I'm worried!(((((Marek)))))
(((((rivka))))) Awww. I'm sorry to hear that! [Frown]
(((((BobbyK))))) Yay for sorting work out! And no, not too good for it, just hardly online at all these days.
(((((Derrell)))))
(((((blacwolve)))))

(((((Zotto!))))) I know,darlin'. [Frown] I hope they're feeling a bit better. And I wish there was something I could do. But in the meantime, (((((Zotto!))))) [Smile] .

(((((everyone who wants cos I gotta rush and my computer hates me)))))

I'm sorry I'm away so much and I never have time to catch up with the hugging. I feel so bad! Especially when you guys always remember to hug me. THANKS!!!!! You guys are awesome. And please forgive me.

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you know you need a hug...
((((((you))))))

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(((((blacwolve))))) I know what you're going through, I'm sort of going through the same thing right now. My best friends broke up a while ago, and right he and I like each other, but I don't want to mess up our friendships and...*takes deep breath*...I'm hoping it will work out if I give it time.
(((((Raia))))) How are you doing? You seem to have cheered up a bit.
(((((Marek))))) I decided not to strangle you. [Wink]
(((((rivka))))) [Hail]
(((((Derell))))) [Frown]
(((((EVERYONE!))))) [Big Grin]

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(((((Eruve))))) Thanks, being strangled would have sucked, besides I didn't feel like makeing a road trip for that. [Razz]
(((((tt&t))))) Sorry to hear that your worried, I hope whatever it is that has you worried works out.
(((((Raia)))))
(((((rivka))))) Thanks for the info from the other day, I guess I need to remember that.
(((((blacwolve))))) that is a very dificult sounding situation, all I know to say to you is, good luck, I hope it turns out well.
(((((Derrel))))) I'm sorry I don't think I've hugged yoe before (I haven't actually checked on that), I've been very distracted lately, my apologies, I hope your mom gets through all this ok.
(((((Valkyrie))))) I'm glad to hear you are feeling a bit more optimistic, and thanks I took
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you know you need a hug...
((((((you))))))

that to include me, so thanks
(((((Zotto!))))) Thanks for being there for me

I have alot more I wanted to put in this post, but I have to be in class in... 30 seconds ago [Angst] so I'll finish this later.

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